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ThickHips

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For quite a few years I have fantasized about swinging, or cucking my boyfriend. We've been together for just over 8 years now, and as the years have passed, our sex life has slowly ebbed away. We roleplay threesomes, and having people watch us, but have never come close to turning it into a reality, not to mention, it is the other guy I would be turned on by and wanting.

Having found this forum, the thing I keep getting so aroused by the stories where things don't go to plan, a guy "manipulates" others, or freezes out the other boyfriend, where the woman is talked into something and it all gets out of hand. Boundaries being pushed. I find that loss of control so sexy, and I was wondering if anyone had any of those types of experiences to share?

As someone who would love to swing, but isn't anytime soon, it's enough to help me stay entertained while our sex life becomes even less lol
 

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For quite a few years I have fantasized about swinging, or cucking my boyfriend. We've been together for just over 8 years now, and as the years have passed, our sex life has slowly ebbed away. We roleplay threesomes, and having people watch us, but have never come close to turning it into a reality, not to mention, it is the other guy I would be turned on by and wanting.

Having found this forum, the thing I keep getting so aroused by the stories where things don't go to plan, a guy "manipulates" others, or freezes out the other boyfriend, where the woman is talked into something and it all gets out of hand. Boundaries being pushed. I find that loss of control so sexy, and I was wondering if anyone had any of those types of experiences to share?

As someone who would love to swing, but isn't anytime soon, it's enough to help me stay entertained while our sex life becomes even less lol
Swinging is like drugs, gambling or booze. For some people it becomes addictive as it’s so good, vanilla can seem boring. I once asked a straight woman to a party. She was nervous but dressed in stockings, heels etc. In the first hour, she fucked three guys and I found her being licked out by a woman while sucking a guy. From then on she was hooked and went to every party she could and sex clubs. Ended up doing milf porn and escort work…
 

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For quite a few years I have fantasized about swinging, or cucking my boyfriend. We've been together for just over 8 years now, and as the years have passed, our sex life has slowly ebbed away. We roleplay threesomes, and having people watch us, but have never come close to turning it into a reality, not to mention, it is the other guy I would be turned on by and wanting.

Having found this forum, the thing I keep getting so aroused by the stories where things don't go to plan, a guy "manipulates" others, or freezes out the other boyfriend, where the woman is talked into something and it all gets out of hand. Boundaries being pushed. I find that loss of control so sexy, and I was wondering if anyone had any of those types of experiences to share?

As someone who would love to swing, but isn't anytime soon, it's enough to help me stay entertained while our sex life becomes even less lol
Wow... More to be said in private? ;-)
 

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Swinging is addictive, as is that feeling of being not in full control of things, kind of a risky unpredictability so you have no idea how things will pan out (but hopefully amongst people who will keep you safe).

Boundaries being pushed, many times, things getting out of hand mostly within 'safe' parameters (you need to know that the people you're playing with aren't going to cause you harm, but it's hot to feel that they might!).
 

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Thank you for the replies so far, also interested in others thoughts on this, but additionally if you'd like to reach out.
 

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I would love to share some ideas and experiences with you. Give me your leash; I'll pull you in all the right directions.
 

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Was expecting a little more feedback and response - maybe I am too niche lol
 

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For quite a few years I have fantasized about swinging, or cucking my boyfriend. We've been together for just over 8 years now, and as the years have passed, our sex life has slowly ebbed away. We roleplay threesomes, and having people watch us, but have never come close to turning it into a reality, not to mention, it is the other guy I would be turned on by and wanting.

Having found this forum, the thing I keep getting so aroused by the stories where things don't go to plan, a guy "manipulates" others, or freezes out the other boyfriend, where the woman is talked into something and it all gets out of hand. Boundaries being pushed. I find that loss of control so sexy, and I was wondering if anyone had any of those types of experiences to share?

As someone who would love to swing, but isn't anytime soon, it's enough to help me stay entertained while our sex life becomes even less lol
fantastic cleavage sexy as fck love to get my cock between them
 

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For quite a few years I have fantasized about swinging, or cucking my boyfriend. We've been together for just over 8 years now, and as the years have passed, our sex life has slowly ebbed away. We roleplay threesomes, and having people watch us, but have never come close to turning it into a reality, not to mention, it is the other guy I would be turned on by and wanting.

Having found this forum, the thing I keep getting so aroused by the stories where things don't go to plan, a guy "manipulates" others, or freezes out the other boyfriend, where the woman is talked into something and it all gets out of hand. Boundaries being pushed. I find that loss of control so sexy, and I was wondering if anyone had any of those types of experiences to share?

As someone who would love to swing, but isn't anytime soon, it's enough to help me stay entertained while our sex life becomes even less lol
I’d love to be part of this, I’d do whatever you wanted me to
 

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Swinging is addictive, as is that feeling of being not in full control of things, kind of a risky unpredictability so you have no idea how things will pan out (but hopefully amongst people who will keep you safe).

Boundaries being pushed, many times, things getting out of hand mostly within 'safe' parameters (you need to know that the people you're playing with aren't going to cause you harm, but it's hot to feel that they might!).
I'd be more than happy to help there of course I'd make you feel comfortable and safe
 
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