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Question for currently childless men: If you died suddenly/tragically right now, would you want your parents or partner to have your sperm extracted and a surrogate impregnated (or your partner impregnated) so that they could still have your children?
 

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Kinky question: Would you like to one time try electro stimulated ejaculation...just to see what it's like?
 

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Kinky question: Would you like to one time try electro stimulated ejaculation...just to see what it's like?
Could be addictive…. Save the right arm strain….bet you’d love to watch too!
 

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Question: do you prefer to make a woman orgasm or that she use your cock (or other body bits) to make herself orgasm?
preference is to be in control and take her to orgasm (taking on all the physical and vocal direction given).
My partner reaching orgasm is the biggest turn on for me, so I also get huge satisfaction if she takes the lead (cock as clit stimulator is a fav)
 

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Question, same question but in reverse: do you prefer that a woman makes you orgasm or that you use her body to make yourself orgasm?
Always want her to be in control of that, loss of control is a big part of the pleasure.
 
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If a partner has a fetish or kink that doesn’t really do much for you, would you still perform it for them knowing that it would be a massive turn on for them?

For example I love having my feet touched and rubbed and my toes sucked during sex which I know that isn’t for everyone, but would you do it knowing I would be very turned on by it
 

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If a partner has a fetish or kink that doesn’t really do much for you, would you still perform it for them knowing that it would be a massive turn on for them?

For example I love having my feet touched and rubbed and my toes sucked during sex which I know that isn’t for everyone, but would you do it knowing I would be very turned on by it
Exploring kinks is definitely about compromise - I'm willing to explore and try new things of she is! Feet are definitely not for me, but massage is. I probably wouldn't go for the toe sucking, for example (sorry!), but I would probably compromise by going for a deep foot massage with oil.
 

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How do you feel as a man, if a woman fancys you, yet decides to pull away.
Do you shrug your shoulders because there are so many other fish in the sea, or do you reflect and fight for her?
 

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How do you feel as a man, if a woman fancys you, yet decides to pull away.
Do you shrug your shoulders because there are so many other fish in the sea, or do you reflect and fight for her?
Stand up to the task and fight for the lady
 

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How do you feel as a man, if a woman fancys you, yet decides to pull away.
Do you shrug your shoulders because there are so many other fish in the sea, or do you reflect and fight for her?
Depends on the woman. If I feel something for her then yes I'll fight for her.
 

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How do you feel as a man, if a woman fancys you, yet decides to pull away.
Do you shrug your shoulders because there are so many other fish in the sea, or do you reflect and fight for her?
I think if you fancy someone you should tell them. If it’s meant to be it’ll happen, if it doesn’t then let it be. If it’s worth it, it’s worth fighting for.
 

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It's funny how we humans react, some will just be more determined to conquer - others will withdraw themselves feeling rejected. I'm aware that there can be numerous nuances in the circumstances.
 
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I've done both, withdrawn rejected and put up a fight. Preference are the ones (very few) that don't pull away in the first place.
 

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How do you feel as a man, if a woman fancys you, yet decides to pull away.
Do you shrug your shoulders because there are so many other fish in the sea, or do you reflect and fight for her?
If she pulls away then I would need to know why first before fighting for her. If I fought and win and then she walks away again anyway was it really worth the fight? Some women get thrill from the chase and then get bored when the chase stops.
 

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If she pulls away then I would need to know why first before fighting for her. If I fought and win and then she walks away again anyway was it really worth the fight? Some women get thrill from the chase and then get bored when the chase stops.
Some men do that too.
 

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Do grown up men honestly have an opinion about the amount of pussyhair?
I've got the impression that it's a topic that younger men focus on - have I completely misunderstood?
 
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