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southwestmatt

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Hi All,

Not sure what to write so sorry if this is crap.

Brand new to site and not been into a forum like this size the msn chat room says. Yes, I’m of that period.

45, male, white, from south west England.

Extremely sexually adventurous at least in the mind, wish I know in my 20’s what I know now and I would have had a hell of a time.

Joined this forum to hope to chat to people (well dah, Matt), and hope to avoid the BS and lies that I think comes with online chat. Don’t mind you pretending to be someone else, just don’t think I by into. So in other words, look for people to be themselves, hopefully their naughty kinky selves :-).

Would love to find a few people to connect with for regular chats. Happy to share and chat about anything in any forum and engage in threads that spark my curiosity.

I’m honest, so just ask, if I don’t want to tell you I won’t, but I’ll an open person. Hope to find some cool people to have good chats etc with.
 

divalicious

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Hi All,

Not sure what to write so sorry if this is crap.

Brand new to site and not been into a forum like this size the msn chat room says. Yes, I’m of that period.

45, male, white, from south west England.

Extremely sexually adventurous at least in the mind, wish I know in my 20’s what I know now and I would have had a hell of a time.

Joined this forum to hope to chat to people (well dah, Matt), and hope to avoid the BS and lies that I think comes with online chat. Don’t mind you pretending to be someone else, just don’t think I by into. So in other words, look for people to be themselves, hopefully their naughty kinky selves :-).

Would love to find a few people to connect with for regular chats. Happy to share and chat about anything in any forum and engage in threads that spark my curiosity.

I’m honest, so just ask, if I don’t want to tell you I won’t, but I’ll an open person. Hope to find some cool people to have good chats etc with.
Welcome,‍‌‍‍‌‍‌‍‍‌ Matt. To be honest, your stuff wasn’t crap at all. There aren’t many times when it’s not nice to see someone just telling you who they are and what they want. Also, there is nothing bad with being from the MSN era, a lot of us came from that world too.

You appear to be an open-minded person, and you also seem to know yourself, which is very important in talks like this. Simply wanting sincere conversations without the lying and pretending is absolutely right. People don’t have to be flawless, just authentic enough to be able to have a decent conversation.

If you want to bond on a regular basis, I’m pretty sure you’ll discover people here who are your kind of people. You seem to be an approachable person and it’s also great that you’re quite clear about what you want, which is a good start. I am excited to see you around the ‍‌‍‍‌‍‌‍‍‌threads.
 

southwestmatt

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Thank you both for your response and saying Hi.

I can not really recall what MSN Chat was like, but I do remember many text conversations on many different topics but adult and social. It was a better time for social chat, not bogged down with the trolls and hate that can be found on a lot of places these days. I think also the sexual chat was also just forming too, and it is was a time that I started expanding myself. At the time I'd had multiple girlfriends and some explorative sexual relationships, but all of them along the normal sexual arcs of life. One girlfriends was much more explorative than the others and we had a lot of fun.

As I have grown older I look back and think of how much I would have done if I knew then what I did now, but isn't that just how live works :-). It was also a different time. The 90's were just ending and the 00's starting. I was a teen in the 90's and grew throughout the 00's.

These days the opportunities have grown, but so has the BS. Even now as I look at this site I can see the AI pics and modified images of which people claim to be them, which I find disappointing. I don't care if you want to role-play as someone else, that is escapism and I think it can ben healthy at time. Scanning the threads so far there seems to be some genuine people looking to share and chat. The also seems lots of 'retro-esq' images which seem to have been taken from an early time, but still the people in them are sexy.

I am still not sure where my interests go. I am 100% more open minded than I used to be. Maybe that has come with age (45), and I certain lost interest in peoples games and BS a long time ago. I certainly have fetishes, things that turn me on a lot, things that I wonder how they would be in reality over just in my mind. I wonder sometimes though it is better to stay in my mind than be disappointed in realty. Maybe I build it up and an idea too much and could be underwhelmed by the reality.

I have not posted there, but I enjoy exploring and reading the stores people write and post to Literotica. There are some really hot and erotic stories that cover so many genres and sexual acts. It has opened my mind further. There is also dull writing and some very weird and not to my taste extreme stories, but each to their own.
 

southwestmatt

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I am very fond a long slow masterbation session looking at some sexy pictures of videos, reading stories to chatting. I am trying to find different ways to do it to try and increase pleasure or alter the experience. I enjoy edging and the build up to almost, then to let it drop down a bit but continue the slow strokes to keep it boiling over. I am thinking of trying to prostate or anal stimulation at the same time now in different forms to see if that can alter and enhance my pleasure. I quite like the idea of being opened up and filled and want to experience that to see if I would like it. I also love cum, don't like the mess it can make, but I find it a turn on seeing it explode out as well as knowing it is an erotic action and has different implications depending on where it goes or lands.
 

Piearse

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Hi All,

Not sure what to write so sorry if this is crap.

Brand new to site and not been into a forum like this size the msn chat room says. Yes, I’m of that period.

45, male, white, from south west England.

Extremely sexually adventurous at least in the mind, wish I know in my 20’s what I know now and I would have had a hell of a time.

Joined this forum to hope to chat to people (well dah, Matt), and hope to avoid the BS and lies that I think comes with online chat. Don’t mind you pretending to be someone else, just don’t think I by into. So in other words, look for people to be themselves, hopefully their naughty kinky selves :-).

Would love to find a few people to connect with for regular chats. Happy to share and chat about anything in any forum and engage in threads that spark my curiosity.

I’m honest, so just ask, if I don’t want to tell you I won’t, but I’ll an open person. Hope to find some cool people to have good chats etc with.
Hi , great to hear some on here who wants to to be honest and open, I would love to chat and get to know more about you, and of course I will reciprocate. Pm me if you would like to chat more.
 

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Hi I'm new here too can't quite work it out posted a thread that wasent answered and I've noticed the chat rooms seem to have same group of people having their own conversation maybe I'll get the hang of it joined as wanted to talk about my sexual experiences and get some advise with something anal play related.
 

IAmInWSussex52

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Hi I'm new here too can't quite work it out posted a thread that wasent answered and I've noticed the chat rooms seem to have same group of people having their own conversation maybe I'll get the hang of it joined as wanted to talk about my sexual experiences and get some advise with something anal play related.
Hiya hello
Very happy to chat to you about anything..
Can direct message if you like
 

sussexnylons

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Hi All,

Not sure what to write so sorry if this is crap.

Brand new to site and not been into a forum like this size the msn chat room says. Yes, I’m of that period.

45, male, white, from south west England.

Extremely sexually adventurous at least in the mind, wish I know in my 20’s what I know now and I would have had a hell of a time.

Joined this forum to hope to chat to people (well dah, Matt), and hope to avoid the BS and lies that I think comes with online chat. Don’t mind you pretending to be someone else, just don’t think I by into. So in other words, look for people to be themselves, hopefully their naughty kinky selves :-).

Would love to find a few people to connect with for regular chats. Happy to share and chat about anything in any forum and engage in threads that spark my curiosity.

I’m honest, so just ask, if I don’t want to tell you I won’t, but I’ll an open person. Hope to find some cool people to have good chats etc with.
Welcome, let your kinkiness out. Sometime wonder if it has to be hidden but it's always there looking for a release.
 

marriedpussyisbest

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Hi All,

Not sure what to write so sorry if this is crap.

Brand new to site and not been into a forum like this size the msn chat room says. Yes, I’m of that period.

45, male, white, from south west England.

Extremely sexually adventurous at least in the mind, wish I know in my 20’s what I know now and I would have had a hell of a time.

Joined this forum to hope to chat to people (well dah, Matt), and hope to avoid the BS and lies that I think comes with online chat. Don’t mind you pretending to be someone else, just don’t think I by into. So in other words, look for people to be themselves, hopefully their naughty kinky selves :-).

Would love to find a few people to connect with for regular chats. Happy to share and chat about anything in any forum and engage in threads that spark my curiosity.

I’m honest, so just ask, if I don’t want to tell you I won’t, but I’ll an open person. Hope to find some cool people to have good chats etc with.
Hi and Welcome,
Im quite new here too. Completely get what you mean about our 20s to what we know now. I use to think it was just me with the kinks but turns out there is a whole community of people with similar and shared interests and experiences.
I am fortunate enough to have a wife with a similar outlook and that has lead us on many exciting adventures!
Would be great to connect and get a chat buddy. Definitely open minded here
 

hardashell

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Hi I'm new here too can't quite work it out posted a thread that wasent answered and I've noticed the chat rooms seem to have same group of people having their own conversation maybe I'll get the hang of it joined as wanted to talk about my sexual experiences and get some advise with something anal play related.
Always happy to listen and exchange if you want to. X
 

Condor

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Hi I'm new here too can't quite work it out posted a thread that wasent answered and I've noticed the chat rooms seem to have same group of people having their own conversation maybe I'll get the hang of it joined as wanted to talk about my sexual experiences and get some advise with something anal play related.
Sorry to hear you havent had a good start to your chat experience, please feel free to drop me a DM and we will see if I can help, honesty is a great thing I hope we can all be

X
 

Condor

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Hi All,

Not sure what to write so sorry if this is crap.

Brand new to site and not been into a forum like this size the msn chat room says. Yes, I’m of that period.

45, male, white, from south west England.

Extremely sexually adventurous at least in the mind, wish I know in my 20’s what I know now and I would have had a hell of a time.

Joined this forum to hope to chat to people (well dah, Matt), and hope to avoid the BS and lies that I think comes with online chat. Don’t mind you pretending to be someone else, just don’t think I by into. So in other words, look for people to be themselves, hopefully their naughty kinky selves :-).

Would love to find a few people to connect with for regular chats. Happy to share and chat about anything in any forum and engage in threads that spark my curiosity.

I’m honest, so just ask, if I don’t want to tell you I won’t, but I’ll an open person. Hope to find some cool people to have good chats etc with.
Great introduction Matt, hope you find what your looking for and feel free to have a chat sometime.
 
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