Ask the Ladies

[Emeris]

Turn on: skin tight boxers
Turn off: loose cotton boxers (and yfronts)

I like seeing the outline of the cock through the material when I'm in touching distance

I love being able to see a bulge, on women love leggings that show the shape and curve of arse and pussy

 

[Firefly]

@Emeris
Underwear has so many different fascinating and exciting angles to it.
I enjoy discovering the personality revealed in undergarments. Fabric choice or the color, like men who wear stripped socks.

Although I don't think they're very practical I do like seeing men in thongs or y fronts or those sorts of underwear. Lace or sheer fabrics are, depending on the cock, lovely.

but a pair of boxers or boxer briefs with a really nice elastic waist... also very lovely something about slipping a finger under the band just very lovely.

But location and timing also have a lot to do with it... a guy and a pair of long johns at camp or before hockey practice gorgeous.

But generally I prefer men Commando

 

[JohnM]

@Emeris
Underwear has so many different fascinating and exciting angles to it.
I enjoy discovering the personality revealed in undergarments. Fabric choice or the color, like men who wear stripped socks.

Although I don't think they're very practical I do like seeing men in thongs or y fronts or those sorts of underwear. Lace or sheer fabrics are, depending on the cock, lovely.

but a pair of boxers or boxer briefs with a really nice elastic waist... also very lovely something about slipping a finger under the band just very lovely.

But location and timing also have a lot to do with it... a guy and a pair of long johns at camp or before hockey practice gorgeous.

But generally I prefer men Commando

@Firefly just saying……

 

[Firefly]

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@Firefly just saying……

yeah... shut up...I love you, I know.

this picture actually made my wee little heart go, fuck. this guy gets more perfect every day.

I am happy there is a JohnM somewhere out there sharing this planet.

 

[Firefly]

I also have to ask women in general a question:
Do you actually find it sexy getting dick pics?
I find it unappealing when women send nudes, I like discovery and mystery. Clothes are better than nude. The only time ive regretted that opinion is when I met a woman with only what can be described as looking like a blue waffle.

yes and no.

I absolutely agree with the regret of not knowing until it is too late...like fuck if I had known this was what you looked like neked...we could have avoided this whole ordeal. #pitysex

um...yeah but basically dick pics aren't a great "get to know you" tool. But I do love nude photography, artistically. So photographs that contain dicks coincidentally because they are part of a naked body I often enjoy.

But I usually prefer seeing other parts of human bodies (especially hands and shoulders ...) . mostly because when you're fucking someone, their dick should be tucked away somewhere you can't see it.

side note: @normalguy Blue waffle I've been through that...I hope you helped get the blood flowing again.

Also, Blue Waffle would be an epic stripper name

 

[emmabella]

I also have to ask women in general a question:
Do you actually find it sexy getting dick pics?
I find it unappealing when women send nudes, I like discovery and mystery. Clothes are better than nude. The only time ive regretted that opinion is when I met a woman with only what can be described as looking like a blue waffle.

Oh you won't like me then - nude right in your face from the off! Oops

 

[inboxxx]

Oh you won't like me then - nude right in your face from the off! Oops

oooh my kind of lady then

 

[bigtallguy]

Oh you won't like me then - nude right in your face from the off! Oops

Very nice feel free to message me anytime

 

[Full_Moon]

So, speaking of nudes, I've got one for the ladies:

When you post nudes on here, what kind of response are you looking for? I'm guessing it's just for the thrill of posting something racy? Or do those thirsty comments and digital wolf whistles do something for you, too?

 

[Koala]

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God, I swear you can read my mind. This was really helpful. xxx

 

[Firefly]

So, speaking of nudes, I've got one for the ladies:

When you post nudes on here, what kind of response are you looking for? I'm guessing it's just for the thrill of posting something racy? Or do those thirsty comments and digital wolf whistles do something for you, too?

When I started taking pictures years ago it was much more of an artistic endeavor for me and I was satisfied that people were reacting to my artwork. It was motivation to work more on my photography and to invest time in creating and sharing that artwork.

Originally I used them a lot more in chat because they would get the room excited and they would get conversation starting and people would start talking about the picture and then they'd start talking to each other and it would just you know lubricate things. Or they were jokes that would supplement the conversation. Offer someone a cup of tea, or towel...

I stopped doing that because there are some mean scary motherfuckers out there who save pictures, come back on under different names weeks later under different aliases and then try to like taunt you with I know who you are and you don't know who I am. Which I understand what they find fun about that but I don't find that fun at all and so I don't really want to play that game so I stopped sharing and chat.

I think a lot of the people who I enjoy interacting with are visual people and they enjoy seeing something that triggers their imagination and then I like going and working on those stories with their imagination or their imaginings.

Responses in thread are good because they become a testing ground for an interaction or a relationship with someone online. They also stimulate other people within the community. We get see how different Chatters interact or how different people interact or get ideas that are fun ways to interact. I think most people here have a slightly stronger voyeur's Kink then the average human being.

I also tend to get a good laugh out a lot out of the things that people come up with in response to my posts. And laughing is really nice. It's good medicine, good exercise, good for the mind, good for the soul.

Tldr, human interaction comes in all sorts.

 

[Firefly]

I dont see why so many people post pictures of their cocks in all honesty its pretty much the most used and unsexiest thing. Women want more than just cock shots. Ive never sent a cock shot it is much more fun talking and learning through words. Men make alot of mistakes in bragging too like my mate david "its as long as it is wide!!" what so about I.................................I then? lol.

A question and a descriptor at the same time.
If i said my shaft is smooth like running your hand on silk sheets, long enough to see it poking through your belly in cowgirl and reverse with every thrust. Slowly pulling back so when my head thrusts deep my balls thump against your soft skin stimulating waves of pleasure. Is that not better than cock shots?

Although this statement above is true to my description, also mine is ribbed for her pleasue without a rubber from how many times its been cut and sliced. My ex called my cock chucky for that reason all stitched up, scars and can stab you deep making you scream.

The plethora of dick pics available does have educational value. Most people only get to see so many in their life, so I find it's actually very body positive to see all the different kinds of bodies that exist in this world. I think a lot of people are ashamed of their bodies and seeing other bodies and seeing other people be brave about their bodies is encouraging. I think it lets people start being a little more body positive about themselves.

Especially our over 40 friends...

 

[Emeris]

The plethora of dick pics available does have educational value. Most people only get to see so many in their life, so I find it's actually very body positive to see all the different kinds of bodies that exist in this world. I think a lot of people are ashamed of their bodies and seeing other bodies and seeing other people be brave about their bodies is encouraging. I think it lets people start being a little more body positive about themselves.

Especially our over 40 friends...

Being on these sites has given me more confidence. I was always shy about my body and my cock, but getting the comments on here and chatting to people has given me the confidence here and when actually meeting.

 

[dicusdiminutivus]

Especially our over 40 friends...

Have to admit to being wellover 40, could double it in a couple of years: friend — your choice, I hope I'm friendly though I do not seek friends (I've few) but do have manyaquaintances. Dick pics/nude pics? There are some but I think not impressive,

 

[Firefly]

Have to admit to being wellover 40, could double it in a couple of years: friend — your choice, I hope I'm friendly though I do not seek friends (I've few) but do have manyaquaintances. Dick pics/nude pics? There are some but I think not impressive,

But they are honest. I love your sun tunning beached whale photo. that's one of my favorites.

 

[GrumpyOldishMan]

Ladies.

(Prompted by mention of Windsor Davies on another thread)


Would you consider dating, doing the nasty or even being seen out in public with a moustachio'd gentleman?

Are there advantages?
Drawbacks?
Hygiene Concerns?
Can facial dandruff be a turn-off?

 

[Firefly]

Ladies.

(Prompted by mention of Windsor Davies on another thread)


Would you consider dating, doing the nasty or even being seen out in public with a moustachio'd gentleman?

Are there advantages?
Drawbacks?
Hygiene Concerns?
Can facial dandruff be a turn-off?

If it was Nigel Farage with a moustache....

 

[Firefly]

Every woman has a different opinion, but does size matter?

yes.

yes, in every regard.

height. weight. handspan. smile breadth. finger length. cock size. ball size. nose protrusion. bank account contents. square footage of the bed. rope length....size always matters.

Is there a specific size that is always the 'correct size' for every context? is bigger always better? I dunno.

Have you ever been with a woman and thought, damn she's loose...I've certainly been with men and thought, damn Im loose....because i am a kind and generous soul and would never blame someone for having a cock that doesn't fit me, but rather internalize it as my own fault...sucks being a woman, eh. I'm certain there has never been a man ever who thought...oh my cock is too small for her, but rather who thought she's loose, she's spoiled etc...but i can assure you there are women who believe they are not 'tight enough'...

lock and key.

not every key opens every lock...

 

[Firefly]

mmK.
That is a giant question mark. I am going to just walk on by.

Is that my poking stick?

Why yes, it is.

Am I going to poke it? Nope. No, I'm not.

I'm going to walk on by.

 

[Full_Moon]

yes.

yes, in every regard.

height. weight. handspan. smile breadth. finger length. cock size. ball size. nose protrusion. bank account contents. square footage of the bed. rope length....size always matters.

Is there a specific size that is always the 'correct size' for every context? is bigger always better? I dunno.

Have you ever been with a woman and thought, damn she's loose...I've certainly been with men and thought, damn Im loose....because i am a kind and generous soul and would never blame someone for having a cock that doesn't fit me, but rather internalize it as my own fault...sucks being a woman, eh. I'm certain there has never been a man ever who thought...oh my cock is too small for her, but rather who thought she's loose, she's spoiled etc...but i can assure you there are women who believe they are not 'tight enough'...

lock and key.

not every key opens every lock...

A friend of mine had actually had the opposite problem: anxieties about being 'too tight'. Apparently she'd had a few partners who couldn't... last. And it had really gotten to her. I like the lock and key analogy, definitely appropriate for tastes as well as shapes.