Prostate orgasm

[Stretchit]

I recently had an experience where I was receiving oral from my partner and it was really good, I've never really been that into Bj's probably because I prefer to give rather than receive and I just love eating pussy. What was so good about it was that when I came the orgasm lasted a lot longer than usual which felt great, I came a lot and she loved every drop. I've read up that having your prostate massaged can be beneficial for a guys health and improve your orgasm. I've watched porn where a woman is riding the guy and rubbing his prostate, eventually leading to a bigger climax. I think it's such a turn on to fill a woman up more and if she is into that sort of thing I might consider trying it out. Just curious about it

 

[Firefly]

What was your partner doing differently that made oral more pleasurable for you?

 

[BBW1986]

Glad you've found something new that's pleasurable. Climaxing following any sort of prostate massage can often be far more intense for you and as you say last longer. Something that as it becomes more familiar to you and you relax into it more, could become a new staple in your sex life.
Figure out whatever you both did differently this time and go again

 

[Stretchit]

What was your partner doing differently that made oral more pleasurable for you?

I'm not entirely sure, as I stated I've never really been a fan of receiving oral. I've read up that it's pretty rare for guys, that don't get turned on by it, some even go flaccid. Perhaps the build up to what happened, she put a lot of effort into the night.. we went out for dinner, had a good evening... she wore sexy lingerie and stockings.. we had pretty sensual/intense sex and we both had a great time.. I'd already cummed twice before and she had quite a few orgasms and was pretty vocal about it so I guess I was having a better time because she was having a good time.

 

[hotelbob]

Definitely explore it,I like it to be different giving more pleasure. Oral is so much better when you try different things ,as is prostate massage .Don't hold back just try what you think will be good ,if it isn't try something else

 

[Stretchit]

Glad you've found something new that's pleasurable. Climaxing following any sort of prostate massage can often me far more intense for you and as you say last longer. Something that as it becomes more familiar to you and you relax into it more, could become a new staple in your sex life.
Figure out whatever you both did differently this time and go again

Sadly she leads a busy life, it's only been an nsa affair over the last couple of weeks. Pretty sure it's been some of the best intimacy I've had. To top it off I think she ghosted me which is a thing these days. I think it would be something to consider with my next partner though I appreciate the feedback

 

[BBW1986]

Sadly she leads a busy life, it's only been an nsa affair over the last couple of weeks. Pretty sure it's been some of the best intimacy I've had. To top it off I think she ghosted me which is a thing these days. I think it would be something to consider with my next partner though I appreciate the feedback

Just as you love to please your partner, whoever she is in the future will likely feel exactly the same, you've nothing to lose by suggesting it. After all it could be something she enjoys too and daren't mention it.
In the meantime, have a google and look at beginners toys - you'll find all sorts of goodies that you can use when on your own and I'm sure they'll build your confidence, and orgasms!

 

[Firefly]

I don't think it is so rare as you think. Or all that mysterious.

Much like women, men have multiple erogenous zones, that when stimulated can produce orgasmic results. Not always coupled with ejaculation. I think it might be useful to think of orgasm and ejaculation as completely different things. I think many men experience ejaculation without orgasm, which is why they still feel horny after squirting.

The prostate is an organ in your body. It's location is known and easy to find, like a smooth little bobble just waiting to be tickled. Ask google for an anatomy chart to understand its location. Then explore. Externally by pressing into the perineum or internally with a finger or toy about two inches inside your anus, not penetrating deeply, but pressing the front wall. (some people find that uncomfortable...need to be good and relaxed and have something lubricating to make it comfortable).

Then enjoy the waves of pure joy, tummy twisting excitement. Followed by the devastating rush of oxytocin.

 

[Firefly]

the best intimacy I've had

the best is yet to come especially now that you have an idea of how good it can get

think she ghosted me

ghost her back.

something to consider with my next partner

pure gold that! Pure Gold❤

 

[Stretchit]

I don't think it is so rare as you think. Or all that mysterious.

Much like women, men have multiple erogenous zones, that when stimulated can produce orgasmic results. Not always coupled with ejaculation. I think it might be useful to think of orgasm and ejaculation as completely different things. I think many men experience ejaculation without orgasm, which is why they still feel horny after squirting.

The prostate is an organ in your body. It's location is known and easy to find, like a smooth little bobble just waiting to be tickled. Ask google for an anatomy chart to understand its location. Then explore. Externally by pressing into the perineum or internally with a finger or toy about two inches inside your anus, not penetrating deeply, but pressing the front wall. (some people find that uncomfortable...need to be good and relaxed and have something lubricating to make it comfortable).

Then enjoy the waves of pure joy, tummy twisting excitement. Followed by the devastating rush of oxytocin.

Awesome feedback I really appreciate it. I'm not entirely sure you got what I meant about the rare bit but I was talking about guys not being into blowjobs not prostate massages.

 

[Stretchit]

the best is yet to come especially now that you have an idea of how good it can get

ghost her back.

pure gold that! Pure Gold❤

Sure thing, I'm always up for improving my sexual experiences as I enjoy pleasing woman. Advice and knowledge is greatly appreciated. Sure I have a life to live and so does she. Best not to dwell on it, I had a great time.

 

[Stretchit]

Just as you love to please your partner, whoever she is in the future will likely feel exactly the same, you've nothing to lose by suggesting it. After all it could be something she enjoys too and daren't mention it.
In the meantime, have a google and look at beginners toys - you'll find all sorts of goodies that you can use when on your own and I'm sure they'll build your confidence, and orgasms!

Sure, Thanks for the response I really appreciate the advise I might just do that

 

[Firefly]

An interesting article may help you out a bit

Ask the Men thread might also offer some insight, or you can share your own.

Ask the Ladies might have some insight...less so.

 

[Stretchit]

An interesting article may help you out a bit

Ask the Men thread might also offer some insight, or you can share your own.

Ask the Ladies might have some insight...less so.

Some good reads, I’ll be checking through threads and reading up on it. Improving myself and the sex I have with my partners for a better mutually enjoyed experience I’m all for. Once again thanks for the helpful response, greatly appreciated