What's the youngest/oldest you'd go for?

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Hate to sound boring, but it depends on the person.

I'm 52 and i'm not usually attracted to women below 30 these days, but if I met some one in thier 20's and there was an instant spark, who knows...

I thnk the largest age gap I've had has been about 15 years. I couldn't see myself in a serious relationship with anyone with a 20+ year age gap between us. I'd look like I'd picked them up from school!
 

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I'm 25, but ever since I was a teen I've been increasingly attracted to older men, to the point where men my age don't do it for me anymore, so I was curious, if you're over the age of let's say 40/50, what's the youngest you'd go for? If you're younger what's the oldest you'd go for?
Im a young 63 and currently have a lady friend/neighbour with benefits of 49. All my life ive been lucky to go out with girls much younger than myself
 

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I'm 24 but have enjoyed many younger boys and a few other girls for sexy times/parties etc
Bf has joined in or watched.
Also had fun with a few older & foreign ones esp when away on holidays at 'specialist' resorts
T x
 

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32 here. Age doesn’t really matter unless they’re younger than 20 I’d say. In my early 20s I had the pleasure of spending a night with a woman who was about 50 had a great time. As far as looks go generally that’s not what I find attractive even if the woman was good looking. More so on mannerisms, how they act, carry themselves, treat others etc. If I’m enjoying their company 20 or 60 doesn’t really matter. The woman I’ve been with I’ve found most act confident not necessarily dominant out of the bedroom but then turn submissive in the bedroom no matter the age, from my personal experience.
 

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I'm 25, but ever since I was a teen I've been increasingly attracted to older men, to the point where men my age don't do it for me anymore, so I was curious, if you're over the age of let's say 40/50, what's the youngest you'd go for? If you're younger what's the oldest you'd go for?
I’m 50 I would be happy with a girl 20 years old
 

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I’ve always been attracted to older women & was never really interested in young women (in their 20s)
Now I’m 50 its a little different. I’m still interested in women in their 50s & early 60s as 60 isn’t old.
Women are (rightly) a lot more sexually liberated today. There are a lot of mature women who look after themselves & look good/younger than they are.
I‘ve always found mature women have the experience, know what they want & know how to get it.
However, I’m not against seeing or being involved with someone in their 20s.
Wouldn’t go below 20. BUT it would have to be the right person & its all about chemistry.
Men do have to be careful today regarding younger women (in my opinion)
 

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I'm 36, straight/closeted bi I suppose you would say. I prefer older, too, in both women and men. 45ish up to maybe 65 is hot. Depends on the specimen of course. Older if they're in good shape or specifically have similar kinks/interests. There's definitely a different dynamic with much older x
 

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I'm 43 I couldn't go lower than at least 28. a younger woman maybe nice to look at, but we'd have nothing in common. Plus personally having a daughter I couldn't even look at someone who wasn't at least 10 years older then my own child
 
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I'm 25, but ever since I was a teen I've been increasingly attracted to older men, to the point where men my age don't do it for me anymore, so I was curious, if you're over the age of let's say 40/50, what's the youngest you'd go for? If you're younger what's the oldest you'd go for?
Personally 25 is my lower limit in actuality. Its just where my comfort zone ends.
 
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I’ve always been attracted to older women & was never really interested in young women (in their 20s)
Now I’m 50 its a little different. I’m still interested in women in their 50s & early 60s as 60 isn’t old.
Women are (rightly) a lot more sexually liberated today. There are a lot of mature women who look after themselves & look good/younger than they are.

I‘ve always found mature women have the experience, know what they want & know how to get it.
However, I’m not against seeing or being involved with someone in their 20s.
Wouldn’t go below 20. BUT it would have to be the right person & its all about chemistry.
Men do have to be careful today regarding younger women (in my opinion)
Exactly this. People seem to be aging differently these days. There’s a joke that “60 is the new 40”, but I’m regularly meeting people who are looking a lot younger than they actually are.

I’m also seeing people younger than me, in their 30’s, who are attracted to and in some cases dating, people my age now.

I guess age ain’t what it used to be! Which is lucky if you're an old fart in your 50’s! ;)

I would also agree that men need to be careful about younger women, as well. Younger girls are looking and acting a lot older these days too.
 

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I'm 49 and my GF in the US is 68 and a delightfully dirty fuck slut....I will never go younger than my age again if it come to it, 55+ for me only now, my eyes have been opened!!
Love your post , I’m married 59 and still lust after older
 
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