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But don’t you think that’s the majority of the fun ? Learning all the nuances and foibles of said language
LOL, you are aware of the book 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' arent you? IMHO neither men o nor women truly understand the other sex, we like to think we do, but dont.

Learning about someone's likes, dislikes, little ways, etc is not imho 'learning their language'. But hey each to their own
 

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LOL, you are aware of the book 'Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus' arent you? IMHO neither men o nor women truly understand the other sex, we like to think we do, but dont.

Learning about someone's likes, dislikes, little ways, etc is not imho 'learning their language'. But hey each to their own
Lol I think that’s a very jaded viewpoint. I’d do my best to speak fluent Venutian . Some times the effort yields rewards and to be honest that’s what most relationships rely on . That goes both ways and has a million nuances it’s just a case of navigating the easier route .
 

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Lol I think that’s a very jaded viewpoint. I’d do my best to speak fluent Venutian . Some times the effort yields rewards and to be honest that’s what most relationships rely on . That goes both ways and has a million nuances it’s just a case of navigating the easier route .
Id say realistic.

I think you are slightly confused about what im saying (or maybe you are form Mars and im from Pluto) relationships rely on both parties trying. on that we can agree. Although i would argue its despite the difficulties in conversing in fluent Venusian.
 

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Id say realistic.

I think you are slightly confused about what im saying (or maybe you are form Mars and im from Pluto) relationships rely on both parties trying. on that we can agree. Although i would argue its despite the difficulties in conversing in fluent Venusian.
Lol well maybe we are from different planets because every interaction either platonic or otherwise with every other human being is always a lesson in learning about the other person . Being willing to learn is a necessary skill I’d say after all if you can’t get on with others then being ostracised is a strong possibility.
 

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Lol well maybe we are from different planets because every interaction either platonic or otherwise with every other human being is always a lesson in learning about the other person . Being willing to learn is a necessary skill I’d say after all if you can’t get on with others then being ostracised is a strong possibility.
who disagreed with getting along? who disagreed with trying to get along and understand other peoples perspective's?

Nothing i have said suggests otherwise, i merely pointed out that i dont believe men and women truly understand each other.
 

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who disagreed with getting along? who disagreed with trying to get along and understand other peoples perspective's?

Nothing i have said suggests otherwise, i merely pointed out that i dont believe men and women truly understand each other.
Isn’t that an odd statement? That you understand that men and women don’t understand each other? To be fair if you don’t understand the woman you’re with then you’re not trying lol
 

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That’s a hard one. I love to sing. My kids like me singing ashes - the Celine dion song from Deadpool.
You look like a singer. :)
Would you sing on a stage if you had the opportunity?
 

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Isn’t that an odd statement? That you understand that men and women don’t understand each other? To be fair if you don’t understand the woman you’re with then you’re not trying lol
Give it a rest, we disagree, thats all #justsaying
 

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Been a while since I've had any burning questions...but

@JohnM Would you rather be 5 years older or 15 years younger? Why?
 

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@Scottishrock Have you ever acted? If not, what kind of thing would you act in? (stage, tv, social media, film etc)
 

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@Stretchit Kiss and tell. Best kiss only. Just a kiss, not escalated to anything else. Have you got a story for us?
 
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