FWIW< i often try to recall all of my partners, mostly i would only include those i had fucked with, and often suddenly remember i have missed one of them out (no that they weren't all great, I'm just suffering form a mild case of EOD i think! ).4 women, 7 men (there may have been other men, but they were sufficiently unmemorable)
Introducing those who i have only engaged in, ahem 'heavy petting' as we used to call, it makes life a whole lo more demanding in hat direction.