Ask the Ladies

[BBW1986]

Is feeling slutty different from feeling horny?

Absolutely!

 

[Firefly]

Absolutely!

Care to elaborate?

 

[BBW1986]

Care to elaborate?

When I think of slutty I think behaviour over emotion. Whether being treated as or behaving like a slut. A floozy, tart, hussy, in some ways lesser than. *let the complaints begin*

As opposed to feeling horny, 100% emotion, turned on, hot, passionate, can't concentrate on anything else but him tearing my clothes off and ravishing me until we're both physically spent and collapse into a sweaty mess of exhaustion and cum.

Also, when feeling horny, it is often impossible to spend time on grammar

Xx

 

[Chandos]

Question - Do women enjoy anal sex as much as men think they do?

 

[Firefly]

Question - Do women enjoy anal sex as much as men think they do?

Some women do.

There is a lot that can be unpleasant though so really good communication is a must.

 

[Chandos]

Some women do.

There is a lot that can be unpleasant though so really good communication is a must.

Thank you

 

[Chandos]

Why do women think men have a desire to post/send dickpics (have known to be guilty of posting ) and what do women think when they recive one.

 

[BBW1986]

Why do women think men have a desire to post/send dickpics (have known to be guilty of posting ) and what do women think when they recive one.

On a site like this, post what you want
However, there's no excuse for sending an unsolicited dick pic.

 

[Firefly]

Why do women think men have a desire to post/send dickpics (have known to be guilty of posting ) and what do women think when they receive one.

I'm not sure why men enjoy photographing and sharing images of their genitalia in various states of arousal. I imagine though if part of my body stood up when I was happy I would photograph it, too. The angle is easy, and the meaning straight forward. I think men are more stimulated by visual things as well, so graphic photos tend to be arousing. Perhaps men feel that is the best way to make a woman feel aroused.

I find graphic photos leave nothing to the imagination; however, engaging with someone largely through chat/text on the level of fantasy and imagination being too explicit kills creativity. It is the unknown things that allow for my imagination to run wild. So generally my response to receiving a photo of genitalia is annoyance.

 

[LovesToLickYou72]

I'm not sure why men enjoy photographing and sharing images of their genitalia in various states of arousal. I imagine though if part of my body stood up when I was happy I would photograph it, too. The angle is easy, and the meaning straight forward. I think men are more stimulated by visual things as well, so graphic photos tend to be arousing. Perhaps men feel that is the best way to make a woman feel aroused.

I find graphic photos leave nothing to the imagination; however, engaging with someone largely through chat/text on the level of fantasy and imagination being too explicit kills creativity. It is the unknown things that allow for my imagination to run wild. So generally my response to receiving a photo of genitalia is annoyance.

Have to say I personally find a lingerie shot much more arousing, more seductive than a nude shot. I like there being something left to the imagination, something left to reveal

 

[Chandos]

I'm not sure why men enjoy photographing and sharing images of their genitalia in various states of arousal. I imagine though if part of my body stood up when I was happy I would photograph it, too. The angle is easy, and the meaning straight forward. I think men are more stimulated by visual things as well, so graphic photos tend to be arousing. Perhaps men feel that is the best way to make a woman feel aroused.

I find graphic photos leave nothing to the imagination; however, engaging with someone largely through chat/text on the level of fantasy and imagination being too explicit kills creativity. It is the unknown things that allow for my imagination to run wild. So generally my response to receiving a photo of genitalia is annoyance.

Firefly, as always a good response with some things to think about. I agree that leaving things to the imagination is far better.

 

[Firefly]

Question: Do you / how often do you engage in hands-free masturbation?

 

[Firefly]

Question: How do you edge yourself?

 

[Slinx]

Question - Do women enjoy anal sex as much as men think they do?

I love anal but agree with Firefly. Communication is key to enjoyable arse sex xx

 

[Chandos]

What attracts a women to a man when they first meet?

 

[Soakmycat]

Question: Do you use toys when alone? Do you have a favourite toy?

Alot

 

[Firefly]

What attracts a women to a man when they first meet?

Ignobel award-like qualities.
First should make you laugh, then should make you think.

I don't know that that's true or that there's any one thing creates chemistry. Different Strokes for different folks they say.

 

[BBW1986]

What attracts a women to a man when they first meet?

Confidence, if I'm smiling already, how he cuddled me, hands, eye contact, smile, outfit, height, scent x

 

[Slinx]

What attracts a women to a man when they first meet?

I really don't think one woman can speak for all in terms of what attracts them at a first meet. I can tell you though that I place a lot of value on good communication and do like a man who can listen and responds and talk with me on a level, rather than going for my "quirks" or mannerisms and slights as "cute" and in turn deflecting from everything I have just said.

I guess it is age and now I see the "you're not backward in coming forward brigade" if I assert a response, or the "You're shy has the cat got your tongue brigade, that's cute" if I don't, I just can't unsee it.

So there is that one personal tick for me is conversation with apparent mutual respect I like the combination of playful and knowing how to enjoy while also having a serious side when needed

Physical attraction is a thing of course, but much of that comes in how a man carries himself in terms of communication, integrity confidence and importantly the ability to introspect. Charisma is an alluring, but too much can actually be a negative trait.

In short, a man being his good self who is trustworthy and insightful, not bigoted and a good honest communicator and a good balance of playful and serious are probably the most attractive things in my eyes and last but not least a man who is sexually mature and who does not hold draconian views about women who are not ashamed to enjoy sex.

I'd like to think these things are important in any attraction of ones preferred Gender. Respect people as you would like to be respected.

 

[Cheekychef]

When I think of slutty I think behaviour over emotion. Whether being treated as or behaving like a slut. A floozy, tart, hussy, in some ways lesser than. *let the complaints begin*

As opposed to feeling horny, 100% emotion, turned on, hot, passionate, can't concentrate on anything else but him tearing my clothes off and ravishing me until we're both physically spent and collapse into a sweaty mess of exhaustion and cum.

Also, when feeling horny, it is often impossible to spend time on grammar

Xx

Such a well defined description. I'm horny now, but I know I want to be slutty later, hehe.