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dazza752012

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I'm sticking with every member deserves the same respect, however... because I'm in an arsey mood - If it's men posing as women who are your problem... can we agree that it's men who need to quit lying?
I agree....
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You give me a man's name that doesn't BEND the truth ??? STOP PLEASE ive said some white ones x x
 

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You seemed to be victimising anyone who has experienced this on here before x let's just tell the truth x WERE ALL HERE FOR FUN X X
It would appear you & I just aren't on the same wavelength.
I too have experienced abaolute bullshit on this site, like wouldn't have thought there were too many that haven't. I wasn't victimising anyone.
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I appreciate your compliments but could I ask that we speak HERE IN THE THREAD ONLY.
 
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It would appear you & I just aren't on the same wavelength.
I too have experienced abaolute bullshit on this site, like wouldn't have thought there were too many that haven't. I wasn't victimising anyone.
I appreciate your compliments but could I ask that we speak here in the thread?
Yeah do you think we could put this to 1 side but work together to help others on here it's meant to be SEXY FUN x not pot luck x
 

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It would appear you & I just aren't on the same wavelength.
I too have experienced abaolute bullshit on this site, like wouldn't have thought there were too many that haven't. I wasn't victimising anyone.
I appreciate your compliments but could I ask that we speak here in the thread?
Yeah do you think we could put this to 1 side but work together to help others on here it's meant to be SEXY FUN x not pot luck x
Dont know if I've replied
Yeah do you think we could put this to 1 side but work together to help others on here it's meant to be SEXY FUN x not pot luck x
How can we sort this ??
 

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Probably not. I'm not tolerant enough for this conversation alone let alone more like it.

Best of luck in your quest :)
Not my quest x you caused this situation but typically buts out when asked to work together x THANKS BBW1986
 

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Fake accounts are part and parcel of free sites and something to accept.
Feel free as others have done and call out the fakes.
Or request selfverication
Hope these suggestions help
Take care
Keep it real and remember...
Not all cartoon characters are fake!
Have fun.
 
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Oldfitman

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Well that was an interesting read, to me I’ve realised that this place is not a dating site and BBW is correct, it’s actually nice to get to know a person not based on looks alone. I’ve met some really nice genuine people on here men and women and to be honest if they are pretending then perhaps there may be a reason, lonely!
This place gives opportunity to talk and not feel alone. Even if we don’t approve of what people do we can still be polite.
 
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Not my quest x you caused this situation but typically buts out when asked to work together x THANKS BBW1986
"Typically".... you speak as though you know me?
You do realise that I'm not the woman bigs43uk first spoke of?
I replied to him supporting the need for honesty... I only disagreed with his personal description of whoever the woman is.

If you feel as though I've caused this situation, that's ok. You might be right. I mean not replying to your messages hasn't stopped you from sending them so I figured I'd keep you company on this thread instead.

However.. 'to work' is not the reason I'm here... and the fact that no amount of help/education will be enough for some people remains.

If you feel the need to call people out for being fake, then please do so. Do whatever you need to make this site feel safe for you.
 

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Funny there all sleeping now
At the risk of sounding argumentative yes some of us went to sleep.
What you have to try and remember is that gender is a personal thing and people identify as what makes them feel comfortable and normal .
I have personally been approached by gender alternative people but like any free thinking person I just say “thank you I’m flattered but it just doesn’t do it for me “ and wish them well with their search for companionship.

Far be it for me to shout homophobic tendencies are still a scourge in this country but apparently the evidence is blatant.
 

elwoodbluz1966

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To have verification you would need to provide much more information to the site than you currently do. As this is a free chat site, the only information you give as a registered chatter is your email address. As a guest chatter you don't even have to supply that.

Verification would invariably mean supplying credit card details, and even that is not 100% fool proof. Credit card details could be gained without the card holders knowledge or could be false or stolen.

Our advice is always be very careful in what information you give to any other chatter, be safe, don't agree to meet anyone without at first speaking to them - via cam is advisable - and to always meet in a public place at first and make sure your family, friends or somebody, know where and when you are going.

What we do not want on here, is a culture of chatters calling other chatters 'fake' with absolutely no proof or just because they 'have a hunch' or have maybe been rejected by that chatter. This drives potential good chatters away from the site.
 

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It has to be said that there are fake people everywhere even in real life.

No one here is committed to talking to anyone else unless they want to. You have no right to expect everyone of the opposite sex to commit to talking because you want to
 
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Shywife

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"Typically".... you speak as though you know me?
You do realise that I'm not the woman bigs43uk first spoke of?
I replied to him supporting the need for honesty... I only disagreed with his personal description of whoever the woman is.

If you feel as though I've caused this situation, that's ok. You might be right. I mean not replying to your messages hasn't stopped you from sending them so I figured I'd keep you company on this thread instead.

However.. 'to work' is not the reason I'm here... and the fact that no amount of help/education will be enough for some people remains.

If you feel the need to call people out for being fake, then please do so. Do whatever you need to make this site feel safe for you.
I’m with you one sided male view. What about all the false dick pics? Cartoons. Six packs? Why should we women trust them? As Adie wisely says have fun if it’s not stop
 
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