Why do you come on here?

[Tinyskirt]

Just curious, I was considered ugly and gangly and being half Asian I never got much attention
Now I find I'm kind of pretty and I like it
Guys ...do you have a good sex life?
Couples..do you still have sex?
Ladies do you still feel attractive?
No judgement..no stigma..let's talk xx

 

[Jimmychopper]

Just curious, I was considered ugly and gangly and being half Asian I never got much attention
Now I find I'm kind of pretty and I like it
Guys ...do you have a good sex life?
Couples..do you still have sex?
Ladies do you still feel attractive?
No judgement..no stigma..let's talk xx

You are not ugly you look amazing xx

 

[FranklyImprobable]

Just curious...

The title is a great question - and one I found myself asking. I don't have a convincing answer.

I think there is an attraction for exhibitionists... but I am not an extrovert... I don't have this motive myself. Voyeurism is the flip-side of this... so there's a symbiosis from interactions involving these motivations. I think many people who post here deliberately misrepresent themselves - perhaps because they aren't comfortable with who they really are... perhaps because they have donned a disguise to engage in voyeurism.

I suspect, in one way or another, everyone who finds themselves distracted here is, in some way, dissatisfied. I suspect many are dissatisfied because they have too few opportunities - and hope to find more. For all the talk of rampant promiscuity - I think there's a lot less of that sort of thing in the actual lives of those who interact here.

I'm single and my social life isn't one likely to introduce me to potential sexual partners. I don't know, for certain, that I want a lover - but I'm sure I don't need to buy a partner. In real life, the people one tends to meet are less appealing than those imagined. I assume this is true for others as well as myself. My imagination (I suspect this isn't unusual) is alive with many kinky thoughts and fantasies... that diverge from mundane everyday life. Physical appearance has some bearing - but chosen behaviour is far more important to me. What matters about sex is psychological - a serious game where the most important rules are made up as you play.

I think the path of any relationship is quickly fixed on first meeting... though there can also be (less potent) earlier effects from photos and video. (These visual introductions make swipe-culture extremely unsatisfying.) I like the idea of online social anonymity - and think it facilitates exploration of ideas that would not otherwise be feasible. I like the idea of trysts - a meeting where amorous lustful intentions are the reason to meet in the first place. I like the idea of exchanging written notes - the dirtier the better - sharing details intended to lead to intimate vulnerability... if/when a tryst is arranged. One of my many fantasies is to find a woman who shares my kinky attraction to having an extended, anonymous, lustful textual adventure... especially one that may lead to meetings in real life. It's not clear to me that ukchat is the right venue - nor am I sure the idea itself is anything other than bonkers.

@Tinyskirt (I love the name, by the way): being "half Asian" can't possibly detract from your allure. Your choices about how you present yourself (how you want others to think of you) are most important. I think you should try to work out what you want for yourself - then try to get that.

 

[Kaner]

Just curious, I was considered ugly and gangly and being half Asian I never got much attention
Now I find I'm kind of pretty and I like it
Guys ...do you have a good sex life?
Couples..do you still have sex?
Ladies do you still feel attractive?
No judgement..no stigma..let's talk xx

Surprised u felt like that as ur pic looks hot & i luv tall girls... sex life is gud, being here says im horny for riskier, rougher, kinker fun in chat or maybe more xx

 

[Pil50Bi]

Just curious, I was considered ugly and gangly and being half Asian I never got much attention
Now I find I'm kind of pretty and I like it
Guys ...do you have a good sex life?
Couples..do you still have sex?
Ladies do you still feel attractive?
No judgement..no stigma..let's talk xx

Zero sex life right now! I thinkntheres a good mixture of folk in here . And couples aswell. Never really had any issues with anyone. X