Was I right to enjoy it and want more

[jane2026]

My ex once had me tied over table naked ready for a spanking. Arms stretched across and tied to opposite legs. My ankles were tied to legs where my feet were. His mate called and he invited him in. He left me tied naked while they had coffee. He asked his mate if he fancied fucking me. Next thing he was fucking me. When he left ex caned me. Then he fucked me.
Was raped I guess.

 

[Hot_Spurts]

well no consent was given or asked , did you say no at any point ?

 

[jane2026]

well no consent was given or asked , did you say no at any point ?

No

 

[Gazza89]

If you enjoyed it and want more I wouldn't say it was rape. I'd love to organise something like this on my wife but she wouldn't be up for it

 

[Pil50Bi]

Hmmm , its a fine line. In this case it would be considered rap*. However studies show that between 31 and 62 percent of women fantasize about it. It doesn't make it any better of course. On the other hand , i know a female Dom whom played out a kidnap/rap* scene for a Male client...lets just say the fantasty wasn't the same as reality!

 

[CHRDAV135]

I don't get the whole rap* fantasy! Being the receiver or giver! It's a dangerous line that borders on criminal! Be careful about the situations you find yourself in! You might feel that you enjoy the thrill at the time, but i imagine it could have a lasting impact!

 

[Pil50Bi]

I don't get the whole rap* fantasy! Being the receiver or giver! It's a dangerous line that borders on criminal! Be careful about the situations you find yourself in! You might feel that you enjoy the thrill at the time, but i imagine it could have a lasting impact!

Agree buddy. It can spill over and things get a wee bit overstretched...boundary pushing and so on.
The thrill , or memory of what happened stays with you , the lady in question probably wants to attempt a replay of what happened for kink play. However it would be difficult to replicate that sort of scenario again and keeping it within concensual boundaries. Tis a fine line.
Everyone deserves to be treated with respect and dignity. X