Mum Wife: Drawn to the Weirdos and Looking to Chat

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Quick info on me: 44, Oxford, busty, been married 20 years, love my husband and 2 girls, but wanting to find other pleasures before I get to 50, but also shielding my family from it at the same time.

I can't help but almost fall into the cliché of liking confident guys, although actually it's not necessarily the confidence, but men who know what they like and want.

Having found this site, I think it's been such a huge draw for me in that so many of the men on here are so confident, know what they want, and in fact border on outrageous lol.

This is probably helped by the fact it is a website, but I can't help but be drawn into reading the threads, chats, and get drawn in by the more certain men who post.

I hate to fall into the cliché, but it's so removed from what life is like in the normal everyday, and for me sex is intrinsically connected to mature men (older than me who like younger than them), who are confident, able to seduce and (vitally) know what they want.

That's my biggest turn on, and it happens rarely (esp. since covid) but a guy who is certain and confident, and a little cheeky, and able to play the little inch by inch gains within seduction, so that I can almost pretend everything is innocent when really I know it isn't.

Men online seem to have the personality for this, whereas in person once every 5 years you come across a guy who you could (although I haven't) end up bending over for as if you have no choice because it's escalated bit by bit.

I struggle to be online most of the time due to my family, but I do try to check when I can, so if you match me and are interested, please comment and I'll pm you if interested.

xxx
 
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Quick info on me: 44, Oxford, busty, been married 20 years, love my husband and 2 girls, but wanting to find other pleasures before I get to 50, but also shielding my family from it at the same time.

I can't help but almost fall into the cliché of liking confident guys, although actually it's not necessarily the confidence, but men who know what they like and want.

Having found this site, I think it's been such a huge draw for me in that so many of the men on here are so confident, know what they want, and in fact border on outrageous lol.

This is probably helped by the fact it is a website, but I can't help but be drawn into reading the threads, chats, and get drawn in by the more certain men who post.

I hate to fall into the cliché, but it's so removed from what life is like in the normal everyday, and for me sex is intrinsically connected to mature men (older than me), who are confident and able to seduce.

That's my biggest turn on, and it happens rarely (esp. since covid) but a guy who is certain and confident, and a little cheeky, and able to play the little inch by inch gains within seduction, so that I can almost pretend everything is innocent when really I know it isn't.

Men online seem to have the personality for this, whereas in person once every 5 years you come across a guy who you could (although I haven't) end up bending over for as if you have no choice because it's escalated bit by bit.

I struggle to be online most of the time due to my family, but I do try to check when I can, so if you match me and are interested, please comment and I'll pm you if interested.

xxx
Y stop at 50 lol life is for living and exploring:)
 

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Hi, in a similar boat to you. Don't like to disclose too much in open chat as discretion is key. Would like to get to know you more.
 

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They have always said, make a woman laugh and her knickers will be arou d her ankles before you know it. So its easy to be cheeky on here and get away with it. Glad to see that us older blokes are making your day!!!
 
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They have always said, make a woman laugh and her knickers will be arou d her ankles before you know it. So its easy to be cheeky on here and get away with it. Glad to see that us older blokes are making your day!!!
Thing is, it only works for me if I can believe you're like it in real life too lol
 

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My wife married a dirty sod, so she is used to it. But nice when she piints out did you see that woman in the low cut top or similiar. I just smile and say do you think i would of missed a nice pair like that and she sniggers
 
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My wife married a dirty sod, so she is used to it. But nice when she piints out did you see that woman in the low cut top or similiar. I just smile and say do you think i would of missed a nice pair like that and she sniggers
lol sounds like you have a nice, understanding wife x
 

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I look but i dont touch!!!!! I can be a perv and get away with it, as i'm not silly enough to try anything. Happily married, mind just wanders into fantasy. A horny hubby makes a wife very happy
 

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A couple of years ago me and the wife went upto London with a few of our friends, meal few drinks and to go on a cruise up the Thames and there was an Elvis singer doing some show. The ladies like a bit of Elvis, well we had been on tge boat about an hour and everyone was mingling on the two stories of the boat. Well one of my mates and his wife came up to me and my mate and said come and have a look at this. Well there was this woman in 50's dress, stockings, heels etc standing at the top of the stairs and my mates wife said enjoy the view from down here, lovely upskirt view. Cheeky to have a look but not to do anything further, pervs dream
 

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Quick info on me: 44, Oxford, busty, been married 20 years, love my husband and 2 girls, but wanting to find other pleasures before I get to 50, but also shielding my family from it at the same time.

I can't help but almost fall into the cliché of liking confident guys, although actually it's not necessarily the confidence, but men who know what they like and want.

Having found this site, I think it's been such a huge draw for me in that so many of the men on here are so confident, know what they want, and in fact border on outrageous lol.

This is probably helped by the fact it is a website, but I can't help but be drawn into reading the threads, chats, and get drawn in by the more certain men who post.

I hate to fall into the cliché, but it's so removed from what life is like in the normal everyday, and for me sex is intrinsically connected to mature men (older than me), who are confident and able to seduce.

That's my biggest turn on, and it happens rarely (esp. since covid) but a guy who is certain and confident, and a little cheeky, and able to play the little inch by inch gains within seduction, so that I can almost pretend everything is innocent when really I know it isn't.

Men online seem to have the personality for this, whereas in person once every 5 years you come across a guy who you could (although I haven't) end up bending over for as if you have no choice because it's escalated bit by bit.

I struggle to be online most of the time due to my family, but I do try to check when I can, so if you match me and are interested, please comment and I'll pm you if interested.

xxx
Scared to reply as if weirdos are drawn to you then I suspect I might be one..!!! But I’m sure I’m not..!! Haha
 
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