Ask the Ladies

[Firefly]

What do you find the most sexually excitable spot on your body? and why?

my mind...tickle my imagination and i'm yours.

 

[Firefly]

What do you find the most sexually excitable spot on your body? and why?

Body part that can be touched with fingers... maybe neck, nape, shoulders. Nothing like a kiss on the back of the neck or shoulder while preparing a meal. Or tickly fingers on the clavicle while laying on the sofa or bed having a chat.

Lips, of course, are a very useful starting point. Drawing circles with your hand or pressing them closed with your thumb. There are all kinds of lovely lippy feelings.

But when I am NOT in the mood to be touched by anything... squeezing my ankles and lower calf is a very effective way to change that.

 

[Chandos]

Body part that can be touched with fingers... maybe neck, nape, shoulders. Nothing like a kiss on the back of the neck or shoulder while preparing a meal. Or tickly fingers on the clavicle while laying on the sofa or bed having a chat.

Lips, of course, are a very useful starting point. Drawing circles with your hand or pressing them closed with your thumb. There are all kinds of lovely lippy feelings.

But when I am NOT in the mood to be touched by anything... squeezing my ankles and lower calf is a very effective way to change that.

Lovely answer. Erotic touching/caressing is the best. Mine is someone caressing my inner thighs. Having commented on your legs, I am sure there is a queue to squeeze your lower calfs

 

[Chandos]

What is the thing you least like or would change about your body?

I am 62 and I think I have kept myself in reasonable shape. went bald in my 40s didn't bother me. Now the thing I like least about my body is my arse. It was something I was complmented on when I was younger, it now looks like an elephants, wrinkly. I want my old one back.

Having said that, remember be body positive!

 

[tristar]

What is the thing you least like or would change about your body?

I am 62 and I think I have kept myself in reasonable shape. went bald in my 40s didn't bother me. Now the thing I like least about my body is my arse. It was something I was complmented on when I was younger, it now looks like an elephants, wrinkly. I want my old one back.

Having said that, remember be body positive!

Mine is my belly,,, after shrinking nearly 4" my belly started to stck out, tried dieting
And exercise but belly don't go, grrr

 

[Firefly]

What is the thing you least like or would change about your body?

I am 62 and I think I have kept myself in reasonable shape. went bald in my 40s didn't bother me. Now the thing I like least about my body is my arse. It was something I was complmented on when I was younger, it now looks like an elephants, wrinkly. I want my old one back.

Having said that, remember be body positive!

I have a shoulder injury that makes some actions painful or not as doable as they once were due to a loss of flexibility. So, I would heal that properly or undo the injury if I could. I suspect with the right physiotherapy I could probably improve it significantly...I should probably get hunting for someone who can help with that.

Also, not the hugest fan of my skin these days. It scars very easily and is photosensitive which makes life awkward for someone who loves being outside as much as I do. Recently, I find it a little distressing when making new erotica as all i can see it the leopard print scarring...but I'm sure most people won't even notice, so I am learning little by little to love this skin too.

 

[Chandos]

I have a shoulder injury that makes some actions painful or not as doable as they once were due to a loss of flexibility. So, I would heal that properly or undo the injury if I could. I suspect with the right physiotherapy I could probably improve it significantly...I should probably get hunting for someone who can help with that.

Also, not the hugest fan of my skin these days. It scars very easily and is photosensitive which makes life awkward for someone who loves being outside as much as I do. Recently, I find it a little distressing when making new erotica as all i can see it the leopard print scarring...but I'm sure most people won't even notice, so I am learning little by little to love this skin too.

Shoulder problems can be annoying. I injured mine a while back playing squash, couldn't lift my arm above my shoulder for ages. Got some good physio exeercises and it is pretty good now.

From the photos I've seen of you L can't say I have noticed, I could have been distracted though I think if we can come to terms with these things , like my arse, and accept them as part of who we are it makes it easier to deal with.

 

[Deleted member 77355]

I have a shoulder injury that makes some actions painful or not as doable as they once were due to a loss of flexibility. So, I would heal that properly or undo the injury if I could. I suspect with the right physiotherapy I could probably improve it significantly...I should probably get hunting for someone who can help with that.

Also, not the hugest fan of my skin these days. It scars very easily and is photosensitive which makes life awkward for someone who loves being outside as much as I do. Recently, I find it a little distressing when making new erotica as all i can see it the leopard print scarring...but I'm sure most people won't even notice, so I am learning little by little to love this skin too.

Don’t change you’re lovely as you are
I had a frozen shoulder as @Chandos says physio works and don’t suppose you have shrapnel in yours

 

[cumguzzlingsissy76]

I realise this is a subjective question... but is there any particular porn films you ladies would recommend watching as part of a couple?

 

[Firefly]

I realise this is a subjective question... but is there any particular porn films you ladies would recommend watching as part of a couple?

If you have never watched a film together before perhaps choosing something that you two can laugh about. laughter leads to talking and talking needs to perhaps being able to discuss what kind of film you would actually enjoy watching together.

Other idea would be to give your partner a film as homework to watch on their own and then talk about it afterwards.

Once you have some sense of each other's tastes I think it'll be easier to find the kinds of films you would both be interested in.

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Question have you or would you meet someone from the internet.if so how did it go

Met my man on the internet… went very very well cause we’ve been together 4 years @mrcouple4fun and going strong <3 we are looking to meet someone now but not in a relationship way just for some extra fun

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Sometimes we have questions...that lacking experience, or the appropriate anatomy, can only answer by asking...well here is a thread for just that. Do you have a question for a woman? about the female sex experience? regarding opinions, experiences, kinks and more? Ask your heart out.

Ladies, if you find a question you can speak to, quote it and give your reply. We are all curious about your take on it.
Feel free to tag people and ask them questions directly.

(To Ask the Men a question --> Go here)
Be silly, be kind. No kink shaming, please. And as @Adie would say: Have fun.

@Firefly love these threads

 

[Firefly]

@Firefly love these threads

I am looking forward to hearing some of your and your Mr's ideas about questions you find interesting. The more voices we have the merrier.

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Question as i sit here in a face mask how much do you like a fella to look after himself ?

So well groomed is good, but I don’t like overly groomed, like… tame your eyebrows but don’t make them feminine. i personally don’t like my men to look feminine. So there’s a balance. However… saying that… I also wouldn’t want my man to change what he does and how he wants to look, if I wear makeup it’s because I like the way I look in make up, I wear clothes I feel good in ect. I can only assume that’s the same for you guys? You feel good in yourself your going to be happier and more confident right? And confidence is sexy. As long as your not full of yourself. Again balance I guess, and finding the right person who likes you for you.

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Ok here is one for the ladies... how many of you like or dislike porn? If you do what type is your favourite? If you don't why don't you?

So, i do like porn, but I dislike a lot of porn too. I don’t like cheesy or overly sleezey porn. It’s a turn off. Personally I prefer amateur porn. Feels less fake, less staged, so more sexy.

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Question: Most men like the idea of watching two women together... Are women turned on by watching, or the thought of watching, two men together?

Yes, I quite like the thought

 

[mrscouple4fun]

I would do love to do it, but would you take part in a naked bike ride?

Never haha

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Question - Do women enjoy anal sex as much as men think they do?

I do

 

[mrscouple4fun]

Why do women think men have a desire to post/send dickpics (have known to be guilty of posting ) and what do women think when they recive one.

I think men have the desire to post/send dick pics because they do post/send dick pics ALOT and it depends what mood I’m in when I receive one. If I’m trying to get on with real life stuff I’d probably roll my eyes and not respond if I’m horny and me and the mr are looking for fun then all good. Also in interest of being honest I’ll sometimes just outright ask for a dick pic, me and my man like to have fun over cam quite a bit and sometimes we wanna see the goods first. So can’t really complain about being sent them when I’ll sometimes ask without even saying hi lol

 

[mrscouple4fun]

What attracts a women to a man when they first meet?

I have a thing for shoulders haha but behaviour really matters, confidence without being too full of yourself, not being too ‘cool’ to show interest, and manners!!! Seems to be a disappearing trait. It’s not a one size fits all question or answer, if you gel with someone you gel. If we all liked the same thing it’d be simpler but also very boring