Age gap attraction..

wispa

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Hey, just a quick question.
How big of an age gap is acceptable, the reason I ask is because over the last year or so iv found my self being attracted to a girl over 30 years younger than me. I'm 52 but look around 40, and she's just celebrated her 21st birthday.
She wonderful and the conversations we've had have all been good, some flirting, (I think, atleast), she's always saying ... she appreciates everything I do for her... we work well together.
I can't tell if she's interested in me or she's just trying to be more mature.
We haven't acted on it or admitted anything to one anouther, at least outside of simple text responds, which let's be honest can be read multipal ways.
Any of you girls or guys come across this, or have any practical advice.
 

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Don't act on it, it's not worth the risk. She's probably just being friendly. Also large age gaps cause issues, my last two relationships featured a 12 year age cap, first older, then younger. The second relationship I definitely wasn't looking for an age gap after the first one, but it just kind of happened. There's just two big a gap in maturity and life position.
 

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There is no limit .. I've fucked women of all ages (as long as they were legal of course).

Had 18 year olds and I've had 50+
 

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The age gap is an issue to others. In terms of your relationship with this girl, that's ultimately what determines if the age gap is too much. The different life experience can cause issues. Even something as casual as talking about your childhoods will be vastly different. But if you feel the connection is real, then it's your call as to how you pursue it.
 

LongJohnCucker

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Age gaps can vary too .. I fucked a 27 year old girl who was a virgin at one point she had a 'daddy' kink.
 

DeeK21

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Ladies who were born some years before me are always a wonderful turn on
 

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Age is just a number. If you connect with someone you connect from my experience
I agree Hannah age is just a number. I've met people 20 or 30 years younger than me that have no zest for life or get up and go. They just plod along and aren't open to any form of excersise or anything. On the other hand look at older people starting to run marathons or sky diving
 

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I mean, age is just a number, but we all collectively agree that one has to draw a line somewhere, or there'd be no age of consent
 

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I want to discover what the world can offer me so feel the idea of shagging some older men would be a great starting point but you need to see she is that open to ideas like that don't be the one to open the box she might just run like hell find a way for her to open it just to look in then you know you have a reasonable chance
 
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