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[genuineguy81]

He potentially wants you to respond with a leader... so maybe, i am feelign shit, then initiate a conversation, or I am horny to which point its a segway into something else, pretty much its an opener to initiate a subject of conversation...

or at least that how i would read it! xx

 

[Firefly]

He potentially wants you to respond with a leader... so maybe, i am feelign shit, then initiate a conversation, or I am horny to which point its a segway into something else, pretty much its an opener to initiate a subject of conversation...

or at least that how i would read it! xx

Okay but I've replied to each of those messages ad nauseam about like all the minutia of my life and asked all kinds of questions to try and Draw Something from him and all I get in response is like "wow. how are you?"

I don't understand why he keep messaging me... if all he is going to do is ask how I am.

It is awkward Beyond comprehension

 

[Groundwork]

Okay but I've replied to each of those messages ad nauseam about like all the minutia of my life and asked all kinds of questions to try and Draw Something from him and all I get in response is like "wow. how are you?"

I don't understand why he keep messaging me... if all he is going to do is ask how I am.

It is awkward Beyond comprehension

I'm a guy and this has even got me confused. I thought the same as genuineguy81 it was a leading question to get a convocation going I'm stumped

 

[genuineguy81]

Okay but I've replied to each of those messages ad nauseam about like all the minutia of my life and asked all kinds of questions to try and Draw Something from him and all I get in response is like "wow. how are you?"

I don't understand why he keep messaging me... if all he is going to do is ask how I am.

It is awkward Beyond comprehension

Maybe he is literally just hoping you will give him a naughty response?! Maybe he isn’t brave enough to do it himself? Xx

 

[curiousg73]

It’s probing and looking for a respons. Also, I suspect if you’d answered quite quickly he may have tried to steer it in a sexual direction. As you have not, he keeps dropping messages.

at some point he will either give up or go for a more direct approach. Also wonder if his relationship with his partner is a touch rocky and he is looking for an outlet

 

[JohnM]

Okay but I've replied to each of those messages ad nauseam about like all the minutia of my life and asked all kinds of questions to try and Draw Something from him and all I get in response is like "wow. how are you?"

I don't understand why he keep messaging me... if all he is going to do is ask how I am.

It is awkward Beyond comprehension

That is very weird!
Perhaps your Mr X has transformed into a bot?
FF: shares life story to date
Mr X: wow, how are you?
FF: wtf?
Mr X: wow how are you?
FF: Quiz question - cock or cucumber?
Mr X: wow, how are you?
Colombo: I just have one more question……..

 

[sparky54]

For a start if he’s messaging you he’s thinking about you.
Men think about woman but approach has to be delicate in some cases.
He probably feels he can talk to you about stuff.
I have female friends where it’s not sexual but there are no boundaries in the conversation and also no judgment but full understanding from that person.
I can talk about everything.
Perhaps you are that person to him.
I think the hi how our you is just a hope in their head sometimes that you will respond. It’s a gentle caring approach.

 

[Strangways]

Okay but I've replied to each of those messages ad nauseam about like all the minutia of my life and asked all kinds of questions to try and Draw Something from him and all I get in response is like "wow. how are you?"

I don't understand why he keep messaging me... if all he is going to do is ask how I am.

It is awkward Beyond comprehension

Is he in a relationship now? It might be that he's wanting more but hesitant to take it there?

 

[Mouth]

Would say that as he’s in a relationship he’s not ready to fully commit and would like to keep things with you open and as others have said can’t be flirtatious first but if you went there would reciprocate

 

[Geo]

Question: Do you manscape? Why?

Having a big bush can’t be hygienic so I sometimes shave my tackle or just a quick trim.

 

[Firefly]

Is he in a relationship now? It might be that he's wanting more but hesitant to take it there?

It's been 20 years, guys.
Like is he waiting for menopause?

I'm not available for a relationship and neither is he. I'm pretty certain he knows that.

 

[Mouth]

Maybe just be blunt and ask him outright

 

[LoveToMeet]

question: What does 'Hi, How are you?' mean? Is it actually code for something I have been totally not understanding all these years?


Background: I ask because there is a man with whom I enjoy a fairly complicated emotionally tumultuous relationship with for the past 20 years or so. Who I haven't had contact with much throughout the pandemic. Who I have since briefly reconnected with (during which time he informed me for hours about how happy he is with is new partner) Who has sent me three messages this week ... How are you? How are things? or something to that effect.

This is code right? I actually have no idea what he is messaging for.
And hints.

So...er...anyway...how are you?

I thought it was a lead-in line too.

Maybe he just wants you to say: 'Horny. Come shag.'?

 

[Strangways]

It's been 20 years, guys.
Like is he waiting for menopause?

I'm not available for a relationship and neither is he. I'm pretty certain he knows that.

maybe hes not happy, wants more and is trying to start something but way too hesitant.

 

[Firefly]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

 

[Mouth]

Think all answers will be different but I mix between a fantasy fuck and naughty unattainable one to a dirty one

 

[PhilW040404]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

Don't think of one specific person...just depends what mood I'm in,different people for different situations

 

[JohnM]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

Great question!
It is a mood (sometimes timing) thing, but also where you brain/imagination can lead you, I tend to let it flow and see where it takes me. Often the most intense/enjoyable masturbation I’ve experienced.
Always real people, but often in fantasy or desired situations

 

[curiousg73]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

Crap answer but it depends on my mood and what I want to masturbate about fantasy wise

 

[Koala]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

If I'm in love I'll think about that person.