First time trying bum sex advice please?

[Incrediblepjw34]

The girl I’m going with at the moment has asked a few times about bum sex with me. I’m quite thick tanned and girthy I have been told my cock is a lovely shape so I have agreed to take the plunge and go for it tonight.
What is the best position?
Will it be messy?
Is it okay to cum while doing this?
And finally getting it all in should be done slowly
Thanks in advance for all your help!!

 

[HotAssFan]

Porn movies make anal sex look easy and very clean - I've never tried it.

 

[Incrediblepjw34]

I agree with you, and the other thing is that I think that it should be her who has control

 

[HardAnal]

Go slow. Eat her out, fuck her pussy, give her a couple orgasms first. This relaxes her. Then use a fuckton of lube, tongue or fingertips to gently stimulate and loosen it. I cannot emphasise enough that you need to take your time and communicate with her. She needs to get used to your fingers being there. ANY sign of tensing up, stop what you are doing. You can hurt her. You'll need to work lube inside of her as the anus does not naturally lubricate itself. When she's comfortable with at least two fingers being in there, start GENTLY stretching her. When she's ready she'll tell you. Lube up your cock fully. Go very very slowly. Stop a lot to let her relax herself. Again, any signs of tensing up, withdraw immediately. With patience, communication and a fuckton of lube, it will be a pleasurable experience for you both.

Happy Analling

 

[Incrediblepjw34]

I agree with you, and the other thing is that I think that it should be her who has control

 

[HardAnal]

I agree with you, and the other thing is that I think that it should be her who has control

100%. If she's never done it before it can be a strange experience for her. But as with most things, the more you do it, the easier it gets.