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Secretone said:
Sorry if it's been asked before but question...
Purely in aesthetics do you like to see a cock hard or soft, we get so many dick pics of boners on sites like this but do you prefer hard or natural limp to admire?
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Good question!

flaccid is far more interesting than erect, when it comes to a photograph of a cock one will never touch. Simply because it leaves something for the imagination to enjoy. It shows vulnerability. Also, it allows the viewer at least a few moments to get in the mood vs and erect cock which has too much urgency

But for the most part belly buttons, fingers and shoulders are far far far far more interesting/exciting/stimulating than genitalia.
 
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Firefly said:
Good question!

flaccid is far more interesting than erect, when it comes to a photograph of a cock one will never touch. Simply because it leaves something for the imagination to enjoy. It shows vulnerability. Also, it allows the viewer at least a few moments to get in the mood vs and erect cock which has too much urgency

But for the most part belly buttons, fingers and shoulders are far far far far more interesting/exciting/stimulating than genitalia.
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Thank you for your answer. I agree, love the build up, the tease and anticipation of what's coming, really gets the blood pressure up lol
 
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Younger or older men? Which would you prefer? Or which entices/intrigues you?
 
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Jamie2519 said:
Younger or older men? Which would you prefer? Or which entices/intrigues you?
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Historically, older. Maturity and experience were important as well as enough linguistic skill to carry on the Deep conversations about ice cream and s*** that I tend to get into.

But as my laps around the Sun start to add up I feel like that might be changing.
 
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Firefly said:
Historically, older. Maturity and experience were important as well as enough linguistic skill to carry on the Deep conversations about ice cream and s*** that I tend to get into.

But as my laps around the Sun start to add up I feel like that might be changing.
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Dammit lol
 
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Firefly said:
Historically, older. Maturity and experience were important as well as enough linguistic skill to carry on the Deep conversations about ice cream and s*** that I tend to get into.

But as my laps around the Sun start to add up I feel like that might be changing.
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As a 27yo male I completely agree with you. I find the maturity levels etc lacking with women around my age. Think I’ve been brought up the old fashioned way compared to what it’s like now.
 
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Nibbles said:
Don't think this particular question has been asked... I can't speak for all the ladies, but generally I think I can speak for many and say whether erect or flacid we don't particularly want to see random cocks. Of course there are exceptions, like with a partner, seeing a guy go from soft to semi to rock hard is very appealing, as it indicates something we are doing is working. I think we've all seen enough random cocks on the site to know we've seen enough. I have a YouTube link with this particular subject, might be worth a watch
Enjoy :D
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This is something I have discussed. This site is the first of its kind that I have joined and wasn't sure how it worked or what to expect. You are right, there are lots of dick pics, mine included, but if it's posted in the right context/thread it can be acceptable and hopefully appreciated. I think posting random or sending unsolicited pics is totally different. I believe, since starting here, I have learnt from seeing posts from some of the other members and now think more about my posts. I agree with @Firefly that the expectation of what is to come, if you'll pardon the pun, can be far more exhilarating :D Apologies if this is a bit of a ramble.
 
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Chandos said:
This is something I have discussed. This site is the first of its kind that I have joined and wasn't sure how it worked or what to expect. You are right, there are lots of dick pics, mine included, but if it's posted in the right context/thread it can be acceptable and hopefully appreciated. I think posting random or sending unsolicited pics is totally different. I believe, since starting here, I have learnt from seeing posts from some of the other members and now think more about my posts. I agree with @Firefly that the expectation of what is to come, if you'll pardon the pun, can be far more exhilarating :D Apologies if this is a bit of a ramble.
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I'm fairly new to the forums, although been a member since this site was first created. I mainly used the chat rooms until just recently. Before this site was created, the naughty room was an addition to the ukchat.com site. The sites were then split, the naughty room becoming a part of this site and gradually more rooms were added. It wasn't always so blatantly sexual. The regulars from the other site moved here as there was room for a little more adult chat, noone ever thought it as full on explicit. Over the years it's become this way as more and more people joined. While the forums do indeed have specific threads that encourage different kinds of pics, obviously the time and place is created for the dick pics. I have no complaint with this as it's a choice when you see what the topic of the thread is, as to whether or not to proceed. Just random ppl posting them in the chat rooms can be a bit much when you just want to chat and have a giggle. I'm more about less is more. Leaving something to the imagination works better for me, unless you're up close and personal with someone. You'll probably notice that in threads where it's encouraged to show some skin for example, bums, thighs, biceps, even belly buttons get more likes than the dick pics. If a thread says post your dick here, go for it anyone not wanting to see them, need not click on it. No need to apologise for your ramble. We can all have a ramble at times ;)
 
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Nibbles said:
I'm fairly new to the forums, although been a member since this site was first created. I mainly used the chat rooms until just recently. Before this site was created, the naughty room was an addition to the ukchat.com site. The sites were then split, the naughty room becoming a part of this site and gradually more rooms were added. It wasn't always so blatantly sexual. The regulars from the other site moved here as there was room for a little more adult chat, noone ever thought it as full on explicit. Over the years it's become this way as more and more people joined. While the forums do indeed have specific threads that encourage different kinds of pics, obviously the time and place is created for the dick pics. I have no complaint with this as it's a choice when you see what the topic of the thread is, as to whether or not to proceed. Just random ppl posting them in the chat rooms can be a bit much when you just want to chat and have a giggle. I'm more about less is more. Leaving something to the imagination works better for me, unless you're up close and personal with someone. You'll probably notice that in threads where it's encouraged to show some skin for example, bums, thighs, biceps, even belly buttons get more likes than the dick pics. If a thread says post your dick here, go for it anyone not wanting to see them, need not click on it. No need to apologise for your ramble. We can all have a ramble at times ;)
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Thanks, and I agree about the chat rooms and the way people post in there, it can be a bit in your face. I don't tend to talk in there much but it could be a little disconcerting if a random dick pops up in the middle of a conversation. :D
 
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How long are you satisfied for?
Of course it will depend on a number of things...but what factors affect satedness and how long before you find yourself craving more orgasms?
 
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Firefly said:
How long are you satisfied for?
Of course it will depend on a number of things...but what factors affect satedness and how long before you find yourself craving more orgasms?
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I think I’m kinda like an addict, the more I get the more I want! Haha
And The better and the more intense it was, the quicker I want it again. If we’ve had an AMMMAAZING night and I’ve had multiple orgasms am jumping him again in the morning. Even if that’s like 4 hours later.
Where as if it’s just a quickie to fit in with life, I’m not quite as raging horny lol.
Think hormones and stuff come in to play too but the longest is probably 2/3 days without.
And of course there are times when we’re both super horny but by the time we get to bed after a long/busy day we just crash out, but a lot of those nights one of us ends up sleepy groping the other and we’ll have sleepy sex
 
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How do women feel about ageing - As a man getting older I find that my body is not like it used to be, a bit saggy and wrinkly in places. But as men get older it can be classed as ‘distinguished’. How do you ladies feel about ageing? I am a believer in natural beauty no matter the imperfections. How do you feel about cosmetic things like botox, boob jobs etc.
 
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