Going out of my mind

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I'm married and our sex life is over so we're just basically friends now which is so hard when I'm horny all the time. I've not had sex for 3 years and it's absolutely destroying me mentally. I don't really want to pay for it because I don't feel the same excitement out of it, I like someone to sleep with me because they want to, they fancy me or like me, not because they have to.

I'm signing up to these places because my mental health is totally destroyed and I need sex so bad, this seems my only option unless I do bite the bullet and pay but I would absolutely love to find someone who will have some fun with me. Just that one person, I'm not looking to try and fuck 20+ girls I know that will never happen but just that one person would be amazing.

Feltham, Hanworth, Hounslow area
 

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I'm married and our sex life is over so we're just basically friends now which is so hard when I'm horny all the time. I've not had sex for 3 years and it's absolutely destroying me mentally. I don't really want to pay for it because I don't feel the same excitement out of it, I like someone to sleep with me because they want to, they fancy me or like me, not because they have to.

I'm signing up to these places because my mental health is totally destroyed and I need sex so bad, this seems my only option unless I do bite the bullet and pay but I would absolutely love to find someone who will have some fun with me. Just that one person, I'm not looking to try and fuck 20+ girls I know that will never happen but just that onShe feelse person would be amazing.

Feltham, Hanworth, Hounslow area

Have you asked her how she feels

Mayb she just needs restarting
 

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Sounds sadly familiar.
Got to ask but does she know how badly you need a shag? What if she said she's okay with you fucking someone else?
 

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I've mentioned the lack of sex but never sleeping with someone else, I'll just do it and she can't moan because it would be totally her fault. She's told me she's started to question her sexuality, she clearly has no passion for me anymore. Despite us being so compatible and perfect together I'm thinking I need to get out and start over. I need someone who has a similar sex drive to me and excited me. Would be very difficult to break up with her though as I say we get on too well. Apart from sex it's a perfect kind of life. Got decisions to make that's for sure
 
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I'm married and our sex life is over so we're just basically friends now which is so hard when I'm horny all the time. I've not had sex for 3 years and it's absolutely destroying me mentally. I don't really want to pay for it because I don't feel the same excitement out of it, I like someone to sleep with me because they want to, they fancy me or like me, not because they have to.

I'm signing up to these places because my mental health is totally destroyed and I need sex so bad, this seems my only option unless I do bite the bullet and pay but I would absolutely love to find someone who will have some fun with me. Just that one person, I'm not looking to try and fuck 20+ girls I know that will never happen but just that one person would be amazing.

Feltham, Hanworth, Hounslow area
Almost the same as my story. Just I had no sex with my wife for just over the year. She just said she dont need it anymore. I dont know is it age related (we both in mid 40s) or she's having a menopause and it'll pass? No idea. I'm horny every day and we used to have sex 4-5 days a week and now no sex dor over a year. She used to enjoy my tongue skills on her holes and I could cum only from her moans. She dont want it anymore.
I started looking here for someone who enjoys getting oral, so I can have a wank from the taste or smell after that. I don't mind even a shag but I believe finding someone for oral is easier.

I still love her and we still going out for dinner etc. I dont know what happened and how to solve this issue with her. Seems like talking doesn't help at all.
 

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Such a familiar story. I was chatting to a bloke on line the other day who has taken to meeting other guys for oral because it feels like he's not really cheating on his wife but is still getting some kind of action.
Would love to know what the right answer is, for me it might end up being to fuck complete strangers, couple and singles. Maybe I can rent myself out to couples that want)need an extra pair of hands.
 

OGMCFC86

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The idea of sleeping with strangers is exciting I certainly wouldn't turn to guys but what people do is totally up to them, I've seen a lot of interesting people on here and are taking to one women that seems interested and exactly what I need so that's also exciting. I love my wife to bits but we have to do what we have to do. I need to regain some self confidence and be happy again
 
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