Ask the Ladies

[Petelong]

It's an interesting question. Certainly when my partner asks me to dress up, I usually do. Though I had a boyfriend once ask me to wear make-up. Seems that was a hard limit for me.

Stockings and suspenders clearly giving him the pleasure and delight to please her

 

[Ripmo]

@genuineguy81 great questions! I'll get back to each as I can...hopefully other ladies will share their ideas too.


Yes, it does. No, it isn't just pee (though if you have a full bladder when starting...you may need to empty that before enjoying a good squirt). Female ejaculate is clear or milky, whereas urine is neither of those colours. Ejaculate is sour and bitter, while urine is more salty. I do squirt, but which is amazing, usually soon followed by the trembling, quivering, loss of muscle control type orgasm. And then extreme tenderness. So it is a good sign to hurry up (for me at least) as I generally can't keep going for very long after.

I've watched films of women who continue to be hard fucked (multiple positions and transitions etc) after what appears to be a genuine squirt and it just looks so painful for me. I couldn't stand it. (luckily recovery times for women tend to be shorter than men...if you are happy to wait for round 2 )

I'd love to find a squirter, one of my all time fantasy

 

[Ripmo]

If the friend was the sort of friend with whom I have no boundaries, no.

Otherwise, yes. Violating someone privacy without consent is not the sort of thing friends do.

If the plumber or insurance adjuster or other random person who comes into my home were to behave in such a way, I would certainly report it to their company.

Now, if there underwear drawer snooper was in fact doing it because they wanted to fold and put away my laundry thus relieving me of a little housework for that day, I would be forever grateful.

I did offer

 

[Firefly]

I'd love to find a squirter, one of my all time fantasy

I think most women do, or are capable of it, but have just never been in a situation that has allowed it to happen. (kind of like prostate orgasm in men...im pretty certain most men are capable of enjoying one, but I would think a large portion of men have never had the opportunity).

It is a matter of hitting the magic spot with the right pressure and frequency (i would suggest the right pressure is not balls to the wall, and right frequency is not fast and the furious). It is not easy to accomplish with typically popular male-led sex positions (such as doggy, oral stimulation or missionary).
I don't know about other women, but it is something I had to have control of depth and frequency to accomplish. So, maybe only cowgirl when I was first learning how to enjoy it.
Missionary with a pillow under her hips, or maybe seashell

would let a male partner hit that spot with his cock ...but with seashell it is easy to overdo it (too high frequency or too deep thrusts), thus just causing overstimulation or cervix orgasm without actually stimulating Skene’s glands.

Fingering the front wall with a "come hither" action is a good place to start though...

I recommend this good read about female ejaculation. It gives a lot of food for thought about what is needed to stimulate it.

 

[genuineguy81]

Question: What is the single most guilty pleasure that you love to do sexually when alone that you would never dare do or ask to do with somebody else?

 

[Firefly]

Question: What is the single most guilty pleasure that you love to do sexually when alone that you would never dare do or ask to do with somebody else?

Watch strangers masturbate.

 

[genuineguy81]

Watch strangers masturbate.

is that a request? lol x

 

[genuineguy81]

Question: have you ever masturbated somewhere that you know you can be seen but the people who can see you never know who you are?

 

[malepantielover]

Sometimes we have questions...that lacking experience, or the appropriate anatomy, can only answer by asking...well here is a thread for just that. Do you have a question for a woman? about the female sex experience? regarding opinions, experiences, kinks and more? Ask your heart out.

Ladies, if you find a question you can speak to, quote it and give your reply. We are all curious about your take on it.
Feel free to tag people and ask them questions directly.

(To Ask the Men a question --> Go here)
Be silly, be kind. No kink shaming, please. And as @Adie would say: Have fun.

Curious to know if there are any women who likes being groped without full sex.
Groped while parked in a layby?.
Would meet in a public place by day so you can see who I am.
Its just flirting and a little lust.

 

[GodofThunder]

Watch strangers masturbate.

Sign me up! Lol

 

[Firefly]

Curious to know if there are any women who likes being groped without full sex.
Groped while parked in a layby?.

By someone I am intimate with, of course. I think there are plenty of "without full on sex" situations that are delightfully stimulating and satisfying.
As for being groped by an NSA stranger...I don't know. The idea isn't very appealing though.

 

[Leah88]

Question ladies: What is your least favourite sex position and why is it doggy ?

Resisting the urge to say none (they all have their moments!) maybe Reverse CG - doesn't always seem to deliver.

 

[malepantielover]

By someone I am intimate with, of course. I think there are plenty of "without full on sex" situations that are delightfully stimulating and satisfying.
As for being groped by an NSA stranger...I don't know. The idea isn't very appealing though.

Unless I ask I will never know.
And I would meet in daylight in a public place if a woman wanted to meet.
Not everyone is out to shag everyone else.

 

[malepantielover]

By someone I am intimate with, of course. I think there are plenty of "without full on sex" situations that are delightfully stimulating and satisfying.
As for being groped by an NSA stranger...I don't know. The idea isn't very appealing though.

Its a sex adult site and I am not into forcing anyone to do anything against their will.
And I would meet them by day in a public place.
Its called having fun in best way possible.

 

[beltmaster]

If the friend was the sort of friend with whom I have no boundaries, no.

Otherwise, yes. Violating someone privacy without consent is not the sort of thing friends do.

If the plumber or insurance adjuster or other random person who comes into my home were to behave in such a way, I would certainly report it to their company.

Now, if there underwear drawer snooper was in fact doing it because they wanted to fold and put away my laundry thus relieving me of a little housework for that day, I would be forever grateful.

I will come fold your knickers for you
Don't know about the ones your not wearing

 

[Firefly]

Its a sex adult site and I am not into forcing anyone to do anything against their will.
And I would meet them by day in a public place.
Its called having fun in best way possible.

Oh, sorry. I thought you were asking if people liked that kind of thing, hypothetically. I hadn't realized you were looking for possible meets. My mistake. Please don't take my reply flippantly. I hadn't considered the latter possibility. (as I'm not physically able to meet people....i forget others are interested in that possibility)

 

[BBW1986]

Question: have you ever masturbated somewhere that you know you can be seen but the people who can see you never know who you are?

Yes (terday).
Initially no-one around, or at least only cars passing at 30mph+ I was care free, incredibly horny and I thought that had anyone seen I wouldn't have cared. Then someone did see (walking by) and I didn't stop - neither did he. However, having called to a local shop he then started on his return trip and I was still there, no longer busy. Without slowing his stride, he gave me that 'I know what you've been doing' smile and nod. I think I returned the smile? I was blushing, giggling and still very much occupied with all of those thoughts and feelings post orgasm.
Wouldn't have changed a thing.
La petite mort

 

[beltmaster]

Yes (terday).
Initially no-one around, or at least only cars passing at 30mph+ I was care free, incredibly horny and I thought that had anyone seen I wouldn't have cared. Then someone did see (walking by) and I didn't stop - neither did he. However, having called to a local shop he then started on his return trip and I was still there, no longer busy. Without slowing his stride, he gave me that 'I know what you've been doing' smile and nod. I think I returned the smile? I was blushing, giggling and still very much occupied with all of those thoughts and feelings post orgasm.
Wouldn't have changed a thing.
La petite mort

Fuck if it had been me walking past
I would have offered to help

 

[genuineguy81]

Yes (terday).
Initially no-one around, or at least only cars passing at 30mph+ I was care free, incredibly horny and I thought that had anyone seen I wouldn't have cared. Then someone did see (walking by) and I didn't stop - neither did he. However, having called to a local shop he then started on his return trip and I was still there, no longer busy. Without slowing his stride, he gave me that 'I know what you've been doing' smile and nod. I think I returned the smile? I was blushing, giggling and still very much occupied with all of those thoughts and feelings post orgasm.
Wouldn't have changed a thing.
La petite mort

And why did you not contact me so I could assist? x

 

[BBW1986]

Fuck if it had been me walking past
I would have offered to help

And why did you not contact me so I could assist? x

Erm.... because I didn't require any further assistance