Am I bi sexual? Bi curious?

[Lkm81]

Feel the same. I have a partner too, it would destroy her and me if she knew I had these feelings and thoughts. Can I pm you?

Of course you can

 

[BigSteve5000]

A lot of us are in a similar possition. If my wife knew i was seeing a guy regular she would be off. I never had a problem finding somene, he found me and we are both married so it seems to work.

 

[Playday]

Never been with a guy and don’t want to. Like looking at cock though and ladies with cocks

Don’t overthink it just enjoy

 

[Airrad]

Don’t overthink it just enjoy

I just look at ladies with cock and ladies generally

 

[fullofcum42]

Think I'm starting to become curious I've heard stories of men having better blowjobs of a male then a female I've also just found out I like fingers gentle inside my arse I don't think I will ever take a cock in my arse or in my mouth but I've been tempted latly to let a male guzzle me and if he wants to rim me with his tongue why not his already had my cock in his throat may start of with a glory hole first and see how I feel

 

[Airrad]

Think I'm starting to become curious I've heard stories of men having better blowjobs of a male then a female I've also just found out I like fingers gentle inside my arse I don't think I will ever take a cock in my arse or in my mouth but I've been tempted latly to let a male guzzle me and if he wants to rim me with his tongue why not his already had my cock in his throat may start of with a glory hole first and see how I feel

Why is everyone bigger than me

 

[RamblingMan]

So how do you start the conversation with a guy? I want to try stuff but don't know where to start

 

[BoredandWelsh]

Literally registered as a user to simply comment here on this thread. This has hit me hard in a good way. So many things mentioned that mirror how I have been feeling for over 20 years. I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

 

[Curioussam21]

Literally registered as a user to simply comment here on this thread. This has hit me hard in a good way. So many things mentioned that mirror how I have been feeling for over 20 years. I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

I fully agree with this and have the same feelings im also in the same boat married but mo kids .I think I've worked out that the . Naughty secret you carry is what drives your lust and fantasy . Nothing about a man turns me on but the thought of sitting in a car in the dark discrete snogging touching each other drives me insane ! I'm joining grinder just so I can chat with other bi curious men about this . I will prob never act on it at all buy with grinder me and someone may get eqchother worked up and I cam please my self but then I don't have that quilt I quess . There alot of men in the same boat on grinder who are also very I'm understanding. Obviously there also cock hungry nasty men . That send you pics of there dirty holes . DUDE!! behave. But I only download the app and sign in to my free account when I alone for a while knowing I don't get caught I never have anything on my phone when I'm at home even this site is hidden . Good luck bro

 

[Eldrik]

Literally registered as a user to simply comment here on this thread. This has hit me hard in a good way. So many things mentioned that mirror how I have been feeling for over 20 years. I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

Literally registered as a user to simply comment here on this thread. This has hit me hard in a good way. So many things mentioned that mirror how I have been feeling for over 20 years. I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

I will agree with you, you have a lot to lose, to risk your relationship for a five minute thrill - which may turn out to be much less than you imagine it to be - would be foolish, so maybe the wank bank is the best place for that little fantasy. My case is massively different, my wife of 45 years passed away in 2016, we had both been true to each other and I still love her, but earlier this year memories began to surface of me having a sexual relationship with a school friend before I met my wife. I was in the relationship for about six years and we used to suck and wank each other, and kiss and cuddle as often as we could, from secondary school right into college. His father suddenly took a job in Manchester, and moved the whole family, and I now believe that the mental trauma of being suddenly split apart caused me to push all thoughts of him into the back of my memory and never think of him again until this year. I also believe that his Dad realised that there was more going on than just friendship and took the job to split us up, back in the 60's having a queer son was a terrible social stigma. It has made a difference to my outlook, I sometimes look at a man and think how attractive he is. I have told all this to my daughter, who is very supportive and she thinks that it is just another facet of my character and she has told me to explore it if I am so minded. She has also pointed out blokes to me when we are out together and sked me what I thought to them, her usual comment is "Hasn't that bloke over there got a nice arse dad?, He is dressing to show it off too!" Mind you, she also leaned over to me while we were stood at the bar one evening and asked quietly "How you doing, my little cocksucker?" which resulted in me spitting lager all over the bar!! She has my sense of humour. I have not as yet done anything about this new knowledge, but if the opportunity comes up I will certainly welcome the chance.

 

[Airrad]

Literally registered as a user to simply comment here on this thread. This has hit me hard in a good way. So many things mentioned that mirror how I have been feeling for over 20 years. I am a straight married guy with kids and I have never cheated in my life. I love my Wife and I am very lucky but this is always a constant itch that needs scratching. I do not class myself as bi. I have watched gay porn and it does nothing for me. I do not fancy guys at all and I love women. For me personally, I could never kiss or lay naked with a guy. I could never fuck a guy or be fucked by a guy. I could never finger a guys arse or rim. I could never suck but the thought of getting a guy hard and wanking him off and vice versa really turns me on. Who knows? I may hate it but I am gagging to try it. The problem is, I usually chat to guys who want more or are convinced that when I am with them I will be too horny to turn anything down but I know for a fact it is all about the wanking only. I have so much to lose and the risk is massive and it is so hard to find a similar, 'straight' married guy, who is normal, fussy, clean, hygenic, looking for exactly the same, in a safe, incredibly discreet, private, secret manner, for no strings attached fun exploring wanking each other, with no pressure, no rushing and no stress if either changes their mind at any point. I do not even like cum! Lol! Happy to have a guy shoot his load over my hand as I wank him off but I do not want it in my mouth, on my face or on my body. I honestly thought I was in the minority but so refreshing to see I am not the only one with these feelings. Just the thought of meeting in a hotel room, chatting, getting to know each other, making each other relaxed and comfortable, before running my hand over a guys package before lowering his bottoms and fondling his bulge through his boxers before slipping it out and feeling it get erect in my hand. Slowly wanking from the tip to the shaft, hearing him moan as I look at the pleasure on his face knowing how good I was making him feel. Before I start wanking him harder and more vigorously until he explodes his hot sticky spunk. Feeling his cock twitch and pulsate in my hand, not stopping until I have drained his balls and every last bit of cum is out. Well, that is the fantasy anyway. Even if there was a chance of doing this, most hotels only take card payment and I have a joint account with the Wife, so think this will unfortunately remain in the wank bank.

I am the same with 2 exceptions

1. I am not married
2. I get turned on by watching men have wet dreams for exactly the same reasons you describe here.


Masturbating doesn't do it for me just that

 

[StanE]

Hello guys,

I started cross dressing recently and at a very advanced age and am really enjoying it.
Am I bi well no I don't think so, but, I would love to be felt all over. I have wanked one or two guys off and let them do the same to me and done a couple of cock to cock wanks, that's really nice!
The eternal problem is not so much finding someone who would like to do something but finding someone who can host a meet.
This is me


Cheers