Need help !

[Curioussam21]

So I'm 43 and always been average in bed not ashamed it is what it is.. but my prostate as been enlarged alot recently due to too much caffeine. I've had the C check and all clear . I'm trying to cut down the caffeine obviously. But when it comes too sexy time with the wife i struggle to keep him solid to perform after a few minutes it starts too wear off . And also I'm very very sensitive sooooo I don't last long . I've tried the blue pills but that just gives me headaches and makes me quite light headed !!!
Great sex with the pill but after I feel like I'm dying . So after any other advise on staying solid and big . And aslo what can I use too help with not ending so quick ! Any creams.or natural stuff anyone can recommend . Thanks

 

[Curioussam21]

I sometimes use a pump and cock ring, I find it gets my cock like it was when I was 21…rock solid and fat. The Mrs loves my cock and always has but when I pump it she likes that it fills her mouth and pussy that bit more than it does now like it used to and the memories of it not fitting properly in her mouth turns her on more. I’m only 7 inches hard and around 5 in diameter so not huge by the way. So yeah, I’d recommend trying a pump mate.

As for cumming quick, I used to be able to fuck for at least 30 minutes then when I cum I’d keep fucking and stay hard.
I’m 41 now and things changed because of age so I can’t do what I used to be able to. Less foreplay for me helps because if I get licked and sucked a lot I know I’ll cum quicker so there’s times where she’ll suck for a little bit but all the focus is on her only.

Cheers bud

 

[Carollo]

So I'm 43 and always been average in bed not ashamed it is what it is.. but my prostate as been enlarged alot recently due to too much caffeine. I've had the C check and all clear . I'm trying to cut down the caffeine obviously. But when it comes too sexy time with the wife i struggle to keep him solid to perform after a few minutes it starts too wear off . And also I'm very very sensitive sooooo I don't last long . I've tried the blue pills but that just gives me headaches and makes me quite light headed !!!
Great sex with the pill but after I feel like I'm dying . So after any other advise on staying solid and big . And aslo what can I use too help with not ending so quick ! Any creams.or natural stuff anyone can recommend . Thanks

Have you done the obvious and spoken to your doctor??? Honestly You’ll get more help than random comments from people on a sex chat website