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Question: In change rooms, say at a gym or spa or something, are you a hide inside a towel and change type or strip down and give everyone a wiggle type?
 
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Question: do you like to just be naked for no reason? Where and when?
Firstly, welcome back!!

When I’ve had a bath or shower and I’m not needing to go out or work from home, I normally stay naked for the rest of the day/night. Would love to go out and sunbathe naked one day but body confidence, lack of garden space at home and the weather always being shit in the UK stops that from happening
 

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Nice topic , I am a naturist myself and like you Melanie I am often naked around the house. I do agree with your points about the weather and gardens but please dont let body confidence spoil the experience , if you want to bare all on a beach or to visit a naturist club give it a try.

I am a member of BN ( British Naturism ) and go along to various events , believe me no one who is a genuine naturist is judgemental about others and the atmosphere at the places I have visited has always been polite and friendly.

It is also worth adding that being a naturist and going along to these places does not automatically mean you are on the lookout for sex , the majority of people just enjoy the freedom to relax and feel comfortable with others who feel the same.
 

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Firstly, welcome back!!

When I’ve had a bath or shower and I’m not needing to go out or work from home, I normally stay naked for the rest of the day/night. Would love to go out and sunbathe naked one day but body confidence, lack of garden space at home and the weather always being shit in the UK stops that from happening
UK weather is lame. You defo need to be naked for everyone.
 

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For science and an :oops: academic paper I'm writing on the topic...:rolleyes:

question: what do you usually do while chatting with a man [you will never ever physically meet] who is masturbating?
 
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CurvyMelanie88

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For science and an :oops: academic paper I'm writing on the topic...:rolleyes:

question: what do you usually do while chatting with a man [you will never ever physically meet] who is masturbating?
If I’m chatting with someone and they are masturbating, that doesn’t bother me. I’d say most if the time I’m not masturbating. Probably chatting to other people or on social media. In fact, I rarely get horny chatting to people here. On the odd occasion I have played, I’ve either been drunk, high or both!
 

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Hi Ladies

Nice topic , I am a naturist myself and like you Melanie I am often naked around the house. I do agree with your points about the weather and gardens but please dont let body confidence spoil the experience , if you want to bare all on a beach or to visit a naturist club give it a try.

I am a member of BN ( British Naturism ) and go along to various events , believe me no one who is a genuine naturist is judgemental about others and the atmosphere at the places I have visited has always been polite and friendly.

It is also worth adding that being a naturist and going along to these places does not automatically mean you are on the lookout for sex , the majority of people just enjoy the freedom to relax and feel comfortable with others who feel the same.
Absolutely, I've been to naturist beaches in the UK in Dorset but also in the south of France and fuertaventura. Very rarely do we come across anyone on the lookout for sex. Luckily we have a private garden where we can wander round and garden naked freely. Well said Ian
 

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Ladies... sharing on behalf of @MassageHands :

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@MassageHands When with a physical partner who is used a cock ring, it has interfered with my pleasure not a tick. so strap up I say.

When watching someone's cam, I would judge from the men I've watched who have used cock rings, they're satisfied with their orgasms and the cock ring does help make things more veiny and red/purple and exciting to watch through a cam.

I think using a sex toy with a partner requires a certain degree of confidence... and confidence is sexy as fuck.:cool:
 
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@MassageHands When with a physical partner who is used a cock ring, it has interfered with my pleasure not a tick. so strap up I say.

When watching someone's cam, I would judge from the men I've watched who have used cock rings, they're satisfied with their orgasms and the cock ring does help make things more veiny and red/purple and exciting to watch through a cam.

I think using a sex toy with a partner requires a certain degree of confidence... and confidence is sexy as fuck.:cool:
Thanks for that insight. Yeah my wife wasn't so sure to start with but now she likes to give a tug on the one around the balls. Now that fuckin turns me on. I wouldn't say I'm confident but I'm more confident with a ring. My ex zapped all the confidence from me and left a mental scar! Your input is appreciated muchly:)
 
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How old were you when you had your first sexual experience, weather that’s masturbation, oral or sex?
 

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Question: In change rooms, say at a gym or spa or something, are you a hide inside a towel and change type or strip down and give everyone a wiggle type?
Just drip dry and let everyone see, but I wasn't always like that. I was a towel hugger
 

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How old were you when you had your first sexual experience, weather that’s masturbation, oral or sex?
Hmm. I don't remember.
I only started masturbating like a year ago... I tried once or twice when I was young but I basically didn't understand what was fun or interesting or satisfying about it. I think i always only did sexual stuff with other people. If other people weren't involved I didn't care or need to do that.
First full on sexual experience was with my girlfriend, so I would have been 18 almost 19. I didn't have sex with a man until after we broke up probably 21 or 22.
I know I had a sleepover with a boy in high school but it was sort of just a night of like cuddling. I don't know if it was really a sexual experience, more very intimate experience.
Although, I did get married when I was four. That was a pretty intense on again off again relationship basically until I met Danielle.
 
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