Is there a high proportion of man haters within the community?

[Doll-Lover]

So to clarify I’m a male, I have a friend (F) who is bi. We are regular play mates, never touching. She has had numerous partners over the years I’ve been allowed to watch and interact with.

However her new beau (F) is 100% lesbian. We discussed openly our friendship and what we do and it started off well, though now I feel like I’m being abused.

Not in a nice risqué way either! This is with malevolent intent to physically hurt me during play. I’m wondering if this is a normal thing for someone of that ilk?

 

[Firefly]

Do you mean in the way like reverse of how straight men have been known to murder gay men who come on to them?

Are lesbian women more likely to enact violence against a gender they're not sexually attracted to? Is that what you are asking?

I wonder if this is universal... most people are perhaps more likely to be upset with / offended by / unkind towards sexual advances from a person they are not sexually attracted to. Don't you think?

 

[Doll-Lover]

Do you mean in the way like reverse of how straight men have been known to murder gay men who come on to them?

Are lesbian women more likely to enact violence against a gender they're not sexually attracted to? Is that what you are asking?

I wonder if this is universal... most people are perhaps more likely to be upset with / offended by / unkind towards sexual advances from a person they are not sexually attracted to. Don't you think?

Yeah that’s exactly what I’m asking.

 

[sarahcupcake]

I am a gay cis female but I am not some weird male hater. I also happen to think making sexual advances on other people, who you don't even know properly, is totally inappropriate.

If Doll Lover doesn't like the current "play" experience then my advice would be to stop moaning that it isn't what you want, simply don't do it and go elsewhere.

 

[Doll-Lover]

I am a gay cis female but I am not some weird male hater. I also happen to think making sexual advances on other people, who you don't even know properly, is totally inappropriate.

If Doll Lover doesn't like the current "play" experience then my advice would be to stop moaning that it isn't what you want, simply don't do it and go elsewhere.

But that’s the thing I haven’t made advances. The current play experience was set up and had strict boundaries set up way before she came on the scene.

Something my friend and I have done for many years with different partners who have chosen to play with us.

 

[HotAssFan]

What sort of play are we talking about here? Yeah, if you don't like it stop doing it lol.

 

[Doll-Lover]

What sort of play are we talking about here? Yeah, if you don't like it stop doing it lol.

So the sort of play is me in the cuck chair watching and satisfying myself if I’m told I’m allowed to.

One of the main ground rules is no touching unless invited and I’ve abided by that. With her new partner there’s been no touching whatsoever.

 

[HotAssFan]

So the sort of play is me in the cuck chair watching and satisfying myself if I’m told I’m allowed to.

One of the main ground rules is no touching unless invited and I’ve abided by that. With her new partner there’s been no touching whatsoever.

I don't know, other people here might be able to help more.