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yes.

yes, in every regard.

height. weight. handspan. smile breadth. finger length. cock size. ball size. nose protrusion. bank account contents. square footage of the bed. rope length....size always matters.

Is there a specific size that is always the 'correct size' for every context? is bigger always better? I dunno.

Have you ever been with a woman and thought, damn she's loose...I've certainly been with men and thought, damn Im loose....because i am a kind and generous soul and would never blame someone for having a cock that doesn't fit me, but rather internalize it as my own fault...sucks being a woman, eh. I'm certain there has never been a man ever who thought...oh my cock is too small for her, but rather who thought she's loose, she's spoiled etc...but i can assure you there are women who believe they are not 'tight enough'...

lock and key.

not every key opens every lock...
A friend of mine had actually had the opposite problem: anxieties about being 'too tight'. Apparently she'd had a few partners who couldn't... last. And it had really gotten to her. I like the lock and key analogy, definitely appropriate for tastes as well as shapes.
 

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A friend of mine had actually had the opposite problem: anxieties about being 'too tight'. Apparently she'd had a few partners who couldn't... last. And it had really gotten to her. I like the lock and key analogy, definitely appropriate for tastes as well as shapes.
her partners couldn't last...and she thought that was her fault, because her body was the wrong shape. it is not the opposite problem...it is the exact same problem. Size matters. On both sides.
 

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Posted this image in another thread that got me thinking…….
Question for you sexy ladies, What is your preference in oral pleasure?
One, two or three courses?
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Question: Do you use toys when alone? Do you have a favourite toy?
Sorry for taking it back to the first page, new to this thread, just discovered it.

Have really enjoyed reading through it, the questions, the thoughtful responses, the openness xx

I do use toys, it’s a great way to unwind, and my newly discovered and by far favourite toy is the Romp Switch. Oh my days. I don’t know how late I am to this party, but highly highly recommend ladies. Get one!
 

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No demo I'm afraid, but up to offering tips for optimal use.

Top tip, its all in the positioning. X
I looked up some videos on this because I'm intrigued. Does it suck or blow? I don't really understand how it functions.
 
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Its suction, it does say it uses air to stimulate, got no idea how that actually works, but its fucking fabulous. Lets just say, I rarely use anything else.

If you dont need penetration to get there, this is the one.
 

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Posted this image in another thread that got me thinking…….
Question for you sexy ladies, What is your preference in oral pleasure?
One, two or three courses?
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I would relocate the top suck to the bottom of this diagram.
I am very particular about clit play and wouldn't advise it until a playmate has completed the full training program and passed their qualifications.

But the lick and lower suck don't usually do any harm.
 

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Question: What do you do when you get extra gooey around egg-laying? Do you make a point to play or is it not really something you pay any attention to?
 

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I would relocate the top suck to the bottom of this diagram.
I am very particular about clit play and wouldn't advise it until a playmate has completed the full training program and passed their qualifications.

But the lick and lower suck don't usually do any harm.
Where do I sign up for training?
 

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I would relocate the top suck to the bottom of this diagram.
I am very particular about clit play and wouldn't advise it until a playmate has completed the full training program and passed their qualifications.

But the lick and lower suck don't usually do any harm.
I love when a girl knows eaxctly how she wants to be pleasured and I have to admit, sucking on a lady when she is wet, sucking up all that juice, and even better if creamy, may even suck a little lower, i dont mind exploring both holes
 

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Absolutely, I've been to naturist beaches in the UK in Dorset but also in the south of France and fuertaventura. Very rarely do we come across anyone on the lookout for sex. Luckily we have a private garden where we can wander round and garden naked freely. Well said Ian
Im a naturist too in Norfolk.. Im lucky enough to have a couple of naturist beaches not too far away that are fairly popular
 
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Similar to a question on ask the men, when you wake up and find that you’re feeling a bit tingly, do you give yourself a rub before getting up or try to ignore it?
 

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Similar to a question on ask the men, when you wake up and find that you’re feeling a bit tingly, do you give yourself a rub before getting up or try to ignore it?
I find I get very grumpy if I can't finish to my satisfaction. And the stars almost never line up to enjoy the morning mood. People are usually fighting, hungry, crying or otherwise needy from the wee hours of the morning.

CI prefer to start edging instead. And let the tingle carry on into the day.
 
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