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Question: When preforming sexual acts, do you like to "hold off" and let your partner finish first? Or do you like to cum together and feel that type of specific sensation when doing so? Why or why not? Would you rather cum in your own timing and then finish her in other ways?
 

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Question: When preforming sexual acts, do you like to "hold off" and let your partner finish first? Or do you like to cum together and feel that type of specific sensation when doing so? Why or why not? Would you rather cum in your own timing and then finish her in other ways?
Good question!!!
I love to let her finish while my tongue is in her pussy or even better in her arsehole, love to feel it twitch as she cums then lift her knees back and fuck her while she’s still soaking wet and twitching from her orgasm
 

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Question: What's the most embarrassing thing you've done in front a someone you were attracted to?
Passed wind in my car, at works car park, just off to a meeting at another site, then my passenger door opened and she got in and said could I give her a lift.
 

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Question: When preforming sexual acts, do you like to "hold off" and let your partner finish first? Or do you like to cum together and feel that type of specific sensation when doing so? Why or why not? Would you rather cum in your own timing and then finish her in other ways?
I like her to finish first, just a feeling of contentment, then she can finish me anyway she prefers.
 
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Question: What's the most embarrassing thing you've done in front a someone you were attracted to?
Work night out, too many jägerbombs and a lot of dancing in a hot, sweaty nightclub and as I looked in his eyes thinking ‘kiss him you stupid bitch’ I chucked up over his shirt. He must’ve seen something he liked though as that guy is now my husband!!
 

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Question: When preforming sexual acts, do you like to "hold off" and let your partner finish first? Or do you like to cum together and feel that type of specific sensation when doing so? Why or why not? Would you rather cum in your own timing and then finish her in other ways?
Ok so I try and hold off. This can be difficult lol but I have several kinks of my own which I’ll give a revisit and make her cum again.
I will often go back down on her bring her to orgasm again before going back to finish BUT if I know we will finish together I’ll continue but really ramp it up.
 

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I have a question…..

Why, if you have not had a reply to any of the first 10 messages, do some of you men continue to persist? See the example below of one particular user, who’s identity I’ve hidden, who messaged me….

How are you?
You horny?
Is that you in the profile pic?
Where are you from?
Can I send a dick pic?
Well?
???????
Take that as a no?
Please reply
Kik or WhatsApp?
Fuck you then fucking slut
Personally I think it’s those that ruin threads and forums like this. Would I like to exchange images between some. Yea absolutely but I would never send an image privately if it wasn’t asked for and Christ I wouldn’t dream of slagging someone off for expressing a sexual side. It’s what I do so why would I.
Even on here I won’t post anything unless it has context.
 

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I have a couple of questions……

If a woman slides a finger or sex toy up your arse, without warning, whilst wanking/sucking your cock, would you tell her to stop or let her carry on?

Secondly, why do you men feel the need to assume that because I had a profile picture with my tits out that I’m a dirty slut/whore who wants to see your cock in the first message? (Just going by my experience in the chat room yesterday. If I had a pound for every first message being about my tits, I’d be telling work I won’t be coming back!)
1st question- no I wouldn’t I’d enjoy it
2nd question- some men are unfortunately as the images they post and just dicks ‍♂️
 

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Question: For those of you who indulge in this past time, what is the appeal of sending a dick pic?
The assumption that what you want to see from another is equal from what they want to see from you. In my opinion I have found most woman won’t necessarily enjoy a dick pic say as much as a picture of an act or full body where as men in general will be happy for a pair of tits only etc.
Exchanging pictures is very sexy; a huge turn on however getting to that point isn’t easy unless both have expressed they want to.
It’s like adding a picture of your cock without any context. It kind of throws the dynamic
 

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Question: When preforming sexual acts, do you like to "hold off" and let your partner finish first? Or do you like to cum together and feel that type of specific sensation when doing so? Why or why not? Would you rather cum in your own timing and then finish her in other ways?
It would depend. Foreplay is good so I wouldn’t normally penetrate my partner until she had had an orgasm already or nearing one. Then I would sometimes cum when I’m ready or hold off until they came again or together. But I like my partner but be satisfied too. If for some reason they weren’t I would ensure they got pleasured some other way.

Isn’t that what fingers, tongues, toys etc are for too?
 

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Question: For those of you who indulge in this past time, what is the appeal of sending a dick pic?
Personally I don’t indulge in it and wouldn’t do with someone unless I’d got to know them well enough. Even then they’d have to ask and it would depend on my mood and how well we were getting on before I’d consider it.

But each to there own.
 

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Thank you everyone for your thoughtful and tantalizing replies!
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@CFCBabe0788 talk about relationship goals, girl!
 
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question: (I now, having read the above, have so many questions...but this is the original one that popped into my head while shoveling the snow)

When you cum, do you inhale and cum or exhale and cum? :oops: I need to know.
 
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