I keep going back and forth between wanting a male lover and just having a wank on my own and thinking about all of the dirty things that we could do together, and I suspect that a lot of guys on here are the same. Am I right - or are we just looking for the right guy who can be our lover (in my case looking for married novice dirty sub)? I don't have the answers but I keep looking. I suspect that if we could develop a relationship it might work, but who knows?