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Firefly said:
Dreams are a way for our brains to test connections, help solidify meaning, and try to understand meaning. dreams about romantic feelings for people other than a partner are common, and usually only mean you have some anxiety about commitment in your current relationship. Perhaps it is desire for intimacy or attention or validation. Rather than any need or desire to create something with the target of the dream. face those anxieties with your current partner. [this is of course impossible to do] or just accept the dreams for what they are and enjoy them.

As for the family friend, be honest with her. You don't fancy her, but you do value her friendship. And probably you trust her, which is why she was the target of a feelings of love dream. She might be able to help with your relationship if you use her as a sounding board about how to face the issues with your wife.

Or...just enjoy the feelings of love dreams.
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You know me well….
 
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Firefly said:
Dreams are a way for our brains to test connections, help solidify meaning, and try to understand meaning. dreams about romantic feelings for people other than a partner are common, and usually only mean you have some anxiety about commitment in your current relationship. Perhaps it is desire for intimacy or attention or validation. Rather than any need or desire to create something with the target of the dream. face those anxieties with your current partner. [this is of course impossible to do] or just accept the dreams for what they are and enjoy them.

As for the family friend, be honest with her. You don't fancy her, but you do value her friendship. And probably you trust her, which is why she was the target of a feelings of love dream. She might be able to help with your relationship if you use her as a sounding board about how to face the issues with your wife.

Or...just enjoy the feelings of love dreams.
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Interesting take on it. I agree the mind does deal with things in its own way and that even when our bodies are in a relaxed state our mind is analysing our thoughts and feelings. It’s strange almost explaining the top and bottom parts of the brain and the way it functions.
It’s also funny the way we talk about the heart when we feel things and emotions although powered by the brain we feel them in our being almost translated. The mind and body never cease to amaze me of what we are how we live feel function.
 
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question: what is the most awkward thing a woman has ever said to you?
 
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Ooo, awkward.
That is a hard conversation.
 
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question: what is the most awkward thing a woman has ever said to you?
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I’ve been guilty of saying something awkward to a guy during sex.

Bit of background, I had a fuck buddy in my early 20’s until he got a girlfriend. Anyway, our paths crossed at a house party and he was there with his girlfriend and his younger brother. I got introduced to the younger brother and we got chatting, he didn’t know me and the older brother used to sleep with each other. As the night went on, we were both quite drunk and could feel an attraction. By now the older brother (my ex fuck buddy) had already left and the younger brother walked me home. I invited him in where we smoked a joint and done some cocaine and one thing lead to another. It was when I was about to give him a blowjob I said ‘you’re not as big as your brother’ and then proceeded to suck him, completely oblivious to what I just said!
 
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CurvyMelanie88 said:
I’ve been guilty of saying something awkward to a guy during sex.

Bit of background, I had a fuck buddy in my early 20’s until he got a girlfriend. Anyway, our paths crossed at a house party and he was there with his girlfriend and his younger brother. I got introduced to the younger brother and we got chatting, he didn’t know me and the older brother used to sleep with each other. As the night went on, we were both quite drunk and could feel an attraction. By now the older brother (my ex fuck buddy) had already left and the younger brother walked me home. I invited him in where we smoked a joint and done some cocaine and one thing lead to another. It was when I was about to give him a blowjob I said ‘you’re not as big as your brother’ and then proceeded to suck him, completely oblivious to what I just said!
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Omg you are epic
 
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GrumpyOldishMan said:
It was a situation that required honesty, tact and empathy ......


I sat her down, looked her in the eye, and gently explained that I just don't like puppies.
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I've had to do exactly that with more than one kitten. And while I'm honest I'm rarely tactful or empathetic.
 
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What is your preferred hair colour on a woman?

Why do some of you feel it’s necessary to mention, and in most cases, exaggerate your dick size?

I have been quite open about dabbling with things like cocaine, MDMA and smoking weed. Does this sort of thing put you off a woman?
 
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