Be patient.
Join in the conversations.
Take your time to work out who is who.
If it seems to good to be true, it probably is.
Don't give out your contact details in public chats/forums
Don't give out your contact details, unless you're sure of the person you're exchanging with.
In this immense mire of fakery and skulduggery, there are a few real diamonds.
You can tell the scammers or fakes by there movement activities, I used to have 3 IRC networks basic compared to this but one thing we had was a bot for revolving door that did a 24hr ban for constant entering and leaving constantly
If you're looking for a quick fix no - disappear off to Tinder or some random pay site. If you think you've found a quick fix here - it's probably a man, a scam, or both. Not a single genuine female on this site is likely to simply pounce on you within minutes and give you their address so you can immediately go and fuck them. It's happened, but is very, very rare. If we wanted quick sex, there's enough male regs in main we would simply ask; and we've known them for longer than a few minutes.
If you're willing to put the time into knowing people and having a normal conversation in the main chat rooms, there is a chance you'll find what you're looking for.