Longest dry spell

[chubbyfunster]

This will mostly apply to men here i assume, but what is your longest dry spell without sex?

I'm currently hitting seven years without proper sex, a crappy unsatisfying fumble three years ago i barely count lol.

I'm used to long stretches without sex but even i'm getting very squirrely and weird now haha.

So what is everyone's longest period of abstinence?? Confess!

 

[baldypaul76]

Must be coming up for about 7 years myself. My wife lost interest in sex completely, so I have been going without ever since. I joined this site last year, hoping to find a couple of connections that I could hook up with for some discreet relief, but drawn a blank so far.

 

[MrBigInches53]

6 or 7 ISH
I'm crawling up me walls

 

[Stretchit]

I'm 35 now, I was a semi pro bmxer, lost the V's at 17 and didn't have sex for about 7/8 years after that. Then had sex every now and then since. Sometimes every now and then, then sometimes a year apart. As I've never had a girlfriend to have sex with I generally only get booty calls every now and then when they want sex.

 

[chubbyfunster]

Sorry guys that sucks! Shame that such a basic need becomes a privilege isnt it? Ha

 

[Dannynash]

Coming up to a year for me. The odd blowy or handjob here and there. Pretty much everything but dick inside pussy for nearly a year haha

 

[Mature50sfun]

During my early 50's a period of nearly 2 years due to husbands health issues/complications

 

[jane2026]

Must be coming up for about 7 years myself. My wife lost interest in sex completely, so I have been going without ever since. I joined this site last year, hoping to find a couple of connections that I could hook up with for some discreet relief, but drawn a blank so far.

I would but To far away in Devon. No man should go without x

 

[baldypaul76]

I would but To far away in Devon. No man should go without x

If you ever find yourself near Liverpool, drop me a DM haha x

 

[Nuttynutster]

It is crazy that in a more liberal world most people are going without sex, my wife wouldn't have sex with me for over 8yrs up until 3yrs ago, now it's 2weeks a yr she gets horny and then thats it til next time

 

[MrBigInches53]

This will mostly apply to men here i assume, but what is your longest dry spell without sex?

I'm currently hitting seven years without proper sex, a crappy unsatisfying fumble three years ago i barely count lol.

I'm used to long stretches without sex but even i'm getting very squirrely and weird now haha.

So what is everyone's longest period of abstinence?? Confess!

Tooooo longggg
Almost like a decade

 

[MrBigInches53]

During my early 50's a period of nearly 2 years due to husbands health issues/complications

Just wondering
What area please

 

[Firefly]

18 years since having satisfying sex with a competent partner.
13 years since any sort of intimacy with my partner
10 years since I last tried to initiate any sort of intimacy. He got mad with me, complaining "why do you always need..." I decided in that moment whatever it was I needed, I would never get it from him, so better to stop wanting it. It was a rough transition to celibacy, but life on this side of that transition is much easier.

I do regularly enjoy self stimulating solo or with playmates remotely, so I hardly consider it a dry spell.

 

[Gazza89]

18 years since having satisfying sex with a competent partner.
13 years since any sort of intimacy with my partner
10 years since I last tried to initiate any sort of intimacy. He got mad with me, complaining "why do you always need..." I decided in that moment whatever it was I needed, I would never get it from him, so better to stop wanting it. It was a rough transition to celibacy, but life on this side of that transition is much easier.

I do regularly enjoy self stimulating solo or with playmates remotely, so I hardly consider it a dry spell.

Wow, when you say it like that mine doesn't compare. I think I'm coming up to almost a year. I stopped trying to initiate because I hated the feeling of rejection

 

[Firefly]

Wow, when you say it like that mine doesn't compare. I think I'm coming up to almost a year. I stopped trying to initiate because I hated the feeling of rejection

if you take it as a rejection, yeah it sucks. But if you take it as your partner is communicating something they need and taking steps to protect themselves then it's just the same emotional burden as someone saying yeah today's Tuesday.
Your partner isn't rejecting you, they're taking steps to protect themselves. Love and respect their strength. it's not an easy thing to do. And be curious about what they feel they need to protect themselves from...