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How do women feel about ageing - As a man getting older I find that my body is not like it used to be, a bit saggy and wrinkly in places. But as men get older it can be classed as ‘distinguished’. How do you ladies feel about ageing? I am a believer in natural beauty no matter the imperfections. How do you feel about cosmetic things like botox, boob jobs etc.
 
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Nah not into surgery, what will happen will happen. You can do lots to keep your body in shape (look at firefly!) so it is what you make of it I think. In the end you make the choices that mould your body.
 
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Chandos said:
How do women feel about ageing - As a man getting older I find that my body is not like it used to be, a bit saggy and wrinkly in places. But as men get older it can be classed as ‘distinguished’. How do you ladies feel about ageing? I am a believer in natural beauty no matter the imperfections. How do you feel about cosmetic things like botox, boob jobs etc.
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I know not who you are asking but as a milestone birthday approaches i.ll be getting some botox as you can see from my mugshot pic i need it lol.would you get anything done ?
 
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Chandos said:
How do you ladies feel about ageing?
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I have yet to age a day passed 16. So, I wouldn't know. ;)

I wasn't all too impressed when God took back the breastfeeding boobs though. I thought that was pretty rude. To go from a barely B up to a D in a matter of weeks and then down to...no longer need a bra size...was shocking. It was a big learning curve and meant a bucket load of facing up to the fact that bodies can and do change in grossly dramatic ways.

I think I have been lucky, as thus far in life I have been able to see many many many women of different ages and types fully naked. Seeing other women's bodies, their scars, their birthmarks, blemishes and their perfections is very very grounding. Particularly for me, seeing mastectomy scars and c-section scars. Those scars that scream so clearly of femininity and that woman's desire to live. It is very empowering.

I saw an empowerment meme once to the effect of "workout because you love your body, not because you hate it" I would change that to "do it, because you love your body, not because you hate it". Smile, laugh, try something new, draw, write, love, masturbate, learn, meet new people, clean up your fucking kitchen:oops::oops:...whatever it is.

And of course as a menstruating woman...I am keenly excited for all that shit to be done. I am very curious how life will change when progesterone and estrogen no longer get to call the shots.

Finally, when I see cellulite on my legs or bits that hang in ways unlike a magazine model and feel a bit disappointed with that, I post a photo here...and NOBODY else sees it. All everyone see is the beautiful bits. The kind comments and the focus on the beautiful bits for me has been helpful to learn that actually people don't care about the bits you think they care about...let your beautiful bits shine, even if that means showing the bit you feel less satisfied with.
 
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Firefly said:
I have yet to age a day passed 16. So, I wouldn't know. ;)

I wasn't all too impressed when God took back the breastfeeding boobs though. I thought that was pretty rude. To go from a barely B up to a D in a matter of weeks and then down to...no longer need a bra size...was shocking. It was a big learning curve and meant a bucket load of facing up to the fact that bodies can and do change in grossly dramatic ways.

I think I have been lucky, as thus far in life I have been able to see many many many women of different ages and types fully naked. Seeing other women's bodies, their scars, their birthmarks, blemishes and their perfections is very very grounding. Particularly for me, seeing mastectomy scars and c-section scars. Those scars that scream so clearly of femininity and that woman's desire to live. It is very empowering.

I saw an empowerment meme once to the effect of "workout because you love your body, not because you hate it" I would change that to "do it, because you love your body, not because you hate it". Smile, laugh, try something new, draw, write, love, masturbate, learn, meet new people, clean up your fucking kitchen:oops::oops:...whatever it is.

And of course as a menstruating woman...I am keenly excited for all that shit to be done. I am very curious how life will change when progesterone and estrogen no longer get to call the shots.

Finally, when I see cellulite on my legs or bits that hang in ways unlike a magazine model and feel a bit disappointed with that, I post a photo here...and NOBODY else sees it. All everyone see is the beautiful bits. The kind comments and the focus on the beautiful bits for me has been helpful to learn that actually people don't care about the bits you think they care about...let your beautiful bits shine, even if that means showing the bit you feel less satisfied with.
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@Firefly, couldn't have said it better myself, very inciteful indeed. In a lot of ways it is the 'imperfections', if you'll pardon the word, that make us who we are and beautiful.
 
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let your beautiful bits shine, even if that means showing the bit you feel less satisfied with.
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Inciteful post without a doubt. I'd put a light behind my beautiful bits if I thought I had any, to assist the shine show through.

Ohh, a dermatologist did say I had nice skin — for my age!
 
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Everyone is wonderful in their own special way
 
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dicusdiminutivus said:
Inciteful post without a doubt. I'd put a light behind my beautiful bits if I thought I had any, to assist the shine show through.

Ohh, a dermatologist did say I had nice skin — for my age!
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I agree with your dermatologist❤
You also seem to have a pretty wicked tongue and feverishly diabolical mind...
 
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I apologise if this has been asked before....
I was busy shaving my nether region's last night so thought I'd ask, do you ladys prefere cocks that are closing trimmed and shaved smooth (shaft and ball area) or full amount of hair all over ?
 
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