Ask the Men

[Needahand]

Question: Do you like it when your partner/playmate strokes you to orgasm and then gets up and goes to do something else like laundry and you don't get to do anything to them?

One of my exes did that sometimes. She didn't even need me to reciprocate, just masturbated me to climax, then left to do other things. I loved it

 

[VicBhouy]

One of my exes always used to say “Well, is that it?”

Thinking about, they all said that!

 

[Longstone1]

Question: Do you like it when your partner/playmate strokes you to orgasm and then gets up and goes to do something else like laundry and you don't get to do anything to them?

Yes, I love it. It a partner initiates something like that, and then leaves without reciprocation, it shows a real desire to satisfy me or give me pleasure. It’s so much the norm for sex to be mutual, or worse to pleasure someone purely to initiate reciprocation, that something like this feels extra special.

 

[Longstone1]

Question: first off, fuck off doom-scrolling sites with your algorithm based couples therapy bullshit* but.... recently one of these bullshit posts said something to the effect of "talking about sex with your partner is as good as having sex with your partner." I'm curious men, what do you think?

Only if we are pleasuring ourselves whilst talking

 

[Hornyasfuck88]

Question: first off, fuck off doom-scrolling sites with your algorithm based couples therapy bullshit* but.... recently one of these bullshit posts said something to the effect of "talking about sex with your partner is as good as having sex with your partner." I'm curious men, what do you think?

Hmm I do love a good dirty chat about sex but I wouldn't say its as good as, its a bloke equivalent of foreplay

 

[dicusdiminutivus]

"talking about sex with your partner is as good as having sex with your partner." I'm curious men, what do you think?

Many years ago (it seems) tried that. Response was 'Can't be bothered'. End of.

 

[Firefly]

Many years ago (it seems) tried that. Response was 'Can't be bothered'. End of.

Certainly...if a partner is not a person you want to have sex with, they probably arent a person you want to talk about sex with either...but talking about sex also requires a surprising amount of self understanding and empathy that probably many people haven't fully realized in themselves...

 

[dicusdiminutivus]

Certainly...if a partner is not a person you want to have sex with, they probably arent a person you want to talk about sex with either...but talking about sex also requires a surprising amount of self understanding and empathy that probably many people haven't fully realized in themselves...

Fairy Nuff, but also elements of self criticism self worth self concern … but I'd never respond in such a manner as it would sound/read self pitying.

Oh shit I just did