Thanks for the reply was talking moisturising and a little bit of skin care 99% of the time i look a scruffSo well groomed is good, but I don’t like overly groomed, like… tame your eyebrows but don’t make them feminine. i personally don’t like my men to look feminine. So there’s a balance. However… saying that… I also wouldn’t want my man to change what he does and how he wants to look, if I wear makeup it’s because I like the way I look in make up, I wear clothes I feel good in ect. I can only assume that’s the same for you guys? You feel good in yourself your going to be happier and more confident right? And confidence is sexy. As long as your not full of yourself. Again balance I guess, and finding the right person who likes you for you.