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Second Game of Thrones book. Way to wordy for me. Love the show but the book is a bit like literary masturbation. Think Martin wrote them for himself rather than with a reader in mind.
YES!!! Oh my god Yes. I was so angry trying to read those books. Like 50 words a chapter worth of reading.
Never watched the shows though...
 

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@MancJackTheLad I cannot help but admire your lingerie collection. Question: is it yours or borrowed? Do you ever wear lingerie made for men?
Thank-you and yes, testing the ground has left me with quite the collection! I used to borrow my wife's, but now prefer a little tighter and lacier so buy my own. Prefer ladies to gents, its the naughtiness and saucy secret which adds to the fun!
 

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Thank-you and yes, testing the ground has left me with quite the collection! I used to borrow my wife's, but now prefer a little tighter and lacier so buy my own. Prefer ladies to gents, its the naughtiness and saucy secret which adds to the fun!
I ask as I was looking at some very lovely lacy male lingerie and wondered if men have much preference. It looked like it cupped and held everything more naturally, where women's lingerie has a way of kind of squishing things...but perhaps that is half the joy of it. Any feedback?
 

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I ask as I was looking at some very lovely lacy male lingerie and wondered if men have much preference. It looked like it cupped and held everything more naturally, where women's lingerie has a way of kind of squishing things...but perhaps that is half the joy of it. Any feedback?
Yeah, I can only speak for my kink, but knowing they were designed for chaps, wouldn't quite do it for me. The fact they are designed for ladies, don't fit perfectly and according to a conservative outlook, I shouldn't be wearing, makes it more exciting.

I know my bulge would look great in silky mens, but it just wouldn't be quite as horny.

sorry for the waffle!!
 

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Yeah, I can only speak for my kink, but knowing they were designed for chaps, wouldn't quite do it for me. The fact they are designed for ladies, don't fit perfectly and according to a conservative outlook, I shouldn't be wearing, makes it more exciting.

I know my bulge would look great in silky mens, but it just wouldn't be quite as horny.

sorry for the waffle!!
Not at all! I was absolutely curious about exactly this point.

Is it just the joy of lingerie. Or is it that it is made for women lingerie.

thanks for sharing. ❤
 

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Not at all! I was absolutely curious about exactly this point.

Is it just the joy of lingerie. Or is it that it is made for women lingerie.

thanks for sharing. ❤
No probs, I love chatting !

The sexiness of women's undies and challenging convention is hot. They have to be for women, as this makes it kinkier.

Some guys like used, not me, i get a buzz from shopping for them in person or online, it adds to the naughtiness of my exhibitionist journey, showing and teasing on cam wearing is sensational, and I guess my ideal destination.
 

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@dicusdiminutivus what kind of erotica do you like? Are there specific themes? Do you write your own as well?
It's taken a while as I felt it needed consideration.

Two questions, one difficult one relatively easy: preferred erotica; well-written, grammatically correct predominantly heterosexual with an emphasis on foreplay, and associated reactions and interactions, often, female authors are much more subtle than their male equivalents, It would probably have been easier identify my dislikes, I’ve had to read a lot of erotica, it was part of my apprenticeship as a compositor/proof-reader, the printers to whom I was apprenticed where part of a publishing group, one of whose imprints featured mild erotica, as a proof-reader (and later keyboard operator — part of the compositor apprenticeship) the emphasis was on reading/ typesetting accurately against the copy, dispassionately. Try telling a 17-year-old youth he has to read erotica without getting an erection? Wasn’t going to happen, so why was I often called out to the comp room or the machine room for a query on another job!

Never written any published erotica, though have made a couple of futile, non-submitted attempts, and did attempt, with an ex lady colleague a his and hers ‘story’, but unfortunately, the concept did not seem to be fully understood, However, that does give me some thoughts on a possible future thread I might like to discuss with @Firefly .
 

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It's taken a while as I felt it needed consideration.

Two questions, one difficult one relatively easy: preferred erotica; well-written, grammatically correct predominantly heterosexual with an emphasis on foreplay, and associated reactions and interactions, often, female authors are much more subtle than their male equivalents, It would probably have been easier identify my dislikes, I’ve had to read a lot of erotica, it was part of my apprenticeship as a compositor/proof-reader, the printers to whom I was apprenticed where part of a publishing group, one of whose imprints featured mild erotica, as a proof-reader (and later keyboard operator — part of the compositor apprenticeship) the emphasis was on reading/ typesetting accurately against the copy, dispassionately. Try telling a 17-year-old youth he has to read erotica without getting an erection? Wasn’t going to happen, so why was I often called out to the comp room or the machine room for a query on another job!

Never written any published erotica, though have made a couple of futile, non-submitted attempts, and did attempt, with an ex lady colleague a his and hers ‘story’, but unfortunately, the concept did not seem to be fully understood, However, that does give me some thoughts on a possible future thread I might like to discuss with @Firefly .
I think we have talked before about your work as a typesetter/proof reader and such, but somehow you managed to leave out the part that it was for a company producing erotica (well...in part anyway)! What a job for a young man to undertake!

What is a his and her's story?
 

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@Walks if you became a comic book superhero for a month, who would you be?
 
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