Ask the Men

[pilkie]

Question: Do you want your partner to initiate sex? What are your favourite ways to be invited?

Being teased is always the best way to get my thoughts rolling

 

[Firefly]

Question: Do you ever look at your cock and wish it looked different? If you could generally get satisfying results, have you/would you have cosmetic surgery on your dick? (for example, make changes to foreskin, effect symmetry, girth etc)

 

[genuineguy81]

Question: Do you ever look at your cock and wish it looked different? If you could generally get satisfying results, have you/would you have cosmetic surgery on your dick? (for example, make changes to foreskin, effect symmetry, girth etc)

I think if you spend your life pursuing changes and reasons to cosmetically change your body then you will always chase the next change and never ever be happy. So many people you see who looked so much better before they ever started. However…. Although when fully erect I am satisfied… maybe when not erect I would have it be bigger… even though technically that stage makes no difference lol!

 

[Firefly]

I think if you spend your life pursuing changes and reasons to cosmetically change your body then you will always chase the next change and never ever be happy. So many people you see who looked so much better before they ever started. However…. Although when fully erect I am satisfied… maybe when not erect I would have it be bigger… even though technically that stage makes no difference lol!

I like that!

 

[trouble71]

Question: Do you ever look at your cock and wish it looked different? If you could generally get satisfying results, have you/would you have cosmetic surgery on your dick? (for example, make changes to foreskin, effect symmetry, girth etc)

Can't say I have. It's what it is, and really don't want knifes anywhere near it thanks!

 

[JohnM]

Can't say I have. It's what it is, and really don't want knifes anywhere near it thanks!

I have been under the knife, but for the snip rather than anything cosmetic. Surreal experience, attractive chatty nurse wiping your cock with alcohol wipes to prep you, asking you how your morning was…..
Knives weren’t the scary bit, it was the needles for anaesthetic injection…..

 

[dicusdiminutivus]

I have been under the knife, but for the snip rather than anything cosmetic. Surreal experience, attractive chatty nurse wiping your cock with alcohol wipes to prep you, asking you how your morning was…..
Knives weren’t the scary bit, it was the needles for anaesthetic injection…..

Me too, scarred me for life, both figuratively and literally. As was under a local anaestheic, the overheard comment from the junior of the two surgeons 'Do you think one plaster or two?' 'One will do.' Yes, I think that's the smallest I've seen.' Wasn't helpful. Took me years to realise he was talking about the neatnest of the incisions.

 

[Justbrowsingabit]

Question: Do you ever look at your cock and wish it looked different? If you could generally get satisfying results, have you/would you have cosmetic surgery on your dick? (for example, make changes to foreskin, effect symmetry, girth etc)

Nope, been in love with mine with all its faults for years

 

[Matt1975]

Question: Do you ever look at your cock and wish it looked different? If you could generally get satisfying results, have you/would you have cosmetic surgery on your dick? (for example, make changes to foreskin, effect symmetry, girth etc)

Can’t imagine ever letting anyone with a knife get in about my dick! (Although I have had the snip)
But as for cosmetics needs. I don’t think it’s that necessary. Not that many people see it and let’s face it, dicks are not the most attractive thing in the world. Can’t see me ever getting anything else’s getting done. Made it to 50 without feeling the need so should be good for the time being.

 

[Firefly]

Question: would you loan a sex toy to another person? Or use someone else's toy (with permission)?

 

[Matt1975]

Question: would you loan a sex toy to another person? Or use someone else's toy (with permission)?

Depends on how well I know the person I suppose, if it’s someone I play with very regularly and know who they played with and how generally clean they are, them maybe. But I would have to know it’s been cleaned, then clean it again myself. Lol

 

[Matt1975]

Question: Do you manscape? Why?

Yes, for my own wants and for people I play with. Keeps from tickling her nose when she goes down lol.

 

[Matt1975]

questions: to take you to the point of orgasm, which to do you prefer hand job or blow job?

Definitely a blow job, but she has to take her time.

 

[Matt1975]

question: ball play...yes or no? tickling? cupping? sucking? more?

Yes, yes, yes and what else do you have planned?

 

[Matt1975]

Question: Men, what expectations did you have when you signed up to ukchat?
Have your expectations been met or not?

I like to chat. As with sights like this and being in Scotland it not often you find someone close, so yes. Lady’s do like to chat in here so all good. But would be nice to find some more Scottish around.

 

[Phreak]

Question: would you loan a sex toy to another person? Or use someone else's toy (with permission)?

That depends what you classify as a sex toy. If it's a butt plug, no. If it's a paddle or a whip, sure.

 

[Full_Moon]

That depends what you classify as a sex toy. If it's a butt plug, no. If it's a paddle or a whip, sure.

On that note, I actually have a couple of such things from an old relationship. Not really in keeping with my current aesthetic, they're very 90s goth. The question is, instead of borrowed sex toys, do we still continue to use ones from ended relationships? I did wonder, for a while, if my ex continued to use her old collar - even though you really shouldn't, etiquette-wise.

 

[Phreak]

I mean, using a collar... collars are normally quite symbolic like a wedding ring, so I'd suggest it's a little different to still using that bread maker you got as a wedding gift from Aunt somebody-or-other.

There's generally less emotion and connotation connected to random toys, so I don't personally see an issue with still using them, although an excuse for new fresh toys is always good. Something special unique to the two of you.

 

[Firefly]

Question: does a blowjob right after someone has brushed their teeth feel any different?

I feel like this might be a good hot summer weather research project...

 

[Full_Moon]

Question: does a blowjob right after someone has brushed their teeth feel any different?

I feel like this might be a good hot summer weather research project...

See, I'd've said no from experience, but it should. At the very least, the menthol should cause it to tingle.

Your commitment to science is commendable. I wonder if I should start a similar 'licked after listerine' project. For science.