Longest dry spell

chubbyfunster

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This will mostly apply to men here i assume, but what is your longest dry spell without sex?

I'm currently hitting seven years without proper sex, a crappy unsatisfying fumble three years ago i barely count lol.

I'm used to long stretches without sex but even i'm getting very squirrely and weird now haha.

So what is everyone's longest period of abstinence?? Confess!
 

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Must be coming up for about 7 years myself. My wife lost interest in sex completely, so I have been going without ever since. I joined this site last year, hoping to find a couple of connections that I could hook up with for some discreet relief, but drawn a blank so far.
 

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I'm 35 now, I was a semi pro bmxer, lost the V's at 17 and didn't have sex for about 7/8 years after that. Then had sex every now and then since. Sometimes every now and then, then sometimes a year apart. As I've never had a girlfriend to have sex with I generally only get booty calls every now and then when they want sex.
 

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Sorry guys that sucks! Shame that such a basic need becomes a privilege isnt it? Ha
 

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Coming up to a year for me. The odd blowy or handjob here and there. Pretty much everything but dick inside pussy for nearly a year haha
 

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Must be coming up for about 7 years myself. My wife lost interest in sex completely, so I have been going without ever since. I joined this site last year, hoping to find a couple of connections that I could hook up with for some discreet relief, but drawn a blank so far.
I would but To far away in Devon. No man should go without x
 

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It is crazy that in a more liberal world most people are going without sex, my wife wouldn't have sex with me for over 8yrs up until 3yrs ago, now it's 2weeks a yr she gets horny and then thats it til next time
 

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This will mostly apply to men here i assume, but what is your longest dry spell without sex?

I'm currently hitting seven years without proper sex, a crappy unsatisfying fumble three years ago i barely count lol.

I'm used to long stretches without sex but even i'm getting very squirrely and weird now haha.

So what is everyone's longest period of abstinence?? Confess!
Tooooo longggg
Almost like a decade
 
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