This site has turned to shit

[Alex231993]

Less people are talking and new tabs keep opening on my phone when I click on links. What's all that shit about?

 

[Matureman2023]

The tabs I can understand. It’s a free site so needs to make income somehow. Hence the extra tabs. But you are right about the fewer people talking. It’s getting more like Facebook and how many likes you get than actual chatting. I have already had my moan about the increase of violent Pictures and memes that are flooding the chat rooms. I mean violent. Rant over lol

 

[Stretchit]

The tabs thing is annoying but understandable. The chatting I can see your point, more people are leaving because they aren't getting what they want instantaneously without putting any real effort in so they up n leave. I see poeple actively going out of their way to get people to contribute more on the site on a regular basis for example @Firefly usually goes on ask the men and sends out loads of questions to various users to get them to engage and conversate more and visa versa for the ask the woman.

Personally I think they get tired of the unoriginality just sending cock pics so a lot of woman don't respond but if you are creative and ask real questions it's been a better experience on here for me anyway.. Still haven't managed to get the point across that I'm straight and tell the guys who inbox me I'm not interested but appreciate the consideration.

 

[SussexGuy47]

It's Sooooo
Annoying

 

[sparky54]

The tabs thing is annoying but understandable. The chatting I can see your point, more people are leaving because they aren't getting what they want instantaneously without putting any real effort in so they up n leave. I see poeple actively going out of their way to get people to contribute more on the site on a regular basis for example @Firefly usually goes on ask the men and sends out loads of questions to various users to get them to engage and conversate more and visa versa for the ask the woman.

Personally I think they get tired of the unoriginality just sending cock pics so a lot of woman don't respond but if you are creative and ask real questions it's been a better experience on here for me anyway.. Still haven't managed to get the point across that I'm straight and tell the guys who inbox me I'm not interested but appreciate the consideration.

I think that’s a well put answer, my approach to the site has changed probably when you realise it’s about chatting and making new friends. This site works if you contribute it’s like anything if nobody does anything then it’s going to be boring. If you have expectations of loads of sex meets then I’m not sure it’s going to happen. I personally am enjoying meeting new people who do have similar likes to me, we all come here for different reasons and that’s good cause you can have a balance. I think you can be fed up of nothing happening but think about what you write. Just cause this site is sex related it doesn’t mean every woman here is a whore begging for dick. If you want to meet someone treat them properly.
Have a laugh, don’t be afraid to look silly.

 

[Ianwxx]

Personally I think this site is fine , I fully understand the reason for the various advertising tabs , being a free site they need to get revenue somehow. It is not that difficult to close them when you log in so I fail to see why people get so annoyed.

As for the point about chatting that is all down to those who use the site , some join in the room chats others prefer to stick to PMs with people they have already got to know. As mentioned in other posts we all have different likes and dislikes so it is just a matter of personal choice who we engage with.

I also agree that too many people come on here with unrealistic expectations , this site should be viewed as another option in terms of chatting or getting to know someone rather than the only way.

 

[Stretchit]

I think that’s a well put answer, my approach to the site has changed probably when you realise it’s about chatting and making new friends. This site works if you contribute it’s like anything if nobody does anything then it’s going to be boring. If you have expectations of loads of sex meets then I’m not sure it’s going to happen. I personally am enjoying meeting new people who do have similar likes to me, we all come here for different reasons and that’s good cause you can have a balance. I think you can be fed up of nothing happening but think about what you write. Just cause this site is sex related it doesn’t mean every woman here is a whore begging for dick. If you want to meet someone treat them properly.
Have a laugh, don’t be afraid to look silly.

Well said.

It’s all about having fun and lots of laughs. I think attitude will play a big part as we all tend to gravitate towards people who are positive, easy to be around, lots of fun etc etc. No one really wants to hear someone complaining over n over, especially if they continue to do the same thing over n over and expecting a different outcome without actively trying to change or improve how you communicate with others.