Bi-curious and wondering

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Hi all. Recently ive become more and more bi-curious but I’ve never actually been with a guy. I find myself watching gay porn and the idea of having a cock has started to arouse me.

Trouble is I’m not sure if I could actually go through with it if the opportunity ever did arise.

How do I actually go about trying it? I wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time and be called a tease if met up and then changed my mind.

I just like the idea of swallowing cum and would love to have a cock cum in my mouth. Been finding the idea of several loads to drink very horny but how could I ever do that if I’m afraid of even sucking one guy off?!?!
Life is short go for it now
 

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Hey Mads
I've been thinking the same for a while. Like you I don't want to lead anyone on and not go through with it.
PM me and we could chat some more. See if we gel, maybe meet and see if anything happens. No pressure on either of us.
I’m in the same position, not sure what to do
 

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I like the idea of rubbing cocks together, being sucked off by a woman at the same time, possibly wank each other off but I couldn’t suck cock or fuck. I like to watch bi mmf and bi couple foursomes, recently found some really good ones.
Ideally I’d like a meet to start slow, get our cocks out, wank over porn together, try touching each others and go from there.
I agree though it must be hard to arrange, you’d need someone who is on the same page as you and understands that things could stop abruptly but be ok with it and doesn’t pressure you to go further than you’re comfortable
Fancying this idea
 

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I’m sure there are plenty of likeminded blokes on here who are in the same position and be willing to meet. I think it would be perfectly acceptable that it’s something new and that when it gets to the point if one or both feel uncomfortable then call it off with absolutely no pressure to continue. I’d go with the idea of starting off with some mutual wanking, get comfortable in each other’s company and slowly progress from there. Maybe sat closer to each other, then playing with each others cocks. Don’t force it past what is still comfortable.
 

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I’m sure there are plenty of likeminded blokes on here who are in the same position and be willing to meet. I think it would be perfectly acceptable that it’s something new and that when it gets to the point if one or both feel uncomfortable then call it off with absolutely no pressure to continue. I’d go with the idea of starting off with some mutual wanking, get comfortable in each other’s company and slowly progress from there. Maybe sat closer to each other, then playing with each others cocks. Don’t force it past what is still comfortable.
Liking the thought of this. Message me if you’d like to have a chat
 

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Hi all. Recently ive become more and more bi-curious but I’ve never actually been with a guy. I find myself watching gay porn and the idea of having a cock has started to arouse me.

Trouble is I’m not sure if I could actually go through with it if the opportunity ever did arise.

How do I actually go about trying it? I wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time and be called a tease if met up and then changed my mind.

I just like the idea of swallowing cum and would love to have a cock cum in my mouth. Been finding the idea of several loads to drink very horny but how could I ever do that if I’m afraid of even sucking one guy off?!?!
I feel exactly the same. Love the thought of it. But I don't fancy men, but I would need the cock hung of a decent looking person. The only offer I've had is the opposite
 

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I like the idea of rubbing cocks together, being sucked off by a woman at the same time, possibly wank each other off but I couldn’t suck cock or fuck. I like to watch bi mmf and bi couple foursomes, recently found some really good ones.
Ideally I’d like a meet to start slow, get our cocks out, wank over porn together, try touching each others and go from there.
I agree though it must be hard to arrange, you’d need someone who is on the same page as you and understands that things could stop abruptly but be ok with it and doesn’t pressure you to go further than you’re comfortable
That sounds good !
 

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I’m sure there are plenty of likeminded blokes on here who are in the same position and be willing to meet. I think it would be perfectly acceptable that it’s something new and that when it gets to the point if one or both feel uncomfortable then call it off with absolutely no pressure to continue. I’d go with the idea of starting off with some mutual wanking, get comfortable in each other’s company and slowly progress from there. Maybe sat closer to each other, then playing with each others cocks. Don’t force it past what is still comfortable.
Would love to join a nice couple for the best of both worlds!!! Im Nr Maidstone???
 

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I have not done anything at all with a guy but felt like this for over 20 years.

Adam, 40, Swansea.

I am a straight, married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching.

I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does absolutely nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women.

For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never rim or finger a guys arse. Sucking is very debatable and would depend on so many factors (although would not rule it out) but the very thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on.

Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it but I wouldn't want my cock touching another cock either, as in wanking them together. Again, does nothing for me.

The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only for me.

I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a completely safe, incredibly discreet, very private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I would want to treat it as a one off just in case, so would want to make sure the experience was as enjoyable and as comfortable as possible.

I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body.

Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Make my way behind him to give him a reacharound to finish him off, as I also grab his hand and place it on my crotch so he would know how turned on I was, as I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk out in front of him. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out.

Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

I am a normal, confident, can be quiet type of guy. I know I want to try this but it has to be with the right guy that ticks all the boxes.

I would love to find a local wank buddy to at least try.
 

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I have not done anything at all with a guy but felt like this for over 20 years.

Adam, 40, Swansea.

I am a straight, married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching.

I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does absolutely nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women.

For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never rim or finger a guys arse. Sucking is very debatable and would depend on so many factors (although would not rule it out) but the very thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on.

Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it but I wouldn't want my cock touching another cock either, as in wanking them together. Again, does nothing for me.

The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only for me.

I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a completely safe, incredibly discreet, very private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I would want to treat it as a one off just in case, so would want to make sure the experience was as enjoyable and as comfortable as possible.

I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body.

Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Make my way behind him to give him a reacharound to finish him off, as I also grab his hand and place it on my crotch so he would know how turned on I was, as I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk out in front of him. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out.

Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

I am a normal, confident, can be quiet type of guy. I know I want to try this but it has to be with the right guy that ticks all the boxes.

I would love to find a local wank buddy to at least try.
Hard to find local and likeminded but try fabguys or fabswingers and you can set more local people.
 
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I'm in a similar position. Married, but always fantasised about being with a man. I am actually attracted to men, and if single could imagine being with a guy. It's just that tentative, nervous first step I need to make. I'm in Somerset and open to chat with anyone.
 

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I have not done anything at all with a guy but felt like this for over 20 years.

Adam, 40, Swansea.

I am a straight, married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching.

I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does absolutely nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women.

For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never rim or finger a guys arse. Sucking is very debatable and would depend on so many factors (although would not rule it out) but the very thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on.

Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it but I wouldn't want my cock touching another cock either, as in wanking them together. Again, does nothing for me.

The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only for me.

I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a completely safe, incredibly discreet, very private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I would want to treat it as a one off just in case, so would want to make sure the experience was as enjoyable and as comfortable as possible.

I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body.

Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Make my way behind him to give him a reacharound to finish him off, as I also grab his hand and place it on my crotch so he would know how turned on I was, as I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk out in front of him. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out.

Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

I am a normal, confident, can be quiet type of guy. I know I want to try this but it has to be with the right guy that ticks all the boxes.

I would love to find a local wank buddy to at least try.
I’d think you will find most of us feel the very same way, we have the urge to try a kinky encounter, but fear the chance that the other person could be a fraud with intent to ruin your life.
That is also my biggest fear and restricts my responses to people I meet on here.
 

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Hi all. Recently ive become more and more bi-curious but I’ve never actually been with a guy. I find myself watching gay porn and the idea of having a cock has started to arouse me.

Trouble is I’m not sure if I could actually go through with it if the opportunity ever did arise.

How do I actually go about trying it? I wouldn’t want to waste anyone’s time and be called a tease if met up and then changed my mind.

I just like the idea of swallowing cum and would love to have a cock cum in my mouth. Been finding the idea of several loads to drink very horny but how could I ever do that if I’m afraid of even sucking one guy off?!?!
Find someone and tell them how you feel. You want to try but need help and encouragement and some understanding. Let them strip you naked and take it from there
 
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