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KatseeB

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)
 

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help!
 

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Hi KatseeB
haven't been to a Manc one, but many times in London - getting naked, having sex with an audience is a great leveller
all sizes, shapes, races and some specialise in same sex or bi themed events
got to be one for the bucket list - let yourself go
 

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if in doubt send me a pic and I'll give you feedback:)
 

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Hi KatseeB
haven't been to a Manc one, but many times in London - getting naked, having sex with an audience is a great leveller
all sizes, shapes, races and some specialise in same sex or bi themed events
got to be one for the bucket list - let yourself go
Thanks!
 

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)
My husband and I visited Cupids near Manchester a couple of times a few years ago. They seem a friendly lot who go there and there's no need to feel out of place. All kinds of shapes and sizes attend and there's no doubt you will blend in
Best of luck and hope you enjoy yourself.
 

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)
I like the idea of stuff like this, but I find it so intimidating. But from I hear people in the 'scene' are really accepting. For me I'm not the fittest guy and I'm not well hung so insecurities are through the roof. Hope you find what your looking for!
 

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Hi I'm been considering the same thing I've been looking on fabswingers and seem like there may be some nice people that are like minded to be around. Feel free to pm me and I'll send some info I've found out. Would also be interested in going together so neither of us have to go in alone
 
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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)
Hey sexy, I was a bull on Craigslist for 4 years and I've lots of experience in this type of situation you are considering.
I've messaged you and happy to chat about this and possibly me and you hooking up x
Hopefully hear from you soon hun xx
 
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MAJA82

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)
Me and my Mrs talk about doing this but she won’t until she’s more comfortable with herself. I try to explain that I think there’s little judgment and everyone just wants sex or to watch.
I tell her I’d love to have more than 6.5 inches and it be more of a shower than a grower but I know there’s all types at these places so I’d be fine getting it out for all to see. She’s attractive, size 14/16 so I know she’d have no problem getting attention but I think she feels the same as you. Worried there would be slim stunners and she’d end up feeling unattractive and it ruin the mood
 
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MAJA82

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I like the idea of stuff like this, but I find it so intimidating. But from I hear people in the 'scene' are really accepting. For me I'm not the fittest guy and I'm not well hung so insecurities are through the roof. Hope you find what you’re looking for!
I’m the same, could be fitter and packing an average 6.5 but never had complaints. I know though that I’d feel insecure around something loads bigger. From what I’ve heard the scene is really easy going
 

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I really want to go to one too but it'd be on my own and not sure if you're allowed as a single male?
 

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I fancy visiting a singers club. Sounds like I need a woman to go along with
 

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Hopefully someone can let us know in here if we're allowed on our own.
 

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me and gf have been to 2 in manc, - if you nervous, just ask yourself if you are going with the right person. its no fun if anyone has doubts.....
 

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My husband and I visited Cupids near Manchester a couple of times a few years ago. They seem a friendly lot who go there and there's no need to feel out of place. All kinds of shapes and sizes attend and there's no doubt you will blend in
Best of luck and hope you enjoy yourself.
no way, we went there. nothing happened in the place, but a couple came to our hotel for drinks and ended up in our room, was mental
 

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)
I've been thinkin on the same lines, maybe we could hook up together first then maybe visit one together
 
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TashO75

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Hi, I'm considering visiting swingers club in Greater Manchester area. I've never been to one, so I have no idea what to expect, which ones are the best, what are the general rules, etc. Does anyone have any experience in this area? Would someone who's not size 6 feel comfortable in such club? I'm a plus size woman and I'm not sure if I'd feel comfortable if everyone else is super fit. I hope you know what I mean. Many thanks for your help! :)

Have you managed to find a place? I'm not far from Manchester. Always been curious but equally have a worry size wise. I'm a size 12, but used to be bigger. So i still have confidence issues. x
 

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Have you managed to find a place? I'm not far from Manchester. Always been curious but equally have a worry size wise. I'm a size 12, but used to be bigger. So i still have confidence issues. x
Ill go with you
 
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