Ask the Men

[Koala]

If I'm in love I'll think about that person.

Sorry I answered in the Ask the men...
I'm still a girl, sorry - and clumsy (nothing changed there)

 

[Strangways]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

how do you knw its not you..?

 

[JohnM]

If I'm in love I'll think about that person.

And if not in love?

 

[Koala]

It's like if I'm particularly attracted to a person, I automatically fantasize about him and how his touches will feel or how he'll smell or taste like.
Or if I watch a naughty movie I can fantasize about being the one he fucks.
Don't know if it makes sense?

 

[NathanHart]

For me, very recently I’ve discovered that I like to sit in front of the mirror and watch myself! Thinking about it, when the moment comes (no puns needed) I don’t actually think about anyone. I just think this is so fucking horny and I’m about to cum.

 

[Longstone1]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

Always a specific person. That person changes between sessions but it’s always someone known to me in one way or another

 

[Firefly]

For me, very recently I’ve discovered that I like to sit in front of the mirror and watch myself! Thinking about it, when the moment comes (no puns needed) I don’t actually think about anyone. I just think this is so fucking horny and I’m about to cum.

sounds almost zen.

 

[Cumguy123]

questions: to take you to the point of orgasm, which to do you prefer hand job or blow job?

Both are great

 

[Cumguy123]

question: ball play...yes or no? tickling? cupping? sucking? more?

I prefer anal stimulation if a woman just puts the tip of her finger in or gives a bit of rimming it’s a real turn on

 

[JohnM]

It's like if I'm particularly attracted to a person, I automatically fantasize about him and how his touches will feel or how he'll smell or taste like.
Or if I watch a naughty movie I can fantasize about being the one he fucks.
Don't know if it makes sense?

Makes perfect sense!

 

[Firefly]

Question: How do you teach a partner to enjoy giving head?

 

[JohnM]

Question: How do you teach a partner to enjoy giving head?

Think I’ve been reasonably lucky as most partners have enjoyed giving head, or at least the effect it has.
I really enjoy slow, teasing, edging oral sex (receiving and giving) so it can be more fun playful as you get to know and understand a partner, and things can evolve. Some enjoy more intense oral, deepthroat/gagging. But not something I push or force with partners, if they like it I’m ready and willing. On the swallow or not question, I really enjoy both, so not a dealbreaker

 

[sparky54]

Question: How do you teach a partner to enjoy giving head?

Do you teach them, maybe if they are using their teeth too much and catching.
I’ve come to the conclusion every woman is different. If they are into you as well this makes a difference.
I think some woman do just love oral cause they are turned on by your actions when your are in their mouth, maybe a dominant thing.
I think cleanliness plays a massive part, why would you expect your partner to put something that smells and is dirty to put in their mouth.
Personally I don’t think you can it’s natural or not.

 

[sparky54]

Both are great

I think the what a woman can do with her hands is very underrated. I’ve hand some amazing hand jobs usually by Thai ladies I must say though they seem highly skilled in that area.

 

[dicusdiminutivus]

Question: How do you teach a partner to enjoy giving head?

I have no idea, after 54 years I'll probably not try too much.

 

[tristar]

question: do you tend to think about a specific person when masturbating, or just an ideal person?

Yes, you XXXX

 

[Firefly]

Yes, you XXXX

Mwah

 

[Firefly]

Question: have you ever had an unsatisfying or disappointing sexual encounter?

 

[JohnM]

Question: have you ever had an unsatisfying or disappointing sexual encounter?

Did once have a disappointing and painful encounter. In the heat of a drunken moment with an ex gf, I pulled her thong aside to get quick access. After enjoying a passionate few minutes it became quite painful as the lacy material was rubbing the side of my cock to the point I had to stop as it had broken the skin and I was bleeding rather than cumming. gf thought it was hilarious, I didn’t see the funny side at that moment!

 

[Firefly]

Did once have a disappointing and painful encounter. In the heat of a drunken moment with an ex gf, I pulled her thong aside to get quick access. After enjoying a passionate few minutes it became quite painful as the lacy material was rubbing the side of my cock to the point I had to stop as it had broken the skin and I was bleeding rather than cumming. gf thought it was hilarious, I didn’t see the funny side at that moment!

Wardrobe malfunction. Yup. That sucks.