Should I get a Boob Job?

[Firefly]

I think it's more insecurities about other men

Yeah....that sucks.
He has a "hot wife" but instead of enjoying that you're all his, he wants to hide the fact?

 

[TheOneEyedDodo]

I think it's more insecurities about other men

So why get a boob job? Men will only stare more........

 

[ThickHips]

So why get a boob job? Men will only stare more........

So, his insecurity should determine what I do with making myself feel better?

 

[GymGuyChef]

My boyfriend is adament that I shouldn't get my boobs done, I am really into the idea. My opinion is that he is insecure about me going bigger, and due to his insecurities, doesn't want other guys looking at my boobs as well as my bum (in his opinion this happens already, not mine.)

He did grow up with his friends teasing him about his mum's boobs, which are very big, so this may play into it - what do you think? Not looking for a string of compliments, genuine opinion.

My boobs are okay size, but very saggy already at 32, and nipples face down. Even if they were an okay shape, tbf, I would still like the idea of bigger. View attachment 173693

Hey ,
He has a lot of insecurities for sure . If you feel like you want it bigger and more perky and slinky than do it as you sound that will be both of your liking.
Regarding other man looking at your bum and boobs tell him that :
We man have a choice (if lucky ) to have an obese , ugly girlfriend that would nobody look at so we can be secure and confident or
Have a sexy , smart big/ perky boobs bouncy ass girl what everyone gonna look at but I’m if she holds my hand I’ll be walk with my back straight chin up and be proud of being that lucky guy . Keep a woman true her soul and hurt not by wrapping her up in a jumper so nobody can see and take it away from us .

 

[TheOneEyedDodo]

So, his insecurity should determine what I do with making myself feel better?

No,not at all. I only meant that if you're gonna do something as important as changing your appearance, just make sure you do it for you............

 

[ThickHips]

Hey ,
He has a lot of insecurities for sure . If you feel like you want it bigger and more perky and slinky than do it as you sound that will be both of your liking.
Regarding other man looking at your bum and boobs tell him that :
We man have a choice (if lucky ) to have an obese , ugly girlfriend that would nobody look at so we can be secure and confident or
Have a sexy , smart big/ perky boobs bouncy ass girl what everyone gonna look at but I’m if she holds my hand I’ll be walk with my back straight chin up and be proud of being that lucky guy . Keep a woman true her soul and hurt not by wrapping her up in a jumper so nobody can see and take it away from us .

lol at "take it away from us," you should like a good motivational speaker for him, but what about what I should do based on your own opinion.

 

[GymGuyChef]

Yeah....that sucks.
He has a "hot wife" but instead of enjoying that you're all his, he wants to hide the fact?

Exactly . I would walk with a straight back smiling and being proud and make everyone hate me for having such a hot partner

 

[GymGuyChef]

So, his insecurity should determine what I do with making myself feel better?

Not at all. I genuinely believe everyone is imperfectly perfect and deserved to have someone who loves her/him for exactly who he/she and doesn’t ask to change yourself or live under control by the yoke persons. Change the person don’t change your dreams etc

 

[Jay36]

I would say it all depends on you and how insecure you fell about them.

I would say no to big but peeking them up would not hurt if you don’t like the nips hanging low.

But you the one that needs to live with them after.

 

[Matt1975]

My boyfriend is adament that I shouldn't get my boobs done, I am really into the idea. My opinion is that he is insecure about me going bigger, and due to his insecurities, doesn't want other guys looking at my boobs as well as my bum (in his opinion this happens already, not mine.)

He did grow up with his friends teasing him about his mum's boobs, which are very big, so this may play into it - what do you think? Not looking for a string of compliments, genuine opinion.

My boobs are okay size, but very saggy already at 32, and nipples face down. Even if they were an okay shape, tbf, I would still like the idea of bigger. View attachment 173693

Personal I think they are lovely, but you do it if you think it will make you feel better. But from this man’s point of view I do prefer a natural breast.

 

[SissyClarise]

My boyfriend is adament that I shouldn't get my boobs done, I am really into the idea. My opinion is that he is insecure about me going bigger, and due to his insecurities, doesn't want other guys looking at my boobs as well as my bum (in his opinion this happens already, not mine.)

He did grow up with his friends teasing him about his mum's boobs, which are very big, so this may play into it - what do you think? Not looking for a string of compliments, genuine opinion.

My boobs are okay size, but very saggy already at 32, and nipples face down. Even if they were an okay shape, tbf, I would still like the idea of bigger. View attachment 173693

Its depends on you as it getting it done makes you feel more confident and comfortable within yourself then do it

 

[ThickHips]

The comments are kind, but no one actually giving their opinion - just, if I want to then do - but that's the conundrum.

 

[Bucks50]

The comments are kind, but no one actually giving their opinion - just, if I want to then do - but that's the conundrum.

if you want to, what is stopping you? x do what makes you happy!

 

[HornyMaleUK]

Personally I don’t think you need one. But I’m not complaining if you do

 

[Honry8in]

My boyfriend is adament that I shouldn't get my boobs done, I am really into the idea. My opinion is that he is insecure about me going bigger, and due to his insecurities, doesn't want other guys looking at my boobs as well as my bum (in his opinion this happens already, not mine.)

He did grow up with his friends teasing him about his mum's boobs, which are very big, so this may play into it - what do you think? Not looking for a string of compliments, genuine opinion.

My boobs are okay size, but very saggy already at 32, and nipples face down. Even if they were an okay shape, tbf, I would still like the idea of bigger. View attachment 173693

You have them done if and only if you want too not just to pleased your boyfriend in end he might not stay with you but bigger boobs will

 

[hornyhav12]

My boyfriend is adament that I shouldn't get my boobs done, I am really into the idea. My opinion is that he is insecure about me going bigger, and due to his insecurities, doesn't want other guys looking at my boobs as well as my bum (in his opinion this happens already, not mine.)

He did grow up with his friends teasing him about his mum's boobs, which are very big, so this may play into it - what do you think? Not looking for a string of compliments, genuine opinion.

My boobs are okay size, but very saggy already at 32, and nipples face down. Even if they were an okay shape, tbf, I would still like the idea of bigger. View attachment 173693

 

[GymGuyChef]

if you want to, what is stopping you? x do what makes you happy!

I did gave mine .

 

[Danewa]

My boyfriend is adament that I shouldn't get my boobs done, I am really into the idea. My opinion is that he is insecure about me going bigger, and due to his insecurities, doesn't want other guys looking at my boobs as well as my bum (in his opinion this happens already, not mine.)

He did grow up with his friends teasing him about his mum's boobs, which are very big, so this may play into it - what do you think? Not looking for a string of compliments, genuine opinion.

My boobs are okay size, but very saggy already at 32, and nipples face down. Even if they were an okay shape, tbf, I would still like the idea of bigger. View attachment 173693

No they are perfect as they are

 

[Firefly]

The comments are kind, but no one actually giving their opinion - just, if I want to then do - but that's the conundrum.

I still don't know what to do about his insecurity/jealousy issue.

Open communication of course. Perhaps going through a simulation of what he would feel and do if you were with someone else... or actively flirting with someone else. Or talking through what he is worried might happen.

Then if the outcome is that you might cheat, challenging him on why he doesn't trust/believe you. Or if the outcome is that you might find someone better, then discussing about why you plan on being in his life until your tits reach your belly button (assuming you never have any sort surgery etc). Or talking about a possible future in which you both had full happy relationships elsewhere.

Perhaps his insecurity comes from the fact that after 9 years you call him a boyfriend...(or do you call him a partner? if you live together full time he is a common-law partner....) Discussing what his future hopes are for you. and for himself. and for you two as a unit. What are your future hopes for yourself?

Or perhaps set something up with a third party and let him experience being cucked. It will surely be a wakeup call for him.

Maybe he will get over that fact his lady is hot as hell and accept that she is wildly devoted and has NO CONTROL over other peoples behaviour/stares. who knows maybe he actually really enjoys reclamation sex.

Have you talked with many people who have had breast augmentation therapies? You should. I think it will help better inform your move on the surgery side as well.

 

[Elite2021]

I think personally, you shouldn't. They're perfectly defined in how big/large they are, aswell as how they sit (from the picture)

I assume by the picture, natural is 100% something you should stick with

If anything, having them more rounder won't hurt, but don't make it look plasticky lol

How are your areolas & nipples, that helps really because you want them to be sitting right on your boobs otherwise it'd be odd, hence why them being that large as natural is a gift in itself