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Ooooo look at that flying pig

Speaking only from my experience... you know men that SAY they don't like porn... there is a subtle difference.
I don't know that the difference is so subtle. But we generally find that for every majority there is a minority with a different lived experience. A space like this creates the perception that everyone is interested in sex...but it is far more likely that those interested in sex are drawn to spaces like this.

I can only judge by the behaviors and discussions I have had with people who appear porn averse. It is a fair assumption that they are lying and don't allow themselves to admit their interest. It could be a phase of boredom or disinterest, or something that changes over time. Who knows. It's nice hearing different peoples lived experiences though.
 

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behaviors and discussions I have had with people who appear porn averse. It is a fair assumption that they are lying
Some porn I find distasteful: I avoid it, some I find amusing, some is cringeworthy, some is professionally Oscar-worthy,

Posbly aged and knarled as I am, there is a preference for erotica. However, 'tis a personal preference, and I have no basis to criticize the likes or fantasies of others, the industry caters to them.
 

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I don't know that the difference is so subtle. But we generally find that for every majority there is a minority with a different lived experience. A space like this creates the perception that everyone is interested in sex...but it is far more likely that those interested in sex are drawn to spaces like this.

I can only judge by the behaviors and discussions I have had with people who appear porn averse. It is a fair assumption that they are lying and don't allow themselves to admit their interest. It could be a phase of boredom or disinterest, or something that changes over time. Who knows. It's nice hearing different peoples lived experiences though.

I totally agree with your point about sites like this acting as a magnet for those that are likely to be interested in porn.

I would further put forth the hypothosis that some men will claim not to be interested in porn in the assumption that the woman/man they are speaking to is anti-porn and are trying to score points in her/his eyes. I have witnessed this behaviour first hand on many occasions.
 

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I don't know that the difference is so subtle. But we generally find that for every majority there is a minority with a different lived experience. A space like this creates the perception that everyone is interested in sex...but it is far more likely that those interested in sex are drawn to spaces like this.

I can only judge by the behaviors and discussions I have had with people who appear porn averse. It is a fair assumption that they are lying and don't allow themselves to admit their interest. It could be a phase of boredom or disinterest, or something that changes over time. Who knows. It's nice hearing different peoples lived experiences though.
I believe every human still has the base instinct to procreate and the lesser instinct to watch others procreate it’s perfectly normal. I think It’s basis is in herd protection so all the young were created around the same time I read somewhere. It’s similar to womens cycles synchronising when living closely.
 

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Question: Do you/ Have you used viagra or other erection support medication? How was the erection? Did you have any side effects or after effects?
 

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Question: Do you/ Have you used viagra or other erection support medication? How was the erection? Did you have any side effects or after effects?
I’ve never used it but always been curious about it. It al seems to good to be true lol! Does it prolong an orgasm or take away that recovery time between them? Few questions of my own… I have also heard women can benefit from it but not sure how?! X
 

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really? This is also news to me.
Roughly 42% of the women taking Viagra reported increased satisfaction during foreplay and sexual intercourse, compared with 28% of women taking the placebo. Likewise, 57% of the Viagra-treated women reported improved sensation in the genital area during sex, compared with 44% of women taking the placebo.
 

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Roughly 42% of the women taking Viagra reported increased satisfaction during foreplay and sexual intercourse, compared with 28% of women taking the placebo. Likewise, 57% of the Viagra-treated women reported improved sensation in the genital area during sex, compared with 44% of women taking the placebo.
Google for the win!

It would be interesting to know what the other 58% experienced if not increased satisfaction...
 

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Google for the win!

It would be interesting to know what the other 58% experienced if not increased satisfaction...
Well technically a clitoris is a penis in early development when in the womb before the sex develops… so would the clitoris not become more erect? Do u want to be our test case? ;) x
 

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Well technically a clitoris is a penis in early development when in the womb before the sex develops… so would the clitoris not become more erect? Do u want to be our test case? ;) x
It does seem more research is necessary:p
 

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I’ve never used it but always been curious about it. It al seems to good to be true lol! Does it prolong an orgasm or take away that recovery time between them? Few questions of my own… I have also heard women can benefit from it but not sure how?! X
I have started using Viagra recently as a means of mitigating the side effects of medication for another, unrelated, condition. It's comforting to know that I have reached that point in life that I'm taking medication for the medication!

I can't say that I have noticed a difference in the orgasms themselves, nor have a noticed a difference in recovery times... in my case it helps me both gain and maintain an erection, something I was struggling with due to the other medication.

As for benefitting woman... I am neither a woman, nor a doctor, nor a chemist... however I believe that Viagra works by improving blood flow to the penis. It is possible that in woman it may improve blood flow to the labia which in turn would become more sensitive and therefore easier to stimulate.
 
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Vickers Varsity? Not seen one in years, didn't know there were any still flying.
Uncle a rear gunner in a short Stirling told me two options if fighter on tail dive steeply until the wings fall off or bail out except rear gunners couldn’t unless flying level
Grandad sunk commanding ship at Narvik made to March from there to a German prison camp aged 60
Dad flew Lancasters end of war. Told me he was posted to Canada to learn to fly Wellingtons. Couldn’t understand why I thought that sounded funny
No wonder I became a soldier and jumped out of planes asap
 
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