Gay Friend

[VicBhouy]

I have a strong suspicion that my best friend is gay but don’t know for sure.

I actually asked him straight out if he was gay and he said “Give me a kiss and I’ll tell you!”

Of course I declined to snog him so now I guess I will never find out!

How can you tell if a friend is gay?

 

[ukpeeper]

Does it matter to you if he is or isn't?

 

[VicBhouy]

Does it matter to you if he is or isn't?

Absolutely not… people should be free to be themselves - I have always been of that mind, however, I am a very handsome, virile man and I don’t want men lusting after me just because I can’t help being eye-candy to both men and women!

 

[Brody1975]

I’m assuming that with him being your best friend, you’ve known him for a while?

In the absence of ‘come ons’ it would appear you’re not his type. Regardless of his leanings.

 

[VicBhouy]

I’m assuming that with him being your best friend, you’ve known him for a while?

In the absence of ‘come ons’ it would appear you’re not his type. Regardless of his leanings.

Hells bells… I never thought of that! What is wrong with that guy? He must be heterosexual!

 

[Blueeyes82]

I have a strong suspicion that my best friend is gay but don’t know for sure.

I actually asked him straight out if he was gay and he said “Give me a kiss and I’ll tell you!”

Of course I declined to snog him so now I guess I will never find out!

How can you tell if a friend is gay?

In all honesty, does it matter or change things if he is?
if he is, he’ll tell you when he’s ready to. Just be sure he knows he should be comfortable to tell you and there would be no negative reaction from you.