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[Thiccdirty]

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[jonnya]

If you don't have any commitments to your boyfriend then ditch him if sex is important to you

 

[Ste1972]

I haven't ever told anyone before but....

I've been with my boyfriend now for 5 years but the last 2 years we've barely had sex, maybe every few months.


I constantly find myself thinking and getting soaking wet over my ex boyfriend, at first I ignored it but it got worse, I have dreams of him fucking me and I wake up horny.


For the last 2 years I've been basically been playing with myself over my ex, so much I don't even get wet anymore for my boyfriend but I do over my ex.


I feel such a slut but I want him inside me again.

Move on for both your sakes

 

[uglyoldmanc]

.....
I feel such a slut but I want him inside me again.

sorry I'm so late to this party..
are you still with the boyfriend?
if so, why?

sex is NOT the defining part of any relationship. a relationship based only on sexual satisfaction is unlikely to last
but sex can be an extremely important part of a person's physical and mental welfare and unless both people in relationship have lost their sex drive, or agree to allow an open relationship then a situation that doesn't allow sexual satisfaction for one or both partners will create a self destructive relationship.

ask yourself, especially if you ARE still with him,

why has he gone of sex
physical injury
arguments
getting it elsewhere

did he change
or did you

was the sex good before it ended / reduced

are you thinking about the ex because he is all you've known prior to your boyfriend
or is he really that good

are you staying with the bf for reasons other than personal fulfilment
eg, cos of the kids, cos youve nowhere to go, cos who'd have me (seek professional help if you have been forced into believing no one else will or can love you)


The answers you tell yourself to those questions, and the questions they ill make you ask yourself, should help you decide what to do with the rest of your live and who to spend it with

I am incredibly lucky to have found the ideal person for me. she is incredible. but its taken 40+years, 4 long term relationships and god only knowns how many affairs n playmates to get to this point. sex is a hugely important aspect of my life and I have been in the position you find / found yourself and made the mistake of staying put when I should have left long before I eventually did
don't waste time with someone who doesn't, cannot or will not, make you complete.

 

[uglyoldmanc]

I'm mad jealous. (and very happy for you)

hi fire,
there's keyboard shortcuts that simply don't belong in a text entry box, n I manage to hit em everytime. grrrr. though, missimoo noticed the undo arrow which at least allows me to restore everything when I stupidly delete it all.

don't be. if you're single, then make sure your next partner KNOWs that relationships are a two way thing, full of compromises and gives and takes. both myself and missimoo came out of 24 year long (mentally, financially) abusive relationships and although she is far less experienced (ok, so I'm a slut, big deal, lol - note I refer to myself the way other men refer to women who have had decent sex lives. any man who calls himself a stud for sleeping around is mispronouncing the word 'pig') she knows she has to accept me for what I am, allow me to love her, and love to me.
if you're in a relationship that isn't giving you those thing, read the questions I posed to Thiccdirty and answer then for yourself (to yourself).

any relationship that doesn't include mutual respect, trust (uhmmm I c), friendship, love, understanding and acceptance is going to fail eventually.
a large helping of love making, as well as lusty sex, helps a lot too but isn't strictly necessary (say what?! lol)

I hope you're joking and that you have a loving, caring partner who can make you scream their name. but if you ever want / need to chat, just start a convo. (no subject off limits other than naughty pic exchanges)

btw, your padlock intrigues me, hehe