I really need some help

Letmetasteusoon

UKChat Initiate
Joined
Dec 1, 2022
Messages
50
Reaction score
10
I’m 39 married my wife will not let me go down on her I want to find someone who will tell me if it’s me or her I love giving oral so much I don’t expect anything in return unless you want to I’m in Gloucestershire happy to meet/travel. Look forward to any help any age any size x
 

Letmetasteusoon

UKChat Initiate
Joined
Dec 1, 2022
Messages
50
Reaction score
10
I’m 39 married my wife will not let me go down on her I want to find someone who will tell me if it’s me or her I love giving oral so much I don’t expect anything in return unless you want to I’m in Gloucestershire happy to meet/travel. Look forward to any help any age any size x
Really no one with any advice I’m genuinely concerned please
 

JG929292

UKChat Expert
Joined
Dec 2, 2022
Messages
133
Reaction score
730
Has your wife recently stopped letting you give her oral or has she never liked it? Message me direct as am happy to help.
 

Firefly

UKChat Expert
Joined
Aug 11, 2021
Messages
9,991
Reaction score
33,573
Describe your technique for us.
 

niknoo

UKChat Newbie
Joined
Dec 3, 2022
Messages
6
Reaction score
0
I’m 39 married my wife will not let me go down on her I want to find someone who will tell me if it’s me or her I love giving oral so much I don’t expect anything in return unless you want to I’m in Gloucestershire happy to meet/travel. Look forward to any help any age any size x
 
M

M47UKHorny

Guest
I’m 39 married my wife will not let me go down on her I want to find someone who will tell me if it’s me or her I love giving oral so much I don’t expect anything in return unless you want to I’m in Gloucestershire happy to meet/travel. Look forward to any help any age any size x
I think it's you mate.
 

Firefly

UKChat Expert
Joined
Aug 11, 2021
Messages
9,991
Reaction score
33,573
Why would someone like it then stop liking it though ?
1. as we grow older and our hormones/bodies change so can our sexual tastes
2. could be she never really liked it, but only feels confident enough in your relationship to say so now (because she loves you and so feels free to be honest with you)
3. oral can lead to yeast infections, could be she is left uncomfortable for days after a good tonguing and has decided life is better without it
4. could be that she wants other things more and finds the experience boring, off-turning, under or over stimulating
Boring -> the mind wanders and one starts thinking about chores that need doing, other ways the time could be being used more purposefully
Off-turning -> body stops making lady lube, things get unpleasantly tender and sensitive
Under-stimulating -> like having that itchy spot on your back and the person scratches around it
Over-stimulating -> orgasm leaves everything desensitized (numb) and prone to injury...if one is overstimulated and desensitized during oral, PIV sex can become painful or damaging
5. you may be doing something she doesn't like (anymore)
6. self-consciousness about ones vagina, taste, body...being vulnerable...
7. emotional detachment

I am sure there are more possible reasons, too.
Things change. If you are really worried, talk about it with her. Openly and honestly. It might be a can of worms, or it might be something that is easily remedied. She is the only one who can actually answer your questions.
 
Back
Top