Ask the Ladies

[Firefly]

If it was with love.

The ridiculous notions some men have about why they want to sleep with a virgin are worthless to me.

Equally a one off with a virgin isn’t fair on them and is unlikely to be satisfying for anyone involved.

If I’m in a relationship, the virginity wouldn’t change how I felt about them.

It was a question for the ladies...but that aside

What do you mean "with love" ? Like you had fallen in love with a partner who happened to be a virgin? the emotional connection would also be important?
or "with love" as in physically tenderly?

It's an interesting point about the question of "a one off" with someone who is inexperienced.

 

[Just-me]

Question: would you (now or in the future) have sex with a virgin?

Whyever not!

 

[Carollo]

Is it different for a man to have sex with a virgin to a woman having sex with a virgin? Seems there’s a notion of romantic attachment when the virgin is female? I’d done various things with my first boyfriend before I let him inside me. Enjoyed my early explorations, time passes too quickly. I was the first for someone at university, the excitement got a bit too much for him off he popped before he got in, messy but quite a compliment to be honest. The benefit of youth soon perked him up again. It was funny, lovely and hugely enjoyable, mess included

 

[Carollo]

Question: do you enjoy being rimmed?

No, it really doesn’t excite me at all, I’ll do what I enjoy doing back and the thought of my tongue on someone’s arsehole doesn’t appeal

 

[Carollo]

Ladies, do you enjoy kissing your partner after oral sex orgasm/cum (giving or receiving)?

Yes, it’s incredibly intimate, I swallow and it’s lovely if the guy is prepared to taste his cum

 

[Carollo]

Question: so many girls are now wearing leggings that quite frankly leave NOTHING to the imagination! Is a visible cameltoe something you like to show?

I prefer leaving things to the imagination, nothing wrong with bum hugging jeans or loose dungarees but I certainly wouldn’t walk around with the shape of anything else on show. I love being in knickers but I’d never wear a thong showing off my bum cheeks. Quite often less is more.

 

[Matt1975]

Yes, it’s incredibly intimate, I swallow and it’s lovely if the guy is prepared to taste his cum

Always happy to do this. Have us taste each other after a good orgasm.

 

[Carollo]

If you could only spend the rest of your life either receiving oral sex or giving oral sex, what would you choose?

Giving

 

[Matt1975]

Giving

Agree, think most people would give the same response.

 

[Carollo]

Question: would you (now or in the future) have sex with a virgin?

Not now, I’m 62, young people should explore and enjoy sex with others their age.

 

[JohnM]

As the summer heat (or rainy season for some) is here, do you prefer sex on the beach in reality?, or as a cocktail? (I’ll accept drunken afters if you are ok to share)

 

[Firefly]

As the summer heat (or rainy season for some) is here, do you prefer sex on the beach in reality?, or as a cocktail? (I’ll accept drunken afters if you are ok to share)

Neither? I think. I'm not a huge fan of vodka...and sex on the beach is a bit to sickly sweet for me (perhaps if its made with fresh juices...) but really i'd prefer a sidecar if I'm going for a sweet cocktail. And summer cocktails i usually go gin base.

And as for physical sex on a beach. There must be ZERO sand or salt water involved... i mean, the fresh air is nice...but i prefect foresty fresh air, i think...sex on a dock...or a deck at a beachfront property with a nice soft comfortable something to lie on (or a good sturdy adarondak chair). But basically beaches are for fun and playing and swimming in my world. There is too much other stimulation for me, I think.

 

[JohnM]

Neither? I think. I'm not a huge fan of vodka...and sex on the beach is a bit to sickly sweet for me (perhaps if its made with fresh juices...) but really i'd prefer a sidecar if I'm going for a sweet cocktail. And summer cocktails i usually go gin base.

And as for physical sex on a beach. There must be ZERO sand or salt water involved... i mean, the fresh air is nice...but i prefect foresty fresh air, i think...sex on a dock...or a deck at a beachfront property with a nice soft comfortable something to lie on (or a good sturdy adarondak chair). But basically beaches are for fun and playing and swimming in my world. There is too much other stimulation for me, I think.

Recall cartwheels on the beach, agree sand for fun (chafing…….), cocktails and then perhaps some pleasures overlooking the beach….

 

[Firefly]

Recall cartwheels on the beach, agree sand for fun (chafing…….), cocktails and then perhaps some pleasures overlooking the beach….

This is an itinerary I can get behind.

 

[Carollo]

I don’t drink and I’m not keen on sand in my bum or bits so I’ll pass I like someone to feel me moist and not as if their dick is being prepared for a coat of paint …..I had no idea there was a cocktail called sex on a beach…what a silly name for a drink.

 

[Full_Moon]

So, we all know that lingerie is the standard for sexy - to the point at which just seeing it can be visual shorthand for sex itself.

But what what would be the equivalent for a man to wear for you? Or should we, in fact, be investing in a bit of lace ourselves?

 

[Firefly]

So, we all know that lingerie is the standard for sexy - to the point at which just seeing it can be visual shorthand for sex itself.

But what what would be the equivalent for a man to wear for you? Or should we, in fact, be investing in a bit of lace ourselves?

Clothing that acts as shorthand for sex...on men...hmm
1. button down shirt
2. grey sweatpants
3. leather belt
4. a good cologne
5. work clothes (particularly related to occupations that require good manual dexterity)
6. thongs (sporty ones)

lace and or impractical clothing is not a turn on for me. But im sure some ladies are into it.

 

[Carollo]

A man in women’s knickers does it for me, they must be the right size though but low rise bikini style with a stiff dick across the front is lovely to see and feel

 

[JohnM]

If it tickles your pleasures…what is your restraint of choice? Leather, ribbon, cuffs, rope…….

 

[Firefly]

If it tickles your pleasures…what is your restraint of choice? Leather, ribbon, cuffs, rope…….

Rope or belts