Sub hubby would love his wife to be more dominant

Subhubby37

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Hi all,

I would love my wife to be more dominant etc I own a chastity cage - which she knows I do - as i have worn it in bed and she caught me in it and asked me what it was.. so I explained.

She has a thing of thinking im cheating on her which I ain't. How would I go about proving this to her?

We also go away for the night this weekend and i have 'treated' her to a vibrator that sits in her underwear which i would love her to wear while we travel - by car - to the hotel and i can control it via an app which i think could be interesting.

Would love to hear your advice and any tips etc...
 

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Lot of different fantasies here. And perspectives. Like, your desire to be dominated and put into chastity, a form of surrender to control, comes from a very different place to having the remote to a vibrator while your wife is seat-belted in place, where you have control. Personally, I prefer to do that over dinner rather than driving - I prefer my danger to be implied. The road isn't a place for distraction. Very sexy when your date walks in and hands you the remote, and eagerly awaits your next move, though.

Not saying switching is a bad thing, people are complex, and details really make a fantasy or fetish. It's just that I'm getting less 'I want her to be more dominant', and more 'I want to try *everything*'. Maybe pursuing one of these ideas further, rather than everything at once, might be worth a try?
 

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Hi all,

I would love my wife to be more dominant etc I own a chastity cage - which she knows I do - as i have worn it in bed and she caught me in it and asked me what it was.. so I explained.

She has a thing of thinking im cheating on her which I ain't. How would I go about proving this to her?

We also go away for the night this weekend and i have 'treated' her to a vibrator that sits in her underwear which i would love her to wear while we travel - by car - to the hotel and i can control it via an app which i think could be interesting.

Would love to hear your advice and any tips etc...
My advice if your both into porn then ask her too play porn movie raffle put topical sexual movie types into a hat and whatever that's on the raffle ticket both agree got too watch and discuss if the type of sexual movie turned you both on.
Plus the titles you put into the raffle neither of you no what the others ones sexual movie type is.hey that's a sexual turn on just writing the ultimate sex topics.
I've played it with an x and it was a good night what's your secret most perverse fantasy can b shared .
 
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