Is there a high proportion of man haters within the community?

[Doll-Lover]

So to clarify I’m a male, I have a friend (F) who is bi. We are regular play mates, never touching. She has had numerous partners over the years I’ve been allowed to watch and interact with.

However her new beau (F) is 100% lesbian. We discussed openly our friendship and what we do and it started off well, though now I feel like I’m being abused.

Not in a nice risqué way either! This is with malevolent intent to physically hurt me during play. I’m wondering if this is a normal thing for someone of that ilk?

 

[Firefly]

Do you mean in the way like reverse of how straight men have been known to murder gay men who come on to them?

Are lesbian women more likely to enact violence against a gender they're not sexually attracted to? Is that what you are asking?

I wonder if this is universal... most people are perhaps more likely to be upset with / offended by / unkind towards sexual advances from a person they are not sexually attracted to. Don't you think?

 

[Doll-Lover]

Do you mean in the way like reverse of how straight men have been known to murder gay men who come on to them?

Are lesbian women more likely to enact violence against a gender they're not sexually attracted to? Is that what you are asking?

I wonder if this is universal... most people are perhaps more likely to be upset with / offended by / unkind towards sexual advances from a person they are not sexually attracted to. Don't you think?

Yeah that’s exactly what I’m asking.