Ask the Men

[Petelong]

Question: What are you best at in bed?

Let’s be honest we all think we’re great in bed, but I’m happy to ask what a lady enjoys and think fore play is a must for both

Probably a question for the lady, will I get in your bed again for our mutual enjoyment and satisfaction

Love giving and receiving xxx

 

[beltmaster]

Honesty does rank high in the list of characteristics women find sexy.

Sleeping I am excellent at that.
But I do snore a lot.

 

[Master_Paul_Essex]

Question: Men, what expectations did you have when you signed up to ukchat?
Have your expectations been met or not?

I think it is like most things you get back as much as you put in. If you make little effort this wont be the site for you ... however if you try harder you will find rewards.

 

[Petelong]

Question: What kinds of photos have women requested from you?

None

 

[paulhuiugvv]

Question: Have you ever had a partner who didn't like you going down on her? What did you do?

No I’ve never had a partner not like it. But if a future partner didn’t, then I’d not push the issue. If they don’t want my face down there then that’s their decision and that needs to be respected.

 

[paulhuiugvv]

Question: When you watch porn, do you watch the whole film or just skip to the juicy bits?

Depends on the movie, the pornstar in it, my mood and how much time I have

 

[beltmaster]

Think I was a bit nieve. Thinking
I may meet someone. But when I thought about it. It is a bit of a long
Shot. These are people who you have never met. And a lot of the time you find out. They live miles
Away. But enjoy the dirty talk and the banter.

 

[Oldfitman]

Question: Men, what expectations did you have when you signed up to ukchat?
Have your expectations been met or not?

I expected to be really seady but have been on here a bit everybody is cool. Normal people who like to share and show a bit of flesh.

 

[Firefly]

@Irishm87 @Oldfitman It's interesting how expectations shift.

 

[GodofThunder]

Question: What are you best at in bed?

Sleeping

 

[Firefly]

Question: Have you ever lied about your age?

 

[genuineguy81]

Question: Have you ever lied about your age?

Nope! I don’t see the point… ur only delaying the inevitable if it then goes further! Xx

 

[Oldfitman]

Question: Have you ever lied about your age?

No, I thinks it’s nicer sometimes where a younger woman knows your older and likes that. I do think time is going quick since I hit 50 but hey you can’t go backwards.
I think that oral sex is good if you talk to the person and ask what they like. Sometimes I’ve felt like there about to bite it off or dragging the teeth down the shaft. Painful. It’s the same for men you have to ask what they enjoy not what you think they enjoy, it’s way better. Not that I get much of either these days lol.

 

[genuineguy81]

Question: and yes, I am a man! How many of you have not yet come to the realisation that despite this being a sex forum, dick pics are not really liked by many women! I myself was guilty of it in the past but have stepped back and observed the many posted dick pics with very few likes (apart from other men) as a whole! This is actually kind of more advice to you all rather than a question. Now the suggestive shots or even just a ripe rump on show are actually more welcomed and “liked” by most women! (This post may well divide us all and more than likely earn me a load of abuse but hey, it’s all gravy)!

 

[VIP]

Question: Have you ever lied about your age?

No I haven't, I don't lie about anything. I might not answer but I wouldnt lie.

 

[Firefly]

Question: and yes, I am a man! How many of you have not yet come to the realisation that despite this being a sex forum, dick pics are not really liked by many women! I myself was guilty of it in the past but have stepped back and observed the many posted dick pics with very few likes (apart from other men) as a whole! This is actually kind of more advice to you all rather than a question. Now the suggestive shots or even just a ripe rump on show are actually more welcomed and “liked” by most women! (This post may well divide us all and more than likely earn me a load of abuse but hey, it’s all gravy)!

As you've said it takes time to come to such a realization. I think sometimes the need for attention and the desire for someone to touch you is overpowering. Like they say in that film, Crash, sometimes we want so desperately contact with someone that we crash into them.
But talking openly and honestly about it and being kind to those still starting their journey and recognizing that not all dic pics were intended for you to see… some people want other men to look at the… there is a great diversity of people here and to each their own.

 

[beltmaster]

Question: Have you ever lied about your age?

I have never been in a situation where it was necessary. But if it
Did arise I probably would

 

[ScottyMary29]

Do men really care when their girlfriend gains weight?

 

[Oldfitman]

Question: and yes, I am a man! How many of you have not yet come to the realisation that despite this being a sex forum, dick pics are not really liked by many women! I myself was guilty of it in the past but have stepped back and observed the many posted dick pics with very few likes (apart from other men) as a whole! This is actually kind of more advice to you all rather than a question. Now the suggestive shots or even just a ripe rump on show are actually more welcomed and “liked” by most women! (This post may well divide us all and more than likely earn me a load of abuse but hey, it’s all gravy)!

I think your right sometimes emotions can tell us that woman just likes dicks but the reality is we are more than just breasts, vagina and dicks. When you you have sex you have sec with the person not just a part of their body, yes there can be quick fixes we need on impulse but generally if I was to spend time with a woman I would want to explore more than just the bits we class as sexual.
The body and mind together is a sexual organ. Wanting someone with a deep desire and having them leads to a greater wanting that can lead to love.
If you look at the act of sex as the only fulfilling action your are missing out. Waking up with the person, holding them, kissing them. This is fulfilment. In my eyes anyway.

 

[Firefly]

Do men really care when their girlfriend gains weight?

Bump this question. I am curious too. And does it the status have some effect : girlfriend vs FWB vs mistress vs wife vs roommate