Scotsman72
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Hi always same for me to far away
Curious married straight guy
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Bloody hell, don't find many Essex on here!
Ifancyolder
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Same here happy to arrange to get together and take it one step at a time as long as it’s very discreet. I live in West Sussex x
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TheDude
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So you didn’t want to hear the rest of the story about my wife getting fucked then? Bullshitting time waster.
Essex here too
Curioussam21
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Personally I'm the same as you . I joined grinder app and I've met a lot of nice guys that like too chat at 1st and respect my discretion and keep me safe . I've only chatted with them at the mo but they are making me want too take that big step a little more . Find someone that's in the same boat and willing too be patient and has the same discretion as yourrm needs .
In Yorkshire if want a good with a nice cock
Ifancyolder
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I’m staying in a hotel in Plymouth all next week and it would be my first time with a guy so happy to be your first if you would be mine and visit? X
BoredandWelsh
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This has hit me hard in a good way. So many things mentioned that mirror how I have been feeling for over 20 years.
I am a straight, married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching.
I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does absolutely nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never rim or finger a guys arse. Sucking is very debatable and would depend on so many things but the very thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on.
Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it but I wouldn't want my cock touching another cock either, as in wanking them together. Again, does nothing for me.
The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only for me.
I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a completely safe, incredibly discreet, very private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I would want to treat it as a one off just in case, so would want to make sure the experience was as enjoyable and as comfortable as possible.
I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body.
I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings.
Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Make my way behind him to give him a reacharound to finish him off, as I also grab his hand and place it on my crotch so he would know how turned on I was, as I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk out in front of him. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out.
Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.
Would love to find a local wank buddy to at least try.
I am a straight, married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching.
I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does absolutely nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never rim or finger a guys arse. Sucking is very debatable and would depend on so many things but the very thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on.
Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it but I wouldn't want my cock touching another cock either, as in wanking them together. Again, does nothing for me.
The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only for me.
I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a completely safe, incredibly discreet, very private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I would want to treat it as a one off just in case, so would want to make sure the experience was as enjoyable and as comfortable as possible.
I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body.
I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings.
Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Make my way behind him to give him a reacharound to finish him off, as I also grab his hand and place it on my crotch so he would know how turned on I was, as I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk out in front of him. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out.
Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.
Would love to find a local wank buddy to at least try.
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Franglo
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I just posted an advert on a website asking for couples or single women, but in general only men replied. I wasn't looking for men, but I was finally tempted. Now I love it, but had a lovely fuck with a slim young lady recently while her partner videoed us. With a bit of luck she will return soon and a male friend will join us. Best of both worlds.
Alwayshorny4029
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Where you from??
I was in a similar situation and then met a guy and sucked him off it’s hard to find someone but I’m interested in meeting you I’m new to it so we can take it easy
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Franglo
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I think the two go together. And quite honestly I think you will enjoy it more that way. Once you have his cock in your hand, he will want to reach for yours. You don't need to suck the other guy if you don't want to, but I think you will like it. So will he.
chesterfield, derbyshire
Keefyboy2001
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Same in cheshire
what was the site?
I classified myself as not experience as only been with 2 other guys. Once as a 4some with my wife and the second just me and another guy. It's been 2 years since I've been with another guy and do want to try again. For me I like that it's not regular thing with them and found it more sexual and a turn on as both time it happened it was unexpected. Yer it's not a bad thing to fulfill your turn on and hope you do reach your goal.
mousea003
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Same boat. Never engaged. Not sure if I’d be up for fucking straight away, but the thought of sucking and licking a cock really gets me hard. What was it like the first time you sucked a cock? Taste? Smell? I wouldn’t have issues being sucked or a mutual handjob
Not sure what my gag reflexes are like, I know In the heat of the moment I like to be deep throated and fuck my Wifes mouth, what if someone does it it to me, will I handle it? Would I handle a load down my throat. All these questions make me quite apprehensive about it.
Not sure what my gag reflexes are like, I know In the heat of the moment I like to be deep throated and fuck my Wifes mouth, what if someone does it it to me, will I handle it? Would I handle a load down my throat. All these questions make me quite apprehensive about it.
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That is an impressive profile pic, images like that make me want a cock more and more